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Originally Posted by fredd-bird
I'm feeling rather beta myself right now as my POF girl has flaked on me hardcore over the last two days. About to alpha up and giver her the goodbye, but first I must gym.
Gotta get dat pump on. But yeah, the flakes are the worst.
It sucks, but it's important to remember that you just don't know what people are getting themselves into sometimes. You may find the perfect girl and she may have just broken up with some dbag only to go right back into his arms. Then she stops texting yadda yadda. :/
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Originally Posted by Syndr0m
I had that once with a Chinese girl I really hit it off with. Pretty sure it had to do with me being way too enthusiastic about her and messaging her several times a day. She was giving me so many compliments and signs on our first date I thought it was already in the bag. Started flaking after a week of texting and I had already asked her out twice again. Should've used the push & pull technique. Was only pulling. PUA skills 4/10.
I'm actually glad you shared that story. So Friday I have this date w/ this girl I'm suuuuper pumped to see. She's so into me from our messages and texts. So enthusiastic and interested and asking me questions. I mean let's face it, girls suck at all that. They want to be pursued but when they like a guy they pursue him. Now I feel partially like that guy. feelsgoodman. But, I can't let it get to my head and show too much enthusiasm. Gotta remember the push and pull. ty.
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Originally Posted by saw7988
I need to get my **** together. I'm not saying I have any reasonable looks or skills whatsoever, but I'm not even trying enough to give myself a chance. Just so damn busy.
Yeah cmon man. I've gone on dates with 2 lawyers in the last cpl months. They work like 70hrs+/week. And they do other stuff. You can make time to go on dates. I just met up with this girl for coffee. It was supposed to be a HH but the place was packed so we went next door. We chatted for like 90 mins. She was nice. Will not see again. But yeah, it was such a small time investment. Or messages back and forth lasted like a week and I didn't even spend a lot of time on them either. You can do it brah.
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Originally Posted by saw7988
BTM is a good lookin' dude, no doubt. Plus it sounds like he's got the game component to complement.
Awww, ty.
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Originally Posted by The Yugoslavian
Wow, DT bringing it. A+ post, would read again. Especially if expanded into a short story style episodic journey through the life of a 2p2 H&Fer (accompanied by expert .gifs).
We'd all start out with the enthusiasm of loco and dreams of lifting like cha59 but end up mired in the SALTS, MASTS, and YALTS.
Yeah we need like a Eurorounders version that dt writes about H&F. I'd see the movie.
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Originally Posted by saw7988
Truth, my man. Truth.
My area just sucks so much, I dunno.
People who are doing this OKC thing, what % of girls would you say you're interested in? I'm in upstate NY near Albany, and honestly, it's like 1-5% for me...
No idea what % of girls on the site, but like...I message a few girls per day that I'd be willing to go on dates with. My response rate is like 30% or so. Most of them I'm not getting too excited about but a few here and there I do. Also, as I've learned, it's very easy to be surprised by the person irl. It's def worth meeting up.