Yeah. Tough lurve is still lurve.
FWIW, I'm European too and I can confirm that there is a slightly different view on things wrt to appearance etc. here. While it's not true that everyone is extremely skinny (statistically, a high % of people is overweight), you def. lack the category of "heavy high school or college football players". If you are heavier than 200 lbs here, you are usually either fat or a stupid bro ('pumper' as we like to call them here). So I can def. feel where Soulman is coming from and I have huge dislike for the belly fat that I have gathered too, esp. because I was more of the skinny type for all my life. In contrast to Soul though, I'm happy to have added like at least 110 lbs to my squat, 160 lbs to my DL and 50 lbs to my bench since I started lifting with proper technique. That gives me a larger frame that hides the belly.
Soul, I think you are overthinking and overanalyzing a lot of this. You don't need RFL etc. Just adjust your meals. I accidentally ate too little during the last weeks and I lost a couple of BF% (and got in trouble in the gym) without even losing weight. So just eat less for a while. And btw. I don't know how old you are, but I'm in my late 20s and most of the women I meet now say, they rather have a heavier guy who's a man than a skinny dude who's a boy. So get over it.