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Old Yesterday, 03:23 AM   #9976
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

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I think for N1h being a switch initially would 100% be beneficial if he was to go down that pathway. That's because I don't think he is naturally suited to being a Dom and experiencing both positions would help him understand what is needed. Having said that a good Dom definitely doesn't need to have experienced being submissive before. N1h was probably half way decent with the physical/sexual aspect of dominance but not great at the emotional and mental side of it which is just as crucial.
Figuring out the mental/emotional side of your partner and communicating your mental/emotional needs to him/her is very hard even in regular relationships and many people never figure it out. I bet it's nearly impossible in dom/sub relationships, especially because these types are very likely to select for much more neurotic people than the general population. Which is why I'm making a blanket statement that you guys are freaks and weird dudes.

On a sidenote for all your alphadominator pua nuclear red pill neg 10 inch bbc anal creampie experts/16 year old submissive school girl getting sex educated by teacher, I have a question: Is there an imbalance in the number of doms/subs? My gf is fascinated by gays and watches gay porn regularly and tells me that bottoms outnumber tops by like 2:1 in western countries and like 10:1 in China. Just using my imagination, I'm guessing there's about 100 dom males for every sub female. What do the numbers look like?
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Old Yesterday, 04:32 AM   #9977
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

I'm vanilla as anything. Saving myself for marriage and it will be 100% missionary .
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Old Yesterday, 04:57 AM   #9978
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Wow.
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Old Yesterday, 05:48 AM   #9979
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

N1 shouldn't play any of such games. He sooo doesn't have the skills for either side.

Re: numbers. I would say that there are a lot more subs of both sexes than doms. I clearly don't count wannabe doms like N1 for real.

Chip + ElD said a bunch of smart stuff on the subject.
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Old Yesterday, 06:43 AM   #9980
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

I think that bdsm is like anything in that there are different levels to it. Fetlife is obviously way too full on for N1h but there are plenty of girls out there on dating sites who will say they are submissive but all they really mean is that they like a slap on the butt and for the guy to take charge in the sack. It's not a full on lifestyle it's just a little kink. Something like that N1h should be able to handle. I think any kind of relationship he will struggle with until he gets more practice. He is inexperienced. There's nothing wrong with that. Obviously a TR from fetlife was a little too good to knock back as far as thread entertainment goes.
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Old Yesterday, 08:04 AM   #9981
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

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Also chip: What is "a little"

I'm guessing they aren't following the h and f tradition of turning adjectives into nouns such "an old" and "a fat"
Girl who likes to pretend to be very young, and possibly your daughter.
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Old Yesterday, 08:35 AM   #9982
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

Time for me to make a rare appearance in the N1H thread just to say that the last three evoken posts are top class A++ pure posting gold. Thank you. Thank you.
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Old Yesterday, 10:25 AM   #9983
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

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Figuring out the mental/emotional side of your partner and communicating your mental/emotional needs to him/her is very hard even in regular relationships and many people never figure it out. I bet it's nearly impossible in dom/sub relationships, especially because these types are very likely to select for much more neurotic people than the general population.
You'd be surprised how many everyday people on the street are into kink and what those might be.

Actually, D/s relationships require more conversation about needs and boundaries than vanilla relationships. They often involve bdsm. What each partner needs and expects needs to be worked out carefully in advance.

'Aftercare' is important. A sub needs to be brought back gently after a session. This is where I suspect N1 fell down the most.

She wanted to be treated like a dirty crrampie anal slut. But after, she needs to know she is respected and cared for.

Doing 1 without following up with 2 will burn out a D/s relationship quickly.

That includes taking her out, as N1's girl was asking for.
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Old Yesterday, 10:46 AM   #9984
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

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I think that bdsm is like anything in that there are different levels to it. Fetlife is obviously way too full on for N1h but there are plenty of girls out there on dating sites who will say they are submissive but all they really mean is that they like a slap on the butt and for the guy to take charge in the sack. It's not a full on lifestyle it's just a little kink. .
Yeah these ones are not crazy and are the norm in my very limited experience.


But god damn an otherwise perfect girl who wanted vigorous choking, cutting, any form of human waste, weird verbal degradation, or the like would be an instant deal breaker. Maybe buttplug girl is between the "slap on the ass" type the the "full on" type.
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Old Yesterday, 11:26 AM   #9985
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

Evoken,

Step away from the manga, bro.
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Old Yesterday, 11:32 AM   #9986
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Time for me to make a rare appearance in the N1H thread just to say that the last three evoken posts are top class A++ pure posting gold. Thank you. Thank you.
Thanks, I thought the delayed onset muscle soreness one was quite 8th grade but I'm glad it was appreciated by a man of such refined tastes.
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Old Yesterday, 12:34 PM   #9987
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Re: N1H's Log: Becoming a 3% Man 27 Emoticons at a Time

Wouldn't a legit sadist be incapable of "aftercare"?
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Old Yesterday, 01:21 PM   #9988
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Wouldn't a legit sadist be incapable of "aftercare"?
I think so. **** gets complicated and also touches on personality disorders and other mental illnesses.

But, there are lots of people who post in FetLife who show that when it's working, the partners can be very happy together.

Like open relationships, it takes effort and commitment to make it work.
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Old Yesterday, 05:30 PM   #9989
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Time for me to make a rare appearance in the N1H thread just to say that the last three evoken posts are top class A++ pure posting gold. Thank you. Thank you.
So much this
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Old Yesterday, 06:59 PM   #9990
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