Why do you assign (so much) importance to meaningless things? Why not demand him to do some things that proves he cares instead of just "showing"? I know you'll take what you can get but you're way smarter than this.

What did you get him for Valentines Day?

His favorite cookies and Candies. And he has this stupid big red insulated cup that he carries with him everywhere and he mentioned he wanted a similar one for work, so I got him one.

Is Candie a stripper? Might have found the reason why he doesn't pay attention to you.

Is she hot?

Yeah, THAT'S all you want, lol.

Just saw your edit. So it was two strippers?

What's the EV of code buying you something? You'll stay in the relationship regardless. Might as well buy himself more candy.

MLY,
Maybe you just aren't a good fit for Code

So like yesterday or the day before then?

She smokes every day

Mr,

Nah, she quit smoking.

She's complaining that code still hasn't made her his #1 after quitting smoking, so obviously she is well and truly off the cigs, right MLY?

Hopefully when she has a bikini body (maybe next year?) she'll have the confidence to move on.

Just a reminder to those trolling the low hanging fruit. This isn't OOT.

What substance, except for failed comedy do any of these recent posts consist of? You try to contain M in a thread, hurt her feelings, and she stopped posting.....so you follow her to a forum I'd wager many of you have little to no interest in.

Health is not just physical, health is also mental. If you vultures can't let M write in her log/diary how she really feels, you are hindering her progress. This thread is meant to be her space, not yours for entertainment.


P.s. I have been on anti code train, but that is besides the point.

Excuse me while I step off my white horse.

Thanks buddywiser.

I really wish everyone from OOT would stop quoting my post over there after I have left and longer wish to post there.

Anyone trolling here needs to stay out of my log.

I had a bad day yesterday and was trying to stuff my feelings with food.

I bought a pack of cigarettes and smoked all day yesterday. Starting back over at day one today. I've got my patch on and my losenges.

Code3 was waiting until this weekend to do something and has something planned for us, so maybe I should just be excited about that.

I feel like I'm suppressing all of these bad feelings I have towards him in regards to him not wanting to commit to me or take up for me with his family. Ive been trying not to focus on those things and trying to just enjoy everyday, but as soon as he dissapointment me or acts like I'm not important to him they surface again.

Oops, looks I stumbled into the "Unhealthy and Non-fitness" forum.

Our relationship has improved tremendously and it seems I'm still struggling with letting go of past hurt. I've been trying to focus on everyday and moving forward, but it's hard.

So I had a bad day, but my month is looking good. I've only had one other day above maintenance calories this month.


My weight has been going up and down between 236 and 238 everyday; I should be at 234 right now. I'm hoping the weight drops off the next two weeks.

What do you mean you should be at 234?

Did you completely abandon your quest for accurate calorie logging?

That Chick Fil A Grilled Sandwich is 310 calories (not to mention the 820mg of sodium).

Chick Fil A

You need to accurately count calories. You are eating hundreds of calories a day more than you think you are.

Then she should probably stop posting non-health related things here. She has an OOT thread and posting about Code really has nothing to do with her losing weight and eating healthy. Yeah, a bad relationship might lead to her making poor decisions, but her posting about how code treats her, how he won't commit, and especially about her boss/work is off-topic even if it is her log.

Basically, if she doesn't want OOT in here, she needs to stop bringing OOT in here. She brought up her work situation, she brought up how she didn't get anything for V-Day and asked questions related to both. Yes, there has been a little trolling, but I think most people are actually giving her advice. But it's up to her if she doesn't want her thread to get off-topic since she's the one always bringing up non-health topics.