MLYLT learns to love herself and changes her life (for real this time!) - Page 404

Fabian,

While I have my suspicions, in this case I’m not sure. She said her boss disregards her plans when aware of them, so perhaps she was aware of this timeline too.

Either way, M needs to adjust her work process to coincide with the way her boss works.

11-15-2017 , 02:32 PM

#10077

jmakin

banned

Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 30,120

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I'm thinking about my perception a lot tonight. It's just so crazy how your mind can see something one way at some point and see it completely different at another point in time.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I'm frustrated with my work schedule right now and I just want to gripe for a bit.

My boss is making me take this dumbass training that I had 6 months ago just because it's being hosted at our location. Such a ****ing waste of money and my time. In October I had planned out everything I was going to get done through the end of the year. Now this week is just wasted. And, I was just told Monday that I would have to be in Salt Lake the week after next. Another week gone.

I am taking a week vacation next week, and I'm going to have to work the entire time to catch up on being out of the office for 3 weeks. Uggh. It wouldn't be so bad if I hadn't already sent my plans for projects to Boss^2 saying x would be done by the end of November, Y will be completed the first week of December, and Z will be rolled out by the end of the year. My whole plan is messed up, and my boss is just like whatever la da da da da. She just completely disregards my plans and schedule. She does this daily too. 7:30-8 I go over my plan for the day and get organized and from 9-10 I'm most productive and get my urgent things done. I've already explained this to her and she always trys to get me to come to her office or do some other **** just to piss me off and throw my whole day off.

this is one of those things where your perception probably != reality.

11-15-2017 , 06:58 PM

#10078

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Diablo

El D,
I understand where you are coming from and see how doing this would be beneficial in normal circumstances. But, my boss works very erratic and worries way too much what people think about her. As soon as someone ask something from her she drops everything to do it.....she expects me to drop everything to do it. It becomes a constant cycle of jumping around to different task and never completing anything and is so inefficient and unproductive.
I make a long term schedule that incorporates a daily schedule with contingency built in to "fight fires" or suddenly having to travel. In this particular instance, I did not have enough contingency time built in to my long term schedule to make up for being out for two full unplanned weeks.
Everything is prioritized and I keep an emailing schedule as well. No email goes more than 4hrs without a response. If the task will to answer someone takes more than a few mins it goes on my next day schedule based on priority.

Just bouncing around and jumping to every task that my boss wants immediately is idiotic and inefficient. Her trying to micromanage when she is completely unorganized is idiotic. Was in her office yesterday for a min and saw that her email had 895 unread emails!

I have tried to be more flexible with her and have explained that just leave me the **** alone between these times, or email me the day before and I will work what she needs in and give her a completion time/date.

And, she was well aware of my plans and schedule. I went over it with her twice so she would leave me alone and let me work. But, her not working by any type of schedule or pattern it just doesn't click with her and she probably isnt even listening to me.

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11-15-2017 , 07:17 PM

#10079

Didace

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 19,879

MLYLT,

Even so...

11-15-2017 , 07:37 PM

#10080

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I just wanted to gripe a little bit. Not really intending to have so.e lo g discussion about it.

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11-15-2017 , 07:41 PM

#10081

jmakin

banned

Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 30,120

Let’s move on

11-15-2017 , 08:25 PM

#10082

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I just need to stop complaining so much. While this week had been incredibly boring and a waste of time, I've gotten to visit with coworkers from other locations and just relax and daydream all day.

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11-15-2017 , 09:08 PM

#10083

Ungoliant

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,330

Was daydreaming all day part of your long term schedule or does that fall under the category of "fighting fires"?

11-15-2017 , 09:19 PM

#10084

Land O Lakes

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 7,959

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

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U wot?

11-15-2017 , 09:34 PM

#10085

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Fixed

11-15-2017 , 09:43 PM

#10086

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I got in a very quick workout today:

Squats:
3x5x140

Bench:
1x20x45
2x5x105
1x6x105

DB rows:
3x10x40

Lat pulldown:
1x10x90
1x8x90
1x6x90

Facepulls:
3x20x50

DB ISO:
2x10x20

11-15-2017 , 09:52 PM

#10087

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ungoliant

Was daydreaming all day part of your long term schedule or does that fall under the category of "fighting fires"?

I'm not allowed to do work. I had my computer open answering emails this morning @8:05 and my boss sent me an email from her phone to tell me to close my computer....people were still getting coffee and situated. She is bored as **** too and has been leaving and chilling in her office.

11-16-2017 , 12:39 AM

#10088

rakemeplz

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 12,648

Gotta be hard work managing these top performers.

11-16-2017 , 01:28 AM

#10089

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

:/ I always look forward to your post..... disappointed

11-16-2017 , 01:30 AM

#10090

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I'm about at 1350 for the day; didn't hit my goal for the week, but I can still pull through the rest of the month.
I have hot to get more walking in!

11-16-2017 , 01:30 AM

#10091

ChiddyBang

veteran

Join Date: Jul 2012 Posts: 2,873

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Just try to make this ladies life easier. It'll catch her completely off guard and might even make your life easier!

11-16-2017 , 12:00 PM

#10092

Didace

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 19,879

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Are you doing some of that "dumb" training all day?

11-16-2017 , 12:47 PM

#10093

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

2nd Week of November progress:

The next 6days are ovulation week and I'm trying to stay strong and keep my calls down. I'm also about to start a steroid, so it's going to be a struggle.

11-16-2017 , 01:04 PM

#10094

Black Aces 518

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 9,463

Why is sleep the night of the 10th the only cell blacked out? Good work hitting the gym!

11-16-2017 , 02:39 PM

#10095

THAY3R

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 36,550

Friday night is F*** night

11-16-2017 , 02:56 PM

#10096

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I didn't log that day and forgot how much I slept.

11-16-2017 , 07:54 PM

#10097

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

11/16 Thurs exercise:

DL:
3x5x175

Leg Press:
3x12x250

ISO lat rows:
1x10x45s
2x10x75s

Not much and not much time, but I guess something is better than nothing.

I did a video of the DL,but I'm on a crap temp phone so not sure I can upload it.