MLYLT learns to love herself and changes her life (for real this time!) - Page 378

If its okay for him to touch you, if you're snuggled up ON him, if you're letting him stroke your thigh, if he shows you his effing hard on, and you're still in contact....whipping the dick out is not a big effing step.

I'm on his side. Why not try to get his dick sucked?

Have you not met any men before? I mean it sounds like you knew he was attracted to you, and no the sleep bs doesn't excuse anything.

OMFG

FWIW I don't think he should've been reported. I stand corrected.

This.

100%.

10-20-2017 , 11:07 AM

#9427

El Diablo

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Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 70,770

VJ,

Pretty much. The inappropriate part was that he did it in public on a plane.

Other than that, seems like he went step by step, only escalating each time when given positive signals.

10-20-2017 , 11:25 AM

#9428

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

El D,

This is how he went step by step:

Leg touching-positive response

Asking me to lay on his shoulder-positive response

Rubbing my leg-positive response

Bringing attention to his boner-indifferent response

Showing his dick and asking for a blowjob-negative reaponse

How in the **** does:
leg rubbing(POS)---->boner(NEG)---->blow job?

And we didn't have a drink together. It was the standard drinks during the flight. I had a diet Coke.

10-20-2017 , 11:28 AM

#9429

Mr.mmmKay

Drugs are bad...

Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 20,179

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

How in the **** does:
leg rubbing(POS)---->boner(NEG)---->blow job?

I thought the boner was indifferent? It's easy for him to interpret that as a positive response.

10-20-2017 , 11:31 AM

#9430

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I could see him trying to move up my leg after a positive response from rubbing my knee and lower leg. If he got a positive response from that, then trying to rub on my v. But, nothing leads to blow job.

Knee rub(POS)--->leg rubbing(POS)--->upper leg rubbing (POS)---->V rubbing

Knee rub(POS)--->leg rubbing (POS)
/=blowjob

10-20-2017 , 11:34 AM

#9431

ExpectedV

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Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 14,308

Not his fault your a prude on the plane

10-20-2017 , 11:36 AM

#9432

Land O Lakes

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Lol, indifferent.

"Hey, as I rub your leg while you're spooning with me, check out the tent I'm pitching right now."
"Yeah, cool story bro, now just keep snuggling with me!"

Anyway, this story is about as true as the S&M bondo cupper guy.

10-20-2017 , 11:38 AM

#9433

Very Josie

I'm a Goddamned Artist

Join Date: Jul 2015 Posts: 4,656

He asked you if his hard on made you uncomfortable and you rolled your eyes. I'd take that as "don't be silly!" which is a positive reaction.

seeing his hard on told you that touching you got him aroused. You really don't know that sex (oral or otherwise) is the next step in the process?

I mean own it, don't pretend to be shocked that snuggling with a stranger with a hard on could result in a sexual proposition.

10-20-2017 , 11:40 AM

#9434

VoraciousReader

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MLYLT,

Obviously you've never flown before, so let me educate you. There is a magic button over your head. If you are cold, you can press it and a nice lady (people in the know call them "flight attendants") will bring you a blanket and even a pillow.

This prevents civilized human beings from having to make cuddle buddies out of random guys on a plane and then being stunned when they get offered a little action.

10-20-2017 , 11:41 AM

#9435

THAY3R

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So really she's just shocked that he didn't rub her V first

10-20-2017 , 11:42 AM

#9436

VoraciousReader

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Very Josie

MLYLT is the most naive sex addict on the planet...

10-20-2017 , 11:42 AM

#9437

ExpectedV

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Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 14,308

She's just trying to spark up the entertaining in this thread, that's all. Clearly its a joke. It was getting a bit dry in here anyways.

10-20-2017 , 11:45 AM

#9438

El Diablo

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Boner wasn't a NEG. You were (according to you) indifferent, and then went back to snuggling with him, which implies an overall positive response to the whole situation. That's how.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Maybe if he was like, "Let me suck on those titties." I might enjoy that, but not on a plane.

Sounds like he just messed up by escalating one step too far on the plane instead of asking you to grab a drink after the flight.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Or actually, he just picked the wrong sex act.

You're basically saying here that you were receptive to having him proposition or even attempt a sex act with you; he just happened to pick one you weren't into as much as others.

10-20-2017 , 11:45 AM

#9439

Ungoliant

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,330

Real or magic show, this whole thing was obviously intended as a message to Code, like every other time she's ever talked about another theoretical guy showing interest in her. Let me guess, he hasn't been making you enough of a priority lately?

10-20-2017 , 11:53 AM

#9440

MeLoveYouLongTime

Not a difficult personality

Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Lol
Code3 has been amazing lately. We are in a good place and doing great.

And, he doesn't get as jealous as everyone thinks.
We have a mutual understanding:
-No lying to each other, no sneaking around
-We both don't want to do anything that would deny the other pleasure.
-We both kinda enjoy seeing other people being attracted to each of us.

Had he told me a similar situation, I'd just be like cool story bro, did you have fun? (Not the showing dick and requesting blowjob part)

10-20-2017 , 11:58 AM

#9441

Mihkel05

banned

Join Date: Jul 2015 Posts: 4,835

That is quite the tale.

MLY, you may wanna pick up on social norms btw. Helps to make life easier.

10-20-2017 , 12:12 PM

#9442

Ungoliant

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Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,330

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

-We both don't want to do anything that would deny the other pleasure.
-We both kinda enjoy seeing other people being attracted to each of us.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

I told Code3 about it and he was mad that I didn't report the guy and scolded me and told me not to lay on strangers and let a stranger rub my leg.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Had he told me a similar situation, I'd just be like cool story bro, did you have fun?

LOL, yeah that sounds just like you.

10-20-2017 , 12:16 PM

#9443

allinontheturn

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Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 22,649

Dude was just selfish iyam. Should have just slipped her a finger.

10-20-2017 , 01:36 PM

#9444

Melkerson

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Quote:

Originally Posted by VoraciousReader

MLYLT,

Obviously you've never flown before, so let me educate you. There is a magic button over your head. If you are cold, you can press it and a nice lady (people in the know call them "flight attendants") will bring you a blanket and even a pillow.

This prevents civilized human beings from having to make cuddle buddies out of random guys on a plane and then being stunned when they get offered a little action.

Is that really something one can expect on domestic coach these days? Also it sounds like she was very possibly flying Southwest, in which case I think it's even less likely.

10-20-2017 , 02:12 PM

#9445

whatthejish

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Quote:

Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime

Had he told me a similar situation, I'd just be like cool story bro, did you have fun?

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10-20-2017 , 06:32 PM

#9446

rakemeplz

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I just knew this was a lol MLYLT situation.

This is wrong, but I don't how shocked you can expect to be after snuggling a guy who has an obvious erection. Still clearly I don't think he had any implied consent/the go ahead to whip out a D, and in addition whipping out a D in a public setting and moreso on an airplane is... wrong...I think. I don't know.

Its all a magic show tho right?

10-20-2017 , 07:15 PM

#9447

MeLoveYouLongTime

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Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

Unfortunately this wasn't part of the magic show and actually happened.

Anyway, moving on....

I'm gonna hit the gym all weekend and work towards being able to run a mile!

Did I tell everyone that I am now a size 16 and had to go buy new jeans because I could not longer keep them up?
Yep, a size 16!!!!

Here is what I look like in normal clothes and not bending over at the gym with my gross stomach showing.

10-20-2017 , 07:22 PM

#9448

BustoRhymes

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Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 26,670

Let's hear what code thinks of the situation

10-20-2017 , 07:26 PM

#9449

MeLoveYouLongTime

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Join Date: Jun 2014 Posts: 13,159

I've got to log all of my calories, but I ate the following:
Thurs:
McDonald's sausage and cheese biscuit
Butter chicken(approx 6oz chicken)
1 cup white rice
4 naan triangles
2 fish tacos
1oz corn chips
2tbs Guac
1/2 cup salsa
1-6oz London Muel
1-6oz mojito
1-6oz coconut margarita

I saw a 1.5oz count when they were pouring the liquor in each of those drinks.

Friday:
2-eggs
1-mini blueberry muffin

3-small fish tacos
1-mojito

4-biscotti cookies