Some short dudes have giant hammers, hate to break it to you

One might argue that the little twerp really knows what he's doing. How else would he land such a fine lady?

"to shaker" was used during my study time in GB as hot flirting. I asked once how the expression comes. I was told that there is a hot couple dance. *shrug*

Don't make conclusions about sex quality based on dudes size, and not even based on his dicks size. Brain is the biggest sexual organ, and if he can tease her phantasy, they have hot sex.

And I think, that it is nothing wrong in thinking about hot things in your situation .

And on the serious note...... You have to think about what is gonna to happen in your marriage. I mean sex is important part of a relationship. I don't want to cross here any personal boarders, but you started this and it makes no sense to keep your eyes closed and pretend that a problem is not existing. And I am pretty sure that your wife understands all that. You have to communicate somehow with her about the theme sex. And DON'T mention the hot yoga teacher!

Well the physical is just not a part of our life for now. Obviously this isn't ideal, but there are a lot of things that aren't ideal right now and it is what it is. I remain comitted, but again; I'm not dead.

Holliday, didn't your wife tell you that you could **** other people? Or am I misremembering?

What's funny is that, a bit before Holliday asked the question, I had been thinking about the possible tension that might occur between a female yoga instructor and me if I hire one.

Disclaimer: YMMV.

My stance is that yoga / fitness is itself a pleasurable and intense physical activity whose big advantage over sex is that it doesn't require trespassing on the partner's inside, doesn't require protection, contraception etc., so it's less stressful to everyone involved.

If a yoga instructor started hitting on me, I'd tell her to ignore my physiological reaction that I prefer to take care of when I'm alone at home. I'd tell her that I only want to do the yoga business with her and nothing besides that business, and if she disagrees, then she'll lose her profit as I'll find another instructor; and that I'm not gonna subscribe for getting tired of putting up with her **** and not gonna feed her with mine either - that's what her husband (or her future boyfriend if she's single) exists for.

The desire to violate her body would indicate self-esteem issues, as it's very possible to have great pleasure without possessing anyone, especially anyone who's already 'taken' (has a husband).

Edit: I must be weird as I find it more pleasurable to have the freedom to fap on 1K Instagram / DeviantArt babes of my choice than to have 1 nasty gf prohibiting me from surfing DA (substitute it with your fav porn site). Variety is key.

You are correct, but she also has a giant brain tumor.

Every time you pass up sex you're cheating on yourself.

I wouldn't do it, but I don't think it's that bad for a single dude to bang her--she's the only one cheating. I think is would be bad for a married dude to bang her because cheating on your spouse/partner is not cool. It would be less bad and pretty understandable for someone in your position to bang her, but you don't seem like someone who would be okay with yourself doing that.

There is nothing morally wrong with having sex with a married woman.

qfHenry

How do you think you would feel afterward? What if it was good? Would you continue?

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But the sequence was me wondering why she seems so horny, then meeting him and going, "Oh, ok, that totally explains it." I see no reason to call the guy names, but he goes to Star Trek or Star Wars conventions, I'm sure of it.

Pics required to see if you have my vote

I think the expression, "Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!" pretty much covers it.
Your remaining questions are just plain silly.

If you want to have sex without getting emotionally attached there's always prostitutes. They are great for letting it out of your system. That's why they're there.

I disagree. The ahhhhhh feeling is usually very shortlived and replaced by less euphoric feelings afterwards. Also fantasy is often much more exciting than how it actually goes in real life. Not to mention the implications you would bring onto yourself, your relation, and theirs, afterward. My vote stays with prostitution.

Umm, just to be clear; this would be consensual and I wouldn't use trespassing or violating to describe it.

They are definitely not supposed to **** the students, but I think she's new at this.

Don't try to read into ****'s posts too much, he's a freak and a very weird dude. And that's coming from me.

Have you heard about the sex trafficking problem in America?

No idea what you are talking about

Roughly 8 million women in US are brought here as sex slaves. Many pose as yoga instructors.

Story checks out

One of every three women in USA#1 has been sex-trafficked. (source Jezebel)

I think some things you need to consider are

-would your wife really be ok with it
-would you be ok with it
-what is your plan of action if you start developing feelings
-would you be ok with your wife doing the same if the situation was reversed
-does a woman being in a monogamous relationship make her out of bounds to you
-what if she gets pregnant
-what if she starts developing feelings for you
- what's the solution to no sex in your marriage
-what if the husband has a gun

I think it's a really difficult situation. If I was in your wife's position I probably would have offered you the option of having sex with someone else partially out of love and partially out of fear of losing you. Do you think she would have the confidence to deal with you having sex with someone else? Would it damage your own perception of yourself? Would you even tell your wife? Idk it's very tough.