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Originally Posted by citanul
1. Reach out to people you've interviewed with (including the Lockheed folks) and ask for their candid feedback.
That's a good idea, but it could be a real challenge. When I was with a big company, I would
probably certainly never discuss an interview with someone who didn't get the job...especially someone in a protected class whom I didn't even know. It's just too risky, and LM's HR would probably not look fondly on the exposure should the applicant turn out to be unhappy with the candid feedback.
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2. Find a way to get some "mock interviews" in.
That's a very good idea.
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That the plant manager has worked with you understands your competency is not entirely surprising...
He (and anyone else at the MLY's current company with whom she interviewed) would be very good people to ask about how her interview went. They'd likely be rather forthcoming. It will probably be very sugar-coated, so anything that they say without enthusiasm is something to work on.
It wouldn't be a hour-long chat. More like two good things and two opportunities for improvement. As I said above, the two opportunities might be like..."nothing was really bad, but..." Disregard the sugar coating...those will be good things to work on, at least from that person's perspective.
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You have to have the ability to respond clearly and with specifics that make your responses personal to yourself, as opposed to a generic answer that comes from some sort of guide to polite conversation or cliches...
Very true. I've interviewed many people whose goal was not to mess it up and to last for the specified time. Others would seek to use the time to sell their skills to us.
While the first group was fine and capable, we'd only be choosing a couple of people max. In a competitive interview, being okay doesn't get it done, because someone else gave the "I was asked to do X while working at company X on project X. I'd never done X before..." answer. They showed us pictures of X and performance reviews commending them for X, too. The person telling me about fires and grabbing bulls by the horns and such who failed to tell me about the fires and what was special about the trials fell to the wayside. I didn't think that person was bad. I just thought someone else was better, because that day they were.
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1. You live in a pretty sexist universe.
2. You live in a pretty sexist specific part of that universe.
3. You work in a pretty sexist profession, and have hobbies that are pretty sexist, within that part of the universe.
Yes and no. There is a situation where most people at these places are used to working mostly with other men. But, there are far fewer women mechanical engineers than male MEs. Big companies need to show diversity, which does create opportunity (or at least an opportunity for opportunity) that comes from a smaller talent pool.
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This will also stop you from doing genuinely stupid things in the interview like spending the whole time bullshitting about college football or something else trying to fit in. You're you, not someone else. This doesn't mean not to be personable and friendly, it just means don't pander and throw yourself off course.
Yeah..don't do that. There's limited time for MLY to sell her skills. While she may feel relief that she got through the allotted interview time without messing up by (fake) talking about football, if she didn't really nail the interview then the interviewer is simply winding down. He's finished his questions. I'd take that time to express what I'd be bringing to the company.
Having said that, my first engineering job was at Pratt & Whitney. My interviews went well, but the clincher was that I interacted really well with the rest of the team when we were just chatting about some of the upcoming programs. My would-be boss saw how well I interacted, naturally and without trying to force conversations or anything like that. I got the job offer before I got home. So, it has value, but not one-on-one.
On that topic, be nice to everyone. If someone was extra-nice or extra-rude to our secretary, I'd 100% find out.