In other news, I saw a girl today at the gym that's always there around the time I go. She's quite fit and looks South American of some kind maybe, tho light skin tone. She does these walking lunges near where I squat all the time and today was no different. It was pretty warm and I was sweating up a storm so I was using my shirt to wipe off often. Well, when I finished squatting she was waiting to do lunges so I decided to talk to her.
*waves since she has her headphones in*
me: hey, they should probably give you your own lane in here or something
she takes her headphones out promptly
her: oh sorry! I don't want to be in your way [not from South America btw]
me: oh, you're not at all don't worry
her: yeah I just don't want to be in the way
okay so...I dunno what to say...
me: yeah you never are. I mean this guy *points to guy doing lunges* is taking up all kinds of space though
her: *laughs* oh that's good.
at this point I'm sensing either she's nervous or uninterested. Can't tell. I haven't really said much of interest but she hasn't helped...then..
her: so do you play soccer or baseball?
me: no...why's that?
her: oh, you have really good abs
me: oh wow, thanks
her: yeah they're cardio abs. when you'd lift your shirt up I'd see them
me: must be these squats and deadlifts then, I dunno!
then we talk more and she tells me how she used to do figure comps and how so many guys in this gym are strong but bulky. She doesn't find it attractive. It went well. She introduced herself to me. We chat some more and I don't ask for #. Maybe bad play. Maybe not. I see her often so next time I'll chat with her and we'll see how it goes