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Originally Posted by JWhitt88
Yeah you guys are right. This also doesn't seem like a situation where I can be forgiven. Probably on to the next one. When they say this stuff is intricate it actually is. Because I displayed some great things with this girl and my stupidity with how I handled the end of the night last night immediately ****ed me probably permanently.
JW,
I think I'm repeating myself, but I really don't think anything permanent has been changed here with this girl.
Regarding your earlier question, I'm guessing you're saying she has a Friday night-class exam? Depending on the hour that means she's available, it doesn't change much. Instead of doing a 3 course meal, do something light, and near your place. Also saves you from spending $100/head on dinner/drinks for a "date."
While I agree she didn't sleep with you the other night because of a combo of passage of time between ~2:15 and ~3:30 when you tried to steer the party to your place, and because of your poor form in the invitation, I think that's why she didn't sleep with you that night, not why she'll never sleep with you.
Personally, if I were you, I'd have no problem inviting her out to the party on Saturday, but I'd keep a tight leash on my drinking if I did, and be prepared to leave before 2AM.