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I don't really want to confront her since in the end it's her business and not mine..
wat? bro, when she says, ''what are you, my boss?'' she is trying to deflect and reframe. she did not say, 'that guy keeps calling!' she instead said the equivalent of, 'none of your business, bitch'. there are two common reasons why the latter is chosen over the former and neither of them is good news for you.
fwiw, you should have said, 'it's cute that you think you can use lines like that on me. but seriously, who was it?' if she waffled you should have acted bored, told her you dont have time for BS, and that oops, you made plans, she has to leave. you
cannot let your gf establish boundaries like this early in a relationship. it is very hard to regain 'hand' without looking 'incongruent' with who she thinks you are.
frankly, my advice is to not get serious w/this girl.
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I don't really want to confront her since in the end it's her business and not mine..
uhm, obv you want to confront her because that is the most natural impulse in the world. dont lie to yourself. you didnt do it because you were afraid of the consequences. dont be. you deserve total honesty from any girl you are going to waste months or possibly even years on.
Last edited by VanVeen; 04-17-2010 at 05:04 PM.
Reason: this post is irrel if you just want to bang her for awhile