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Originally Posted by DcifrThs
seems like every time i get too worked up over this, everything works out.
i guess the lesson is stop getting worked up, she's busy w/ lots of school + night shift as a nurse, stop being ******ed.
long story short we're going out again this weekend. i have a great knack for making an easy game hard.
Wait, was that long series of back and forth the psych nurse? lol.
You have to remember that most women are weird and/or mad. They get tired and feel uncommunicative, they get their period, they have a fight with person X and feel down about themselves. The guy they were supposed to call never figures into any of that, it's all about how SHE feels. And it doesn't get better with time in my experience.
Ages ago I decided I'd only date girls that are in the habit of being switched on and polite. Things that are instant deal breakers:
- Texts with poor grammar (indicates she's lazy and poorly read)
- Avoids talking on the phone (indicates cowardly, evasive)
- Unreliable (misses dates, promised calls etc without letting me know)
- Preferences family above her own life and interests (lazy, unmotivated, uncreative)
It cut my dating pool by 90% or so but it's the best decision I ever made. Your mileage may vary.