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Originally Posted by TIEdup14
I suppose you're right, I just think that theres a huge difference between "not going overboard" and "going out of your way to pretend to show that you dont care."
I like it when people understand me straightaway, lol.
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Originally Posted by TIEdup14
Meh, I guess the whole PUA thing to me reeks of a certain "fakeness." But that is a discussion for a completely different thread and I by no means wish to derail this one.
Agreed, but...even though I am not the full-fledged PUA I once aspired to be, since in this little voyage of mine, I have come to understand it is all within yourself, and I
am a believer of the core principles of PUA.
As with nearly all things, it all depends on motivation.
The other day I was talking to this girl that read an article about guys that tried to better themselves with women, and she called those men 'pathetic'.
I countered by saying that I respect people that see the need for change in their life and work to achieve this change.
That made her look in the distance, and ponder a bit. We kissed the same night.
Some irony here , right?
My point is, as always, until people fully understand the core principles of being a man, the zen of PUA if you please, they will not be able to criticize any of it.
But maybe it is arrogance on my part that leads me to believe I *do*understand what a man is all about.
What MsSLick describes is, again imho, stuff for people who are reasonably new at the PUA stuff. Nothing wrong with that, but when you are at that level, and enjoying a fair amount of success, it is sometimes hard to remember the journey does not end there.
I discovered the whole thing in 2001 or so, and ever since have been trying to better myself, all the rest falls into place after that. And then something goes wrong, as nobody is immune to disappointments and failure.
My life actually resembles life....
It is perfectly well possible to be a decent, stand-up, nice person that is good with women.
Ah well, philosophical musings. I agree, this for another thread.
Sorry for the hi-jack.
Last edited by Alamo; 02-03-2009 at 07:03 AM.