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Originally Posted by zachvac
Does your opinion change if instead of asking for a stake he steals the money out of your bag and uses it to pay me back a debt he owed me? Do I now owe it back to you?
If this happened, I would explain to you the situation and I would ask for the money back. If you refused to give it back, I would think you are scummy, but I don't think there's anything I could do about it.
If you were a friend I would expect it back 100%. If I didn't know you, I'd probably expect not to get it.
I think we have different definitions of the words "owe" and "should". I just think that if someone owes me money, they also think they owe me money. Because other people may think they owe it doesn't necessarily mean that it's true. If I think someone owes me money and that person doesn't think they owe it, I've chosen the wrong person to trust.
And I don't think anyone should do anything because outside forces say they should. People should have autonomy, and I expect them for the most part to do the right thing. If they don't, I should have known better.