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Originally Posted by BuddyGilmore
Only to snowball me to the stone age about how selfish I am or would be.
People only try to make you feel guilty about being "selfish" when you are not doing what they want you to do. By their own definition, they are being unreasonably selfish for trying to make you do something you don't want to do. But they hope you don't think about that and instead just want you to feel guilty, and then give in to their demands. Realize this, and tell the next person that tries to make you feel guilty for this twisted reason to **** off.
Or just point out their hypocrisy and do what you want instead.