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Originally Posted by PureDiesel
After beeing almost 10 years together I'm close to break up with my wife. I'm just so sick of her, can't stand her anymore, no matter how much heart I've presented to her over these long years. The only thing was keeping me with her all these years is my son, then around after 9 years we've reached crysis breaking point and loved each other alot again, just like we've met day before. We gave birth to daughter and now she is going ape nuts on me for not a single meaningfull reason. She doesn't have anything against me and poker, I do everything she asks for, i help her with kids when she's tired or wants a brake, we go out do stuff, have fun, but no, one day she wakes up and it's like WTF who is this woman. I'm kinda losing my mind now. This all is so fkd up. She is not ******ed, she is not bad person, but she has this thing, that is hard to explain...she always had it in her, and i just can't handle it anymore.
I really feel miserable at such points and don't know what to do. I can't even pick my chin up and greatly demotivated now. Almost destroyed. I'm too old to start over and I have 2 CHILDREN WHO I LOVE SO MUCH FML!
I'm really getting torn apart not having a real solution to all this.
/whine/
Maybe you dont remember but it usually takes close to 2 years after giving birth for a woman to become more like them selves again. It is hard to start over again, I have a 9 year old and a 1 year old. The first year or so the woman is drained has emotional/hormonal things to deal with that thank god we have never have to. I'd advocate a little patience and encourage her to get together with lady friends (good for her and you
).