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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

03-18-2011 , 03:09 AM
TOPH! Whats good brother...yeah garbing a pong cup or two is the way to go imo
03-18-2011 , 03:09 AM
Hosting a party saturday. Gonna be a few girls who run in the same social circles as me. Prolly hang out with them like twice a month with our group of friends and we're friendly to each other. I would like to have sex with one of these girls at the party. I'm a noob, how do I do this?
03-18-2011 , 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted by LazyTops5
TOPH! Whats good brother...yeah garbing a pong cup or two is the way to go imo
im sore brother.
me + K + my roommate + his gf went to water park for spring break.
me + K decided to not leave the hotel(almost) so yeap im sore

anyways, pretty drunk, pretty great

Last edited by Christophersen; 03-18-2011 at 03:13 AM. Reason: i dont rememeber the last time i used a condom, but it was a crown
03-18-2011 , 03:14 AM
Wait till 4 or 5 of them get into a conversation they're enjoying, then interject with something that has nothing to do with what they were just talking about.

Take shots with her, play drinking games with her on your team, give her high fives, then touch her arms in non-awkward/creepy ways, be fun and positive around her and friendly to other people, especially other girls. If she is into you, it's on from there. If not, there's nothing you could have really done anyway outside of "Wanna take a ride in my Porsche?" or "Wanna see what a real niner looks like?"
03-18-2011 , 03:16 AM
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Originally Posted by mazjr13
Hosting a party saturday. Gonna be a few girls who run in the same social circles as me. Prolly hang out with them like twice a month with our group of friends and we're friendly to each other. I would like to have sex with one of these girls at the party. I'm a noob, how do I do this?
Insert penis into vagina.
03-18-2011 , 03:19 AM
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Originally Posted by mazjr13
Hosting a party saturday. Gonna be a few girls who run in the same social circles as me. Prolly hang out with them like twice a month with our group of friends and we're friendly to each other. I would like to have sex with one of these girls at the party. I'm a noob, how do I do this?
Get touchy with each, see who responds most positively, escalate touching with her, invite her to your room after a bit.
03-18-2011 , 03:21 AM
GCG is spot on use his advice.
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Originally Posted by Christophersen
im sore brother.
me + K + my roommate + his gf went to water park for spring break.
me + K decided to not leave the hotel(almost) so yeap im sore

anyways, pretty drunk, pretty great
Sounds like a pretty sick spring break can't go wrong with spending as much "time" with your gf lol u know what I mean. But yeah it sounds like things are going well with her. I must say I am kinda envious and would like to find a gf in the near future.

pretty drunk is a good thing me to...Cheers!
03-18-2011 , 03:25 AM
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Originally Posted by GoCubsGo
Wait till 4 or 5 of them get into a conversation they're enjoying, then interject with something that has nothing to do with what they were just talking about.

Take shots with her, play drinking games with her on your team, give her high fives, then touch her arms in non-awkward/creepy ways, be fun and positive around her and friendly to other people, especially other girls. If she is into you, it's on from there. If not, there's nothing you could have really done anyway outside of "Wanna take a ride in my Porsche?" or "Wanna see what a real niner looks like?"
What if I have a Porsche?
03-18-2011 , 03:27 AM
lol if you really do then ask her and proceed to get dome in it ldo
03-18-2011 , 03:28 AM
eating so much right now lol, drunk munchies imo.

yeah, things are going good.

Its weird, I talked to a mutual friend of ours tonight(K and I), and she used to date one of my best friends whose now dating another girl in our social circle. This girl(mutual friend) was talking about all the new relationships(Its weird, but my like 3 best friends + me all started a relationship within the last 3 months) and what she thinks of them.

She kept saying K and I came outta no where, but have the best potential basically. Idk, I think it was weird and random but interesting ot see what other people think.
03-18-2011 , 03:31 AM
yeah +1 to the drunchins brb pita pit.

But yeah I always find it interesting to see what others who know you well think of you or a relationship you happen to be in. I often times thing what others think about me lol
03-18-2011 , 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted by il_martilo
Of course I can't talk about some guy stuff with some of them. There is a lot of variety in terms of permiscuity here. Ranging from 0 to ~15 sexual partners. With one in particular, I can absolutely 100% talk to her about anything sex related. With the more conservative ones I wouldn't dream of it.

I can talk to any of the 10 about dating and I learn a lot from it. Again, some of them barely date at all and others date almost as much as I do. So it helps to get a variety of responses if I have a question. Basically, I can pick out which of them I think is most like the girl I'm after and then see how that friend reacts to the situation. This has helped on numerous occasions. You also learn a lot about the commonalities between all girls and where they differ as well. Of the 4 guys in our group we also have a lot of variety. The one guy has made out with exactly 3 girls ever and has never been on a date. Guy #2 has had 3 long term girlfriends his whole life. Finally, there is guy #3 and I who have pretty similar styles although he is now dating someone. That means when they have guy questions they can hit us up and get a lot of good insight as well.

We have a lot of variety wrt careers (Finance to Pre-med) so we talk about that stuff a little bit. But how much can you really talk about your career type goals without going bored? Obviously we care about each other but I feel like there is only so much to talk about there. I think 8/14 will be pursuing graduate degrees of some description.

We don't really do politics and such that much. We are mostly all from the midwest and upper-middle class families so you won't get that much variety here.

I would say I'm good friends with every one in this group. My absolute best friend goes to school elsewhere, but these are all close friends of mine. Of course I'm closer to some like MF than others but I go out with every one of these people at least once a week. But I could talk to all of them about most things.

We've all been friends since Freshman/Sophomore year with one exception, we were friends from before college.

When I was about 12 one of my best friends from that era of my life told me to be friends with ugly girls because every girl has at least one cute friend. The older I get the more I realize how much of a genius he was. Especially in my case since 90% of the girls I've so much as gone on a date with I have met through friends.

I would never have it any other way.
Thanks for the thorough reply!

I guess the biggest difference between me and you is the cycle of friends.
I've lived all over the place in the last 3 years, but my best friends are all from back home and there are only 2 I've known for less than 10 years, my best friend I've known for almost 18 years. The group consists probably of 10 people and only 2 of them are girls.
Henry would maybe call this some sort of tree house behavior.
I can talk to them about almost anything, but with the girls there are some topics that they just not connect. With three of the male friends I can talk about everything.

I just couldnt imagine having more girl than guy friends.
03-18-2011 , 11:03 AM
last night reinforced a few things.

1. your physical appearance matters a lot. Girls will shelve you into categories within nanoseconds.

2. the most essential part of successful night in regards to picking up is finding the girls who came with a small group that want to party. I mean there should be no fear of approaching if you can pick out the two or three girls that are together at the beginning of the night.

3. having a car, some sort of shelter to take the female is kind of important. no matter how good your disarming of the friend has been, if you lead her down an alley when multiple bouts of violence have taken place in the last hour you're bound to get shut down. and rightfully so.
03-18-2011 , 11:35 AM
Haven't been able to lurk this thread in a while. Any entire-paragraph-worthy smiles lately?
03-18-2011 , 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by mazjr13
Hosting a party saturday. Gonna be a few girls who run in the same social circles as me. Prolly hang out with them like twice a month with our group of friends and we're friendly to each other. I would like to have sex with one of these girls at the party. I'm a noob, how do I do this?

to add on what others said. I wouldn't target one but would rather target a couple diff girls and throughout the night spend some time between 3-4 diff girls while your doing your drinking games and whatnot. the reason youre bouncing between the couple of girls that interest you is that by later on in the night you should have a feeling whose into you and what you can go from there. plus you bouncing around will make your social proof higher and since you will know everyone there it will put you in a positive fun light.
03-18-2011 , 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted by GoCubsGo
GG, stop trying to rerail a good derail. Just chill for a bit.



This is all pretty on-point except for the bolded part. Seems exceptionally shallow. Please explain. I mean, in general, less attractive girls are going to have worse personalities and come with a host of insecurities, but there are exceptions. It sounds like you are saying, even if there is a cool girl that you have a lot in common with, there is still a threshold of attraction she has to meet. Did you misspeak? If not, why is this your view?
What's the problem with wanting your female friends/acquaintances to be attractive? We all have the same threshold for male friends, if they aren't physically attractive or unable to present themselves socially, then they likely aren't someone you want to be friends with. Regardless of sexual orientation, people tend to date others who are about as attractive as they are, and also tend to have friends who are at about the same level.
03-18-2011 , 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by DerrtySlime
last night reinforced a few things.

1. your physical appearance matters a lot. Girls will shelve you into categories within nanoseconds.

2. the most essential part of successful night in regards to picking up is finding the girls who came with a small group that want to party. I mean there should be no fear of approaching if you can pick out the two or three girls that are together at the beginning of the night.

3. having a car, some sort of shelter to take the female is kind of important. no matter how good your disarming of the friend has been, if you lead her down an alley when multiple bouts of violence have taken place in the last hour you're bound to get shut down. and rightfully so.
Dont completely agree with number two. There is some merit in going for girls in big groups cause the buddy system is less. If its 2-3 girls, those girls feel a responsibility to make sure everything is ok with everyone in the group. A fairly big group and their time is divided and you will deal with a lot less when it comes to closing. However approaching a bigger group is hard, especially if you are at a dance style place and they are standing around in a big group. In that case finding a group of 1-3 is preferable.
03-18-2011 , 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
However approaching a bigger group is hard, especially if you are at a dance style place and they are standing around in a big group. In that case finding a group of 1-3 is preferable.
And if you're not in a dance style place, then yeota will openly mock you. Also important to remember.
03-18-2011 , 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by LKJ
And if you're not in a dance style place, then yeota will openly mock you. Also important to remember.
who?
03-18-2011 , 06:22 PM
HUD
03-18-2011 , 06:24 PM
holy ****balls take one week off and this thread blows the **** up.

Cliffs anyone?
03-18-2011 , 06:50 PM
03-18-2011 , 06:51 PM
LOOOL Donkx4
03-18-2011 , 06:54 PM
Epic!
03-18-2011 , 07:06 PM
hahaha

      
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