Yeah.. I'm probably making assumptions to try to rectify my own actions. I'm still not sure tho' that I should contact her again. It just feels so strange because I've never been in this sort of situation before. Before it's either been ONS or relationships where the trust has been gradually getting stronger. If I'm contacting her again I'm basically saying that I'm the right person to talk to about her most private stuff. After meeting once.

my drunk/high post gave it away, right? couldnt edit it in time. going to girltalk friday?

sold out before i could get tickets... and yeah that gave it away

yea they sold out real quick. glad me and my friend both bought a bunch to make sure all of our friends could go (brag).

I saw girltalk last year, he opened for lupe. I honestly don't know why anyone would pay/go see him "perform". He jumped up and down and clicked play on diffrent mixes on his laptop. The crowd was pretty into it and the mixes were alright but I figure'd he would mix stuff live... rather than just push play and jump around before taking his shirt off and jumping more.

its gonna be 2000 drunk college kids in a dance party. hard not to be excited.
do i ask girl to meet me there? prob not right? maybe ill bring it up and compare it to when she texted me about being at the same bar and then i never saw her. hopefully then she will give me a hint on if she wants to see me there, instead of me saying i want to see her there.

tell her you have an extra ticket for her

i dont tho...and she already has one

tell her to join with you before you go then... were you gonna drink before hand?

i think its kinda weird now to ask her to pregame with us cause we are having kinda a big pregame but we all know each other and are friends. wouldnt wanna bring her and her friends into an uncomfortable situation. maybe ill see if she and her group want to go over to it with us though.

yeah ask her group to join at least

Yes, you have to ask her/her group of friends to pre-game with you. Then at the concert just have fun. If she sees you dancing and having a good time, chances are she'll be attracted to that.

K here is my situation. 90% chance i am being a pussy.

I met the girl last year in my hall, we debated ethics of eating meat (she is vegan) for like 3ish hours. I wasn't interested at the time, although friends thought she was interested in me.

Skip forward to this year we met at a party, and we have been having coffee, and lunches since, about once every two weeks for like 3 months. But we are both super busy, she is in law i am premed, so we never really had time for anything more. So after i finished exams, i asked what she was doing for the end of the semester. She asked me to come to a friends party i said yes obv.

But i am not sure if i can ask her out, we have mutual friends, so i can't easily shake off getting denied. And she wont be drunk so the, "oops we were drunk, but that was fun we should do this again" wont work. And its been 3 months, so this may seen like a surprise.

Oh and she is ultra ethical, feminist, liberal, moral (which i like). But how do you hook up with them, i mean there must be different standards, from the regular college girl. Right?

Reading through this thread, has helped. TY.

Does she not drink? Also as far as asking her out, do you want to or are you just looking for a one night or hook up? If you are looking to ask her out, its a simple question. If she is asking you to parties then you are good to go. If you are looking for a hook up then that is a different story. Just because she is into her beliefs it does not mean that she will be a tough cookie. Girls like this tend to be easier once you start saying the right things. So to further help you. I need to know if you are looking to date her, or just to mess around.

Sir let me explain the importance of asking her and her friends to pre game. That would be your time to shine in front of her and her friends. All you have to do is hang out with her and her friends, be extremely nice, always smile. If you are a gentleman and such by the time you get to the party she and her friends will be tipsy and she will definitely want you.

Yes i think pregame is extremely underrated and will be highly +ev. Granted, you wouldn't be asking for advice if you were cassnova in a social setting, but increasing your value to this girl AND HER FRIENDS(which is important) can be done through a simple pregame. Do drinking games, or guitar hero, or beer pong. Things where every1 is involved so that you dont have to do any one on one, this is kind of awkward talk with her. If her and her friends are having a good time, and you do as stated before....smile, exude confidence, talk a lil smack, then you are in my friend.

Pregaming can actually get you in with a girl before the party even starts, thats how good it can be. I suggest you invite her and her friends over....possibly offer free alcohol as an incentive if she is swaying on her decision

want to go out on a hot chick that has flirted with me (the same chick i talked about 250 posts ago). only thing is she's not at all a slut, but she has been hanging out a lot with another dude. i still don't know the status of their relationship, but they've been talking and hanging out lately and went to a concert together a couple nights. he prob talks to her 3x as I do. she's so far given enthusiastic responses when i asked her out, but she was busy those nights. should i give up given that she's been hanging out with this other dude lately?

no... if she wants to go out with you go out with her and win her over. dont let someone else interfere, especially if they arent in a relationship.

girl sounds like she could be trouble though imo... maybe more of a tease than anything. makes her hard to read.

k so plan is to be cool in class tomorrow and then be like we are having a big pregame you and your friends are more than welcome to come.

dont say more than welcome. say should.

goot luck

ty

make sure to tell her u get all ur lines from a online poker forum. pretty sure sheel dig that

that goes without saying.