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Originally Posted by cixelsyD
K here is my situation. 90% chance i am being a pussy.
I met the girl last year in my hall, we debated ethics of eating meat (she is vegan) for like 3ish hours. I wasn't interested at the time, although friends thought she was interested in me.
Skip forward to this year we met at a party, and we have been having coffee, and lunches since, about once every two weeks for like 3 months. But we are both super busy, she is in law i am premed, so we never really had time for anything more. So after i finished exams, i asked what she was doing for the end of the semester. She asked me to come to a friends party i said yes obv.
But i am not sure if i can ask her out, we have mutual friends, so i can't easily shake off getting denied. And she wont be drunk so the, "oops we were drunk, but that was fun we should do this again" wont work. And its been 3 months, so this may seen like a surprise.
Does she not drink? Also as far as asking her out, do you want to or are you just looking for a one night or hook up? If you are looking to ask her out, its a simple question. If she is asking you to parties then you are good to go. If you are looking for a hook up then that is a different story. Just because she is into her beliefs it does not mean that she will be a tough cookie. Girls like this tend to be easier once you start saying the right things. So to further help you. I need to know if you are looking to date her, or just to mess around.