I think that you just need to her to lighten up and get into it. Let her get on top and take control and do what feels good for her, maybe if she has some type of sexual mindchange cause she loves it one time or gets off once from it she'll be more into it.

Ehh, especially with this CG situation I probably seem not-at-all like I really am.
What's Grimes' like anyways?

I do watch the Simpsons but not much recently, I'd picture him as an awkward nerd.. ?

He was only ever in one episode, "Homer's Enemy"...but that was my favorite episode ever (note that I haven't followed that show in years, so maybe it wouldn't hold up as my favorite if I saw everything).

He was just an unlucky hard-working guy who had to scrape for every last thing he got, and the fact that Homer essentially got to live a great life that he never earned any of drove him to complete madness.

We don't have any problems once we're in bed. She's just unable to finish from intercourse alone, which is true of the majority of women. She finishes from oral and she will from manual stimulation during intercourse, but intercourse alone doesn't do it for her, it's not an actual issue. Many girls aren't even able to have orgasms at all until they reach their 20s.

i doubt it

i doubt it

mr doubtypants ^

anyways, just talked with CG about everything.
Told her that she acts like my girlfriend, and I don't in exchange act like her boyfriend because I don't see us ever dating.
I explained to her that I only date people that I think have a chance to workout in the long-run, and I don't see us working.

She was extremely negative and pouty throughout all of this

Somehow after we sat in silence for a minute she decided it was fine(I guess, she didn't say it) and we made out etc. talked about her boxing match earlier(wtf) and it seemed normal.

She wants to "hangout" tonight, I guess I may have played it perfectly somehow?

IN YOUR FACE, SPURIOUS!

She isnt going to change even if she tells you she will

I didn't ask for change at all

She can treat me like her boyfriend if she wants, I just have to imbed in her brain that we are a purely sexual relationship, and hopefully will become secret and purely sexual overtime.

The situation is fine, I am fine with hanging out with her and her roommate(and my roomates) all the time, its fun. And I'm down to leave to **** in the middle of hanging out with everybody, I just don't want her to continue pressing me.

So I guess, that could be seen as change. but she at least knows my response for everything

she's gonna start banging someone else and you're gonna be jelllllyyyyyyyy

What i meant is that she will turn emo again soon, its what girls do

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bi2Fq7OpWjI

and my head told my heartt, let love groww, but my heart told my head, this time noo, this time no <3

Yea the fact that she is asking you to hang out again tonight means that it didn't not sink in.. She still thinks you might come around and want to date someday.

Countdown till Emo Round 2?

Well I may not even mind that as much as I should, just means I have her wrapped around my finger.

I'll get laid whenever I want(or more), and if she goes mental I just have the same conversation

Sounds like someone's afraid he's going to get titty ****ed against his will.

lol

More of fear of loss of time for grind.

grind as a synonym for poker doesn't work in the context of a sex/relationship advice thread

First response after yours spot on.
That girl is a nutjob. It seems like Christophersen gained a lot out of the relationship, he seems a lot more confident (LKJ will slowly start to hate you, too, probably). Nevertheless, if I read ex-boyfriend is in a biker gang (ridiculous fact on its own), ******* crazy and a drama queen, I am certain this is not going to end well. This has been going on for a month or one and a half, you can make fun of me, if it ends well.

lol

You dont really think a talk fixes anything, do you?
You dont have her wrapped around your finger, because if she decides to break this off, you are the one who doesnt get laid, she will. It is almost impossible to wrap girls around your finger and certainly not if you only have sex with one girl, because you got a lot more to lose than she does.

nice avatar!

:-)

(this is what happens when you use avatars you've been told you shouldn't... you get eli'd!!! my hero!!)

dg situation completely blew up tonight, she was acting like a child, a really annoying child. kept telling me that she wants me to be happy and i'll never be happy with fg. lol. i don't think i'm gonna talk to dg for a while after this.

got drunk as **** with friends, broke a ping pong table (really more of a beat than a brag cause half of it fell on me)

apg was nowhere to be seen tonight, but i found out another more dominant male is also interested in her. obv i'm gonna sabotage him and spread rumors about his std's. ship apg to me, kthx.

I really don't know who's Karak and who's not anymore.

@christopherson
This strikes me as a situation where you are going to get burned one way or another. This will not end well. Crazy girl + sex + trying to keep it casual = trainwreck.

Utter silliness. I don't hate healthy self-confidence that is based in reality.

Christopherson has shown no signs to me of being anything but a solid, straightforward guy so far.

Really my biggest issue with him is that I have to type his whole long ****ing name out whenever I address him. I prefer to either do initials or set the length limit at "Vintage." Shortening his name to Chris just seems too weird.

Tell her, "Some other girls have told me that they think that he's creepy." Never fails. Extra bonus points if this is no way true.

/Th..re.mp

I see my situation as something like this:

If she does breaks this off, I agree, chances are she will continue to get laid as easy as she wants, and I prob won't(though I do have booty calls back home and a 1 month break from school).

But, even if she doesn't break this off(or not), once finals are through I'll be going out to parties at least 2x every weekend, without her, dancing/grinding/macking on other girls and praying to ship da goods. As Spurious said, maybe I am more confident now and will do better in those spots too.

I can keep stringing her around in the 'relationship' we have while not pushing for more as I build my confidence/game in the bedroom and hopefully be able to apply this to girls with girlfriend potential.
If she breaks it off, and I get back to fail-mode, I just have great stories to tell my friends at least :P