"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes - Page 57

It does happen occasionally. One of my friends said that she was friends with her boyfriend for seven years before they finally got together. They seem to be doing well. I don't know much of any of the back story though, so I'm no help to TUTS here.

01-10-2010 , 01:18 PM

#1402

cplo42

old hand

Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,832

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

wondering if anyone knows any stories of people who were friends for a long time (maybe 5+ years or something) and then later began a relationship.

It obviously happens, but very rarely

01-10-2010 , 03:02 PM

#1403

Vintage00

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 7,513

Quote:

Originally Posted by GoodGame

vintage wins tonight by a landslide

ty, it was a fun night. Had one more brag that I didn't know about, but idk what the 2p2 rules are regarding inhaling certain kinds of smoke. dunno if I can talk about it, lol

Paying for it today, hunggggoverrrrrrr (from the alcohol part) - GO PACK GO!

01-10-2010 , 07:31 PM

#1404

GoodGame

SL Bathroom Bachelor

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 4,124

blehhh i just canceled on a girl again for the second time this week. she sounded pretty mad on the phone this time. we were in the middle of the conversation texting and made a time to hangout and then my phone went out. so i'd have to go to the tmobile store and arrange for a ride and wouldn't be able to hangout that long since she has class in the morning. so i called her on another phone and explained. also i honestly for once feel like grinding poker and i know of a party tonight.

her class gets out at 12 on tuesday so i made plans for then. i'm pretty sure tuesday is the last straw. she's not gf material, at this point my gf material standards are pretty high for anyone, but i feel like i should bring something with me because she's really nice and cute. flowers is not the right direction

Last edited by GoodGame; 01-10-2010 at 07:44 PM.

01-10-2010 , 07:47 PM

#1405

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

i have someone coming over now

i will win the day goodgame

01-10-2010 , 08:22 PM

#1406

GoodGame

SL Bathroom Bachelor

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 4,124

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

i have someone coming over now

i will win the day goodgame

your in the lead. i plan to go to a party tonight so i'm holding out hope.

01-10-2010 , 09:40 PM

#1407

Flyingbanana

veteran

Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 2,279

Got nothing going on until start of February. Sigh. Its going to be a long 3 weeks.

01-10-2010 , 10:13 PM

#1408

TurnUpTheSun

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 9,757

i do like the idea of seeing who wins each day/weekend once school starts.

01-10-2010 , 11:04 PM

#1409

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

i have someone coming over now

i will win the day goodgame

i know whose over there... you lose.

my mom and dad were in the same circle of close friends for like 8 years, they each dated other ppl within the circle then wound up together. been married like 25 or so years.

01-10-2010 , 11:07 PM

#1410

TurnUpTheSun

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 9,757

so much for love at first sight eh eh

01-10-2010 , 11:42 PM

#1411

il_martilo

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 4,137

There's a really cute girl that lives in my building and we see each other in the elevator literally twice a day. I don't know what the reason is but seriously I see her in the elevator twice as much as any other person.

I'm introducing myself next time.

01-10-2010 , 11:45 PM

#1412

remi983

grinder

Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 495

Quote:

Originally Posted by TurnUpTheSun

i do like the idea of seeing who wins each day/weekend once school starts.

+1.

Anyone have ideas of dat-y type activities to do once a new semester starts?

01-11-2010 , 12:23 AM

#1413

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

Quote:

Originally Posted by remi983

+1.

Anyone have ideas of dat-y type activities to do once a new semester starts?

Coffee. It's the manliest date of all.

01-11-2010 , 12:30 AM

#1414

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

Quote:

Originally Posted by yeotaJMU

i know whose over there... you lose.

HOLY **** THAT'S THE ****ING UNDERSTATEMENT OF THE NIGHT

WHAT TEH **** WAS I THINKING?

JESUM CROW WHAT A ****ING TRAINWRECK

01-11-2010 , 12:31 AM

#1415

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

i mean seriously what the **** just happened

why do i always get myself into these situations

01-11-2010 , 12:41 AM

#1416

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

Well, here's hoping for a good TR from goodgame!

01-11-2010 , 12:58 AM

#1417

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

texting yeota from this chick's phone was pretty much the highlight of my night

yeah, it rocked.

01-11-2010 , 01:39 AM

#1418

GoodGame

SL Bathroom Bachelor

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 4,124

some girl i don't know very well texted me about the party at like 1pm. i got the address then and now just texted her asking her if it's at her place or just a random party and got no answer.

so change of plans i'm going to a smaller thing closer by with one of my roommate's co workers. i'll TR but i'm always the youngest there. last time i got hit on by a 26yr old, a gay guy, and got the # of the the 2nd best looking girl there by writing my # on a piece of toilet paper and handing it to her as we left.

unfortunately we texted for a couple of days and it fell out.

karak still needs to explain a lot IMO

Last edited by GoodGame; 01-11-2010 at 01:45 AM.

01-11-2010 , 01:53 AM

#1419

LKJ

Smugly Contemptuous

Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 95,986

Quote:

Originally Posted by GoodGame

karak still needs to explain a lot IMO

I can never tell if Karak truly wants to be vague most of the time or if he really wants people to beg him for details. Hopefully it's the former, since the latter would not be befitting of our gender.

01-11-2010 , 01:56 AM

#1420

TurnUpTheSun

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 9,757

karak likes being vague and has said several times hes not into putting details on the internetz.
annoying, but whatever.

01-11-2010 , 03:10 AM

#1421

thebigeasy59

Carpal \'Tunnel

Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 19,436

Quote:

Originally Posted by Karak

my reaction:

1) why end things there. im not saying you have to have sex with her, but why not try to do another activity that night
2) your phone approach was decent, but i would have rather tried to lead into it than spring it on her
3) i wouldnt read too much into it. weird girls like to say **** like that, especially ones who are acutely aware of the whole push-and-pull dynamic of relationships. if she's weird enough to not have a phone, she's weird enough to play odd ****ing games with a guy she likes.

distance for a little, then re-initiate contact and see where it goes. not an awful result at all. weird girls are just... weird though... so you never know what to expect.

How long do you consider to be "a little"? I hate the whole "3 days is money" thing, and really feel like if you like a girl or had fun or whatever then there's not really much problem with getting in touch the next day and so on. I ask this question both for this situation as well as a more general idea.

01-11-2010 , 06:30 AM

#1422

GoodGame

SL Bathroom Bachelor

Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 4,124

i lost tonight. click below if you want to read a very boring TR

Spoiler:

01-11-2010 , 11:32 AM

#1423

Karak

ELIte

Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 62,726

yeah sorry im vague sometimes. i get super paranoid and try to go light on the details. ill go light on last night since yeota knows the girl IRL, but knowing the girl IRL he can draw easy assumptions on what happened.

also i was really, really drunk. really drunk. ****. and i had class at 830 AM today.

01-11-2010 , 05:03 PM

#1424

zugzwang83

banned

Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 3,588

lol heading over to recent breakup girls place in an hour. with any luck i wont be back here posting a karak-esque slew of profanity shortly thereafter. but i dont believe in luck so expect lots of profanity.

01-11-2010 , 05:06 PM

#1425

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

karak, she was texting me all emo last night and i was lolololing my ass off

also, on my news feed today on FB the girl in my situation had commented on some guys' wall post... the wall post was like "hey stranger how ya been? this is random i have a friend you should meet if you arent seeing anyone right now"

she responds "haha random, well im not seeing but im not really looking at the moment either"

"ya i know its random but if you ever wanna party youre welcome to come over and hangout out, we live in [place]. you can at least meet him while youre here"

"im down, hit me up whenever :-)"

is this good, bad, neutral?

also this is why i hate FB news feed hahaha

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