first, im currently posting from the borgata lobby taking a break from 10-20 poofling (ran down 100, then up 500, then down 350 all in the span of like 90 minutes. LOLimit)
if any of you are in AC and want to grab a drink or just say what's up in the card room, let me know.
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
are texting "power games" that important?
lately i have been the one to initiate texting, dont do it more often than every other day. she will do stuff on facebook to me but hasnt initiated texting in awhile. should i be **** testing and see if she will eventually cave in or not worry about it?
edit: when i initiate texting it is definitely two sided conversation
we discussed this IRL and it's something ive been wondering about lately too. i really get tilted with the chick on the other side of the convo cuts it off. i have like 4-5 girls i text consistently, and only 1 or 2 of them often initiate it. i usually initiate with the other two. one girl i know for SURE is very aware of who starts and stops the convo, but she's weird and naturally plays power games. the others i think just dont give a ****.
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Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
lol i dont think karak likes her very much after the whole karak's roommate situation
i dont mind her. im a little bit wary because of what happened, but now that im getting the other side of the story that's waning (the "they werent really dating" part). however ive never really had any other issue with her. she was always pretty quiet around me, so i dont know her too well, but she seems nice. i just wonder if she's capable of committing to an exclusive relationship is all. only one way to find out...
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Originally Posted by Vintage00
Not to sound stalkerish, but where are you guys from? You both seem pretty chill and fun to go out drinking with. PM if you don't want to make it super public -- I'm just confused by his NYY and your Cowboys avatars.
we both go to school in VA. im originally from NY. yeotajmu is originally from VA and is a fan of the yankees, cowboys and lakers. consider that for a momnt.
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Originally Posted by GoodGame
tilt
last night i was out with a friend, his gf, and her roommate. on the way back home i say "you should spend the night". she responded with "you have to many ppl always at your house". i didn't think much of it and brushed it off because she seemed like the type of girl that puts up a wall and no matter how much she wanted to she would deny me the first night.
i get a call from my friend today and he says the girl said two things would have gotten me laid. her having one more drink and if i would have told her she's spending the night instead of saying "you should...".
i'm not really comfortable being the overly confident arrogant type but i did try it the week before saying "you know were hooking up tonight right?", on someone and got denied so ya.
anyways more TR's plz
i'd always lead into it with "you will" rather than "you should." be playful and not forceful though. i messed up a situation like this recently. told a girl she should stay the night at my house since it was snowing. she did the usual hem-and-haw "i dunno maybe it's a good idea" routine (that's a girl's way of getting you to convince her into it so the hoe-alarm doesnt go off)... but party in the USA came on the stereo at the party (party was at my house) and i disappeared because dancing to miley cyrus is awesome. by time i returned her friends had convinced her to leave. she even said to me the next day "i really should have stayed..." oh well. would have created an awk situation anyways since another former love interest ended up getting stranded at my place for the night.