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I'm anticipating a good date when I take her skating+whatever, so assuming all the signs are positive... suggestions on how to play the next few steps?

07-24-2010 , 12:28 AM

#8302

thebigeasy59

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ive always found that it just progresses naturally after hanging out another couple times and banging on the regular and whatnot. basically i just don't think it's a big deal to not rush over being official.

07-24-2010 , 12:43 AM

#8303

TheNiggler

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Quote:

Originally Posted by GoodGame

i like your 5 better than your 10

and it's just a 0-20 scale to add more separation. just the opposite of the reason why we don't rate girls on a 1-5

07-24-2010 , 01:23 AM

#8304

Aces Suited

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Quote:

Originally Posted by TheNiggler

the 1 to 0 scale tho

basically bang or not bang imo

disclaimer; only when you've drank a lot ldo

07-24-2010 , 02:37 AM

#8305

goofyballer

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Quote:

Originally Posted by thebigeasy59

too early to have the relationship talk imo. like way too early.

omg this. wtf. don't label anything. girls freak out over that ****.

07-24-2010 , 02:59 AM

#8306

thebigeasy59

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Aces Suited

the 1 to 0 scale tho

basically bang or not bang imo

disclaimer; only when you've drank a lot ldo

also known as binary

07-24-2010 , 03:07 AM

#8307

cixelsyD

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Quote:

Originally Posted by aao

Obviously my plan is to get her used to my touch whilst we're skating since she seemed a bit shy on the two dates but if it's another green light then it's all systems gogogo.

This is brilliant.

07-24-2010 , 05:50 AM

#8308

zzthe3rd

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aao dont bring it up. if you just pretend like its a non-issue, and stick to your guns, she is ONE HUNDRED PERCENT going to end up saying something like "so what are we?" or "how come we dont XYZ?" (the answer to which is clear) or whatever else along those lines. its like, hardwired into girls minds to want answers to those sorts of questions.

edit: the -10 to 10 scale is terrible, and that statement was made before i looked and saw that the "5" was >>>>>>>>>>> the "10"

07-24-2010 , 10:00 AM

#8309

GoodGame

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rofl i just pwned the streets. wen't like 100mph in every 45 zone sometimes more. ended with me listening to 4 songs on the radio straight in the car and my neighbor coming out thinking something was wrong.

idk if i've ever been happier in the past year tbh.

oh ya girl **** happened but zzzz who cares i'm still getting faded

07-24-2010 , 10:02 AM

#8310

Vintage00

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Originally Posted by GoodGame

chemical enhancements?

07-24-2010 , 10:24 AM

#8311

Vintage00

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my latest fly honey is certifiably nuts. Basically, she has mad baggage and also megavommed in my friend's car last night. GTFOOOOOOOOO

07-24-2010 , 10:52 AM

#8312

aao

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Quote:

Originally Posted by thebigeasy59

Quote:

Originally Posted by goofyballer

omg this. wtf. don't label anything. girls freak out over that ****.

Quote:

Originally Posted by zzthe3rd

Okay, advice taken and I won't bring it up.

In general, any tips on not entering the friendzone whilst we are in this stage of dating/meeting up/getting to know each other? We talk on bbm but I've tried to not speak to her as much as I do to other people or initiate convos. Have also stayed away from any kind of ex-gf/bf chat since I've met her... anything else I can do?

07-24-2010 , 11:53 AM

#8313

thebigeasy59

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kissing her ought to do the trick.

07-24-2010 , 01:30 PM

#8314

CalledDownLight

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aao, just lean in for a kiss. If she's excited for a third date this is definitely something you need to do sooner rather than later. At the minimum progress forward a bit from there each time you see her if you dont feel comfortable moving any quicker than that.

07-24-2010 , 03:35 PM

#8315

Mandor_TFL

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AAO seriously just kiss her. Be flirty and touchy beforehands. As said before, do not bring up any relationship talk first, let it come naturally.

Doing some form of teasing or joking to get her smiling and in a good mood, then going in for the kiss works very well. If she is smiling its very hard for it to end up being awkward.

07-24-2010 , 04:57 PM

#8316

aao

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Cool. Thanks for the advice so far guys. We haven't arranged the date properly yet, but I'll post an update on how it works out.

07-24-2010 , 05:00 PM

#8317

Karak

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you can also say "im going to kiss you now" just before you do it

it sounds lame but it workssss

07-24-2010 , 08:06 PM

#8318

Vintage00

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Last girl my roommate wingmanned for me turned out insane. That's the girl Karak hated anyway.

He's setting me up next wknd with another girl who is confirmed by OsTornado as "fineeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee." Pics forthcoming.

07-24-2010 , 08:08 PM

#8319

Vintage00

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oh, and aao has my favorite avatar on 2p2

07-24-2010 , 08:19 PM

#8320

aao

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Vintage00

oh, and aao has my favorite avatar on 2p2

07-24-2010 , 10:12 PM

#8321

Karak

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i defy anyone ITT to have a more developed psychodar than i do

i also defy anyone ITT to ignore their psychodar more often than i do

07-24-2010 , 10:17 PM

#8322

Karak

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lol some chick i havent talked to in like 3 years who i know liked me in college just randomly wrote on my facebook wall: "Hey [Karak]! Just wanted to see what you are up to these days. Where are you living now? I live in Northern Virginia. I hope all is well!"

is this like the inverse of the facebook messaging/wall posting/flirting/initiative we always debate ITT?

worth noting in the last 2 days i changed some of my info to indicate i might be living in the Northern VA area soon (but you'd have to do some light fb stalking to come to that conclusion)

07-24-2010 , 10:39 PM

#8323

B.T.overdrive

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Assuming she took the effort to write out northern virginia, indicating some amount of proximity to where you might end up I'd say it's a decent sign she's interested. And we all know we get a little ego boost if a girl does her homework about your current situation without going overboard.

07-24-2010 , 10:41 PM

#8324

Karak

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yea sadly im not so interested in return :-(

however would be nice to have a female friend to start building something of a social circle with when i move to a new town!