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06-03-2010 , 05:54 PM
The most important part of rock-climbing is
(a) Your yodeling ability;
(b) Your sandwich-making ability.

Some athleticism is a bonus.
06-03-2010 , 06:44 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by goofyballer
Just got this text from her 30 mins ago:

"So it turns out that I am going to a bbq in the city after my sailing lesson on sat, so I don't think it would be a good night for ice skating "

Serves me right for having the nerve to get excited, obviously.
Texted her last night asking if she could do Friday instead, still no response. I'm really pissed off about this, who says they'll go on a date with you and then cancels the next day?? I can't even believe how disrespectful that is.

The worst part is that when I talked to her on the phone the day before and asked her out, I was like "so what works for you time-wise" and she said "whenever, I don't have any plans this weekend". So sometime in the 30 hours after that, she learned about this bbq or whatever and was like "date with goofyballer, or something else?....yeah, something else wins." I've been trying really hard to come up with legit reasons someone might have for doing so and coming up with nothing.

If you don't want to go out with me, maybe you shouldn't ****ing say yes and then plan a date with me, bitch.
06-03-2010 , 07:12 PM
Move along time goofy? At least until you calm down about it. Seriously, just forget about her.

Any girl that doesn't want to go on a date with you instead of going to a barbecue isn't worth pursuing.
06-03-2010 , 07:55 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by yeotaJMU
mittens- at my birthday party, i usually invite around 300-400 people individually. i wouldnt try to read into anything about that other than the fact that they honestly wouldnt think it was weird if you showed up. i wouldnt see it like they invited YOU specifically
yeah, that's what I was thinking just didn't know if that was how it worked. Thanks.
06-03-2010 , 08:14 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by goofyballer
Texted her last night asking if she could do Friday instead, still no response.
Finally just got a response:

"Sorry to take so long to respond.I already have plans with my friend susan tmrw."

Currently debating if my EV in this situation is now so low that I'm not even sacrificing much by responding "wtf, if you don't want to go out with me then don't plan a date with me in the first place". So tilted.
06-03-2010 , 08:14 PM
@ yeota/supafrey: i know im not committed to either one. my issue has to do with B flipping a **** on account of her being crazy, causing some sort of drama, and going from 2 prospectives to 0 because of it. they know each other because we are all 3 on a coed intramural soccer team. a few months back B supported my interest in FW, but who knows how she would take it at this point... she was under the impression that things with FW were completely over and there is a non-zero chance of her going psycho over the camping thing a week after what happened. "no fury like a woman scorned" or w/e that saying is.

edit: lol goofy, im not sure what the thing TO do is, but im pretty certain that text falls under the category of things to NOT do.

Last edited by zugzwang83; 06-03-2010 at 08:20 PM.
06-03-2010 , 10:00 PM
goofy- **** the bitch man. i wouldnt talk to her again until she initiated, and maybe not even then. if shes gonna be a **** its not worth it when you have nothing invested.
06-03-2010 , 10:19 PM
Hahaha drunkaments tnoight. Me and bfg. i think thats what i called her in this therad, we looked like a couple the entire night was ridiculus. srsly we practiculaly never left eacheothers side the entire night geting seriously lolclose at some points. i didndt do anything as thatsa dick moev cos shes got a boyfriends still..

lolol couopla im going frekaing shoupping with her tomorrow. shopiiing... funtimes. dagniasbbbut she ruins anyn chance i have with other girls as i cant/dont want to get away from her the entire nigth out. sdfhgsrtd.

i shouldnt be bthered as she's going to paris for next year so it mifght wouldnt work anyways even though shes already invited meto visit next year a load of times alraedy.

spelling mistatkes itp.
06-03-2010 , 10:51 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Flyingbanana
Only if you have some sort of upper body strength and aren't afraid of heights. Otherwise you'll kinda look weak and stupid if you can't climb the walls.
I'm much more proficient at ice climbing but that isn't exactly practical. I think I'm going to try this soon.
06-03-2010 , 11:46 PM
goofy - she obviously isnt into you and doesnt have the balls to say it directly... move on

Last edited by En Passant; 06-03-2010 at 11:47 PM. Reason: she has bitch face too
06-04-2010 , 01:33 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by En Passant
goofy - she obviously isnt into you and doesnt have the balls to say it directly... move on
hate to agree, but it's true.

and in god's name, dont send her another text, especially not the one you would like to send.
06-04-2010 , 01:36 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by goofyballer
Finally just got a response:

"Sorry to take so long to respond.I already have plans with my friend susan tmrw."

Currently debating if my EV in this situation is now so low that I'm not even sacrificing much by responding "wtf, if you don't want to go out with me then don't plan a date with me in the first place". So tilted.
I feel like I would want to respond kind of open-endedly just in case she's actually busy for whatever reason because I personally would feel like a ****** for just giving up on her because she cancelled once. somethign like "ok, well i'm busy throughout the week, let me know if you want to get together" or w/e seems way better and not less high-roadish than the "hey **** off" text
06-04-2010 , 01:57 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Spurious
and in god's name, dont send her another text, especially not the one you would like to send.
TOO LATE




Spoiler:
06-04-2010 , 02:02 AM
ughhh.
06-04-2010 , 02:03 AM
I mean you got closure now, but this text would have sealed the deal for you, even if she was interested in you.

Last edited by Spurious; 06-04-2010 at 02:07 AM. Reason: btw bitch slap your friends for setting you up with her
06-04-2010 , 02:27 AM
Closure's what I wanted, I don't think it took much of a genius to see she wasn't interested in me when she blew off our date
06-04-2010 , 02:53 AM
gb,

Wanting "closure" from a girl you talked to at a party, made plans with, then she blew them off and made it pretty clear she wasn't interesting in going out with you, is very weird.

Now, weird is not necessarily inherently bad, but it is bad when it leads to sending text messages like that. Hopefully there's nobody else you want to date in that social circle.
06-04-2010 , 03:20 AM
goofyyyyyyy.
06-04-2010 , 04:01 AM
Goofy, you really need to be more chill, and don't let everything be so serious. Yeah, girls are flakes. It happens.
06-04-2010 , 05:25 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by El Diablo
gb,

Wanting "closure" from a girl you talked to at a party, made plans with, then she blew them off and made it pretty clear she wasn't interesting in going out with you, is very weird.

Now, weird is not necessarily inherently bad, but it is bad when it leads to sending text messages like that. Hopefully there's nobody else you want to date in that social circle.
I've never denied having issues. Sorry if that impedes your ability to **** with me the way you do w/ karak.
06-04-2010 , 06:24 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by El Diablo
gb,

Wanting "closure" from a girl you talked to at a party, made plans with, then she blew them off and made it pretty clear she wasn't interesting in going out with you, is very weird.

Now, weird is not necessarily inherently bad, but it is bad when it leads to sending text messages like that. Hopefully there's nobody else you want to date in that social circle.
this post isnt even remotely necessary. are you serious el diablo? give me a ****ing break. why dont you just post that you want to make goofy feel like **** and notihng more?

goofy: sorry things didnt work out with thsi chick. move on to the enxt one.
06-04-2010 , 06:27 AM
wento a clu b tonight

lol this cougar started hitting on me on our way in. she asked me what i was doing in town and i told her i was here to play the WSOP and she immediately warmed up to me so much. for being 35-40-however the **** old she was... she looked pretty good.

we got in and she insta bought me a drink (standard) and then i told her i needed to find my friends and split off. later on in teh night i was walking around and felt someone hit me... and it was her and her.... larger other friend (who was also liek 35). i told them we needed to dance (i was so hammered at this point) and we went out to the dance floor.

hot cougar and i... got pretty damn friendly and eventually she goes "i dont even know what im doing here im too old for this ****"

i reply "probably true"

definitely not the correct answer lololololololo lbut i thougth it was funny as ****. she and i didnt talk much the rest of the night.

i then dumped 400+ in teh pit

the end
06-04-2010 , 07:21 AM
(Turnaround)
Every now and then
I get a little bit lonely
and you're never coming around
(Turnaround)
Every now and then
I get a little bit tired
of listening to the sound of my tears
(Turnaround)
Every now and then
I get a little bit nervous
that the best of all the years have gone by
(Turnaround)
Every now and then
I get a little bit terrified
and then I see the look in your eyes
(Turnaround bright eyes)
Every now and then I fall apart
(Turnaround bright eyes)
Every now and then I fall apart
(Turnaround)
Every now and then I get a little
bit restless and i dream of something wild
(Turnaround)
Every now and then I get a little bit
helpless and im lying like a child in your arms
(Turnaround)
Every now and then I get a little bit angry
and I know I have to get out and cry
(turnaround)
Every now and then I get a little bit terrified
but then I see the look in your eyes
(Turn around bright eyes)
Every now and then I fall apart
(Turn around bright eyes)
Every now and then I fall apart

And I need you now tonight
And I need you more than ever
And if you'll only hold me tight
We'll be holding on forever
And we'll only be making it right
Cause we'll never be wrong together
We can take it to the end of the line
Your love is like a shadow on me all of the time
I don't know what to do and I'm always in the dark
We're living in a powder keg and giving off sparks
I really need you tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight

Once upon a time I was falling in love
But now I'm only falling apart
There's nothing I can do
A total eclipse of the heart
Once upon a time there was light in my life
But now there's only love in the dark
Nothing I can say
A total eclipse of the heart
(repeat 2x)

Turnaround bright eyes
Turnaround bright eyes
Turnaround, every now and then I know
you'll never be the boy you always wanted to be
Turnaround, every now and then I know
you'll always be the only boy who wanted me the way that I am
Turnaround, every now and then I know
there's no one in the universe as magical and wonderous as you
Turnaround, every now and then I know
there's nothing any better and there's nothing I just wouldn't do
Turnaround bright eyes, Every now and
then I fall apart
Turnaround bright eyes, Every now and
then I fall apart

And I need you now tonight
And I need you more than ever
And if you'll only hold me tight
We'll be holding on forever
And we'll only be making it right
Cause we'll never be wrong together
We can take it to the end of the line
Your love is like a shadow on me all of the time
I don't know what to do and I'm always in the dark
We're living in a powder keg and giving off sparks
I really need you tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight
Forever's gonna start tonight

Once upon a time I was falling in love
But now I'm only falling apart
Nothing I can do
A total eclipse of the heart
Once upon there was light in my life
But now there's only love in the dark
Nothing I can say
A total eclipse of the heart
Total eclipse of the heart
Total eclipse of the heart
Total eclipse of the heart
06-04-2010 , 09:03 AM
do u guys think it screws up your head if you date a girl that's 'outta your league' and from then on you can't find girls that are 'in your league' very attractive when it comes to things such as having sex? is this curable? it almost reminds me of playing 1/2 NL in poker. at first, it's so awesome. then you move up to 10/20 NL and in your mind u can never move back down to 1/2 nl. even when u do move back down, it's not near as good. and it's NEVER as good. same thing for women?

      
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