So how many texts today? Has BG tried explaining the bizarreness of her behavior last night? I am thinking she will go in the direction that she was scared because she liked you so much so she unconsciously sabotaged everything.

What's her moms first name. I may have dated her 25 years ago.

Set up Tuesday night r-ball plans with the girl that I'm currently chasing. I might end up having to audible out of trying for plans this weekend and maybe try for it the following week, simply because our law review write-on competition is ongoing (for another eight days) and she's busting ass working on her note. I should be too, really. But I was texting with her and while she says she had a fun weekend being in her friend's wedding, she's a little stressed about the fact that she didn't get anything done on her note this weekend. She warned me she might not be able to play quite as long as usual because she'd want to log some library time after. I'll broach this weekend and see how it's looking for her, but I think there's a good shot I'll defer until later.

I was wondering the same. Surely she's tried contacting you today, right?

KRAMER: Well, I was on my way to the Y, and I saw her coming towards me? I didn't know what to do! Because I remembered you had three dates with her and she wouldn't kiss you goodnight. So now I'm thinking, what is my duty to my friend? Do I acknowledge her? Do I ignore her? I mean, what is my responsibility here?

JERRY: So what happened?

KRAMER: Yeah, yeah, so she sees me and she goes, <imitates Gail> "Oh, hi! Kramer!" You know? Like nothing happened! Like she never went three dates with you and refused to kiss you goodnight.

JERRY: Yeah, I know about the three dates.

KRAMER: You know what I did? I snubbed her.

JERRY: What do you mean, you snubbed her?

KRAMER: I walked right by her - bffffft - never said a word.

JERRY (smiling): Right by her?

KRAMER: Right by her!

JERRY (to George, hugs Kramer happily): What you do say about a guy like this, huh! <George applauds.> You are some great friend, I tell ya, snubbed her! <seriously> Not that I condone it. I've never condoned snubbing in my administration. Your loyalty is beyond question.

KRAMER: Yeah. Well, you know, she was lucky I was in a good mood - coulda been a lot worse.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GzT59mHi1k

lololol

Given the relatively low morale of the thread at this point with ZZ's update and the BG shenanigans, I'll hopefully have a good E update tomorrow.

A friend of mine is currently uploading a few videos from a live performance I did a few weeks ago. This happens to be purely coincidental but when E and I become fb friends later this week, she'll see it when she does the standard check-out-the-profile-of-the-person-you-just-friended sweep and that my friends will be game, set, and match.

Sounds like we both have important weeks coming up. Two times dealer!

Did it wrong. It's HAVE A F GD NIHT MOTHER F.

Ok, but seriously, I gotta go back and read the rest. This is as far as I've read to. Got too many tl;dr to read.

wait my morale has never been higher in my entire life.

and your plan of action is genius btw. thats how you gotta roll. i love it imo

Hahaha why is your morale so high right now?

Well it was more like I was warning that I may have a less eventful week ahead than I had previously built. Thing is, if I end up pulling the plug on trying for this weekend, I know next weekend's no good for me (as far as one-on-one time goes anyway). My best buddy from back home is paying a visit, and while I do plan to take him out on the town one night and will invite some law school buddies out (her included), obviously that's putting things on hold for a bit. I do like that racquetball acts as a placeholder (she said that she wants to play every week) so that things shouldn't go completely cold when busy periods come up.

Hahaha, this guy is the Kramer of our thread. I never know what the hell's going on over there, but I'm always entertained.

MAN is a donk (i was worried id be blown out of the water, so if she DOES reciprocate interest in him its no worry), she acted normal today (so i know i didnt say/do something bad last time we hung out), and my plan of action has no holes except for the fact that my hair is too dark to be dyed completely blonde. its an elite situation! at least relative to what i thought.

oh i forgot, my plan also involves becoming fully fluent in spanish by the time i leave. i have a slang understanding at the moment, but once i do that, advantage ZZ again.

no but since i found out about my 6 week trip the plan has been to get into the sort of situation karak and BG were in a month ago.. nothing TOO serious as 6 weeks would def kill it off without a real chance of rekindling in the fall, esp as shes pretty inexperienced with the fairer masculine gender. like, you dont get in a relationship with someone for a month and then spend 6 weeks apart. you DO hook up with someone a few times and then spend 6 weeks apart and get back into the swing of things afterwards.

if i saw BG or couch girl you have NO IDEA HOW HARD I WOULD SNUB THEM

ty sir. give me a few weeks and ill be the best AND lankiest. def worth losing muscle this time. havent had a meal all day. 15 lbs in 23 days is like a cakewalk.

ZZ is quickly becoming one of the best poster ITT

grunching everything right nwo cause i need qucik strat talk

BG has not contacted me today. she'll likely hold out 24-48 hours before contacting (very standard on her part she hates to giev in and has admitted this)

when she does contact me which MAY be tonight

do i either a) not reply at all or b) just reply and be detached

b is my thought

yes B, assuming we are planning on ruining this girls ego, jizzing on it, then throwing it to the SIDE of the dumpster as an "accidental" miss.

if youre really just trying to get over her then A.

By going with b, what are you looking to get out of it?

If you could fake fawn over her while subtly implying you know exactly what she did that would be best IMO.

It's certainly an eclectic mix we have. No one reg is like another as far as I can tell.

I was wondering that too. I vote ignore. Unless of course you're going to go off on her, which is still my vote. But I know you're not doing that.

to be completely honest you have nearly talked me into it

Meh, the most stinging thing you can do to her is act like you're totally over her and that it made no difference to you what she did (even though that's far from the truth). So I vote for that.

There has to be some kind of aggression. If you respond in a detached way, then you get the reward of her thinking she maybe didn't get to you that badly. Yay. That prize sucks. That type of **** is good if you wanted to win her over or something, but obviously that's not the objective now at all.

Now I do think ignoring her completely is a form of aggression given that the status quo was 24/7 contact. It's passive aggression, but it's aggression in my opinion. And this would make her go crazy. And you'd have all kinds of fun texts to tell us about even though you wouldn't answer any of them.

Going off on her would be the most satisfying (at least for me), but it also comes with the negatives of letting her feel more okay about what she did by allowing her to convince herself that you're the bad guy. If you want to optimize your "make BG feel like ****" equity, 100% ignoring her might actually be the best scenario.

I don't know. I don't think that stings as much as you're saying, and you also run the risk of not properly conveying your message...being vague enables someone to interpret things any way they want to.

I very much vote that Karak chooses:
a) balls to the wall
or
b) go completely dark

I don't like the in-between at all.

How about responding to her, over time making her think you two are back on good terms, then soulcrushing her with insults directed towards her insecurities.

thats been my vote all along