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Old 02-02-2017, 12:27 PM   #62801
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Re: "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

+1 to the float tank

Just had my first hour and want more

Only disappointment is that the dude who owns the place is more "new age crystal healer " than "disciplined buddhist dharma warrior"
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Old 03-01-2017, 04:52 PM   #62802
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Old 03-01-2017, 05:19 PM   #62803
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lol nice
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Old 03-07-2017, 04:15 PM   #62804
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Situation that's new to me:

I hooked up with a friend of a friend through my social circle. We were on a pub crawl, she joined maybe 5 hours later than I did. I didn't talk to her too much at first, but a few stops later ended up dancing with her at the club, flirting, bringing her home and drunkenly banging.

I don't remember all the details, but two things I remember her repeating were "are you sure you want to do this and you're not just drunk?" And " no feelings" like she only wanted something casual. she got a little mad I forgot her Eastern Europe country of origin at the end(I think I should have got some credit for remembering "not Russia or Ukraine")

I added her on Facebook the next day and texted "we should do that again, but sober" she said "yes, sober" should I just be inviting her over, day of when i feel like it? Seems like she wouldn't want to date if she says "no feelings"

Multiple friends saw us leave together and we're in the same social group. what should I say to other friends who ask to be discreet and keep the FWB going? I assume I should act like we're not sleeping together, don't ignore her but don't hover around her all the time. Not sure how to handle if I'm getting interest from other girls around her tho
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Old 03-09-2017, 07:31 PM   #62805
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Re: "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

Do you often get asked about **** like that? I mean if they have a decent social group and are adults I dont really see why people are going to be asking you about it. People hook up.

Just say "We Men. You can assume" if they do talk to you.
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Old 03-09-2017, 09:55 PM   #62806
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Agree with Custer. Most women won't respond to just coming to your house. Just ask her out for a drink near your house st 10 pm
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Old 03-10-2017, 01:38 AM   #62807
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bobbou,

Stop caring. You'll either hook up with her again or you won't. Be a man who hooks up with women on his own terms and doesn't worry what anyone else thinks about it.

9finger,

Lies, what women are willing to do with a man is only limited to how turned on she is by him and how flustered he can make her in that man knowing she wants him but demanding she get on board with his program rather than following her playbook or the one that 99/100 guys mindlessly follow bc every guy just says...take her for drinks or take her to dinner. Society wants you to go out on dates, take women where they want to go, and just generally be a good consumer. If you want to chill out at your house and she says....I was thinking we would go out for a drink or something. Just tell her...nah, I'm not feeling that, text me if you change your mind and leave her alone to figure out what she wants to do
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Old 03-11-2017, 12:33 PM   #62808
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It seems like I won't be able to screw this one up. She hit me up Tuesday, my improv night but we were too tired after it ended. She came over Thursday and immediately moved into makeout/bang the second she walked in the door.

She saw me as more of a hot guy to hook up with, because I was so drunk. Not that I wouldn't be potential relationship material, but she's moving for a job in 6 months and doesn't want to get into something serious. When she said "No feelings" it was mostly to herself. So she actually prefers coming straight over for now, we talked about taking it slower in non-sex aspects.
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Old 03-11-2017, 12:41 PM   #62809
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Do you often get asked about **** like that? I mean if they have a decent social group and are adults I dont really see why people are going to be asking you about it. People hook up.

Just say "We Men. You can assume" if they do talk to you.
I know it's a small rock. I'm just thinking of the way to be discreet, but it seems like as long as I don't go out of my way to brag a bunch I won't make the girl feel worse about her rep.

Mating Grounds podcast had an ep where Tucker suggested saying something vague like "We had fun. She's a nice girl " without going into details and then if they keep pestering "Why are you so worried about my dick?" But I can't find that episode or remember which one it was.

She got asked about it Monday. A friend Jay asked the Birthday boy how the end of the night went and birthday boy said "Katie* had more fun than me" then Jay kept trying to ask about what happened, which freaked her out a little bit. Apparently she just went with a Deny,deny,deny line and didn't even admit to coming over to my place.


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bobbou,

Stop caring. You'll either hook up with her again or you won't. Be a man who hooks up with women on his own terms and doesn't worry what anyone else thinks about it.
I'm not worried about my rep or going out of my way to do anything different for her. If anything it's a positive for me. Just trying to optimize to get as much future FWB sex as possible
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Old 03-11-2017, 04:02 PM   #62810
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I'm not sure what you are worried about. I don't think there is really anything to do to optimize this situation, and it's not really in your control. She will either talk or not, but other girls will also form their opinion on their own.

Whether that makes you more attractive to her friends really depends on what her friends think of her and that type of situation in general.

I think the only way you can hurt yourself is bragging about it or even talking about it. Just deflect.
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Old 03-12-2017, 01:02 PM   #62811
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Is Gus Johnson still the GOAT tho?
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Old 03-14-2017, 04:11 PM   #62812
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Don't ever worry about what other people think about you if thats in your decision of whether or not to bang a chick.

For those of you lurking or about to graduate in H.S or whatever, if the chick is relatively cute or at least a 6/10 + don't give a **** what others think. Just don't. if you hold that thinking in most situations that you come across, you'll never bang and have good times.

I don;t know why none of you have ever brought this up. Too many young guys at an early age are too worried about what others think if they are in a situational where they can openly bang their cute friend or someone within their circle. its not healthy longterm to think negatively
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Old 03-20-2017, 05:33 AM   #62813
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Re: "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

Sup y'all, been too long.

Came back to college for senior year after going to study abroad and then living in the woods in Colorado for the summer. Spent the last couple months having the most success with girls I've ever had, performing spoken word poetry, joining the rock climbing club, skiing, moving in to a six bedroom house with 5 roommates, partying harder than ever before, and begrudgingly going to class.

All that said, just recently I ended up getting back with my hometown sweetheart from years ago and it is great, she's keeping me so grounded. And to top it all off, come September, I'll be heading off to Morocco to begin my service as a Peace Corps Volunteer! Excited, scared, and anxious to begin this new adventure, and thankful for all the input 2+2 has had over the years that, in a small way, likely helped lead me down this path as well.

Much love to all of you guys and hope 2017 is a big year for everyone. Till next time.
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Old 03-20-2017, 08:23 PM   #62814
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Re: "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

You sound like an interesting dude, not surprised you're crushing it with the ladies. Congrats on the Peace Corps, don't get dead.
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Old 05-22-2017, 03:07 AM   #62815
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As a 22 year old girl in college this discussion has been interesting to read. I enjoyed reading all these men's thoughts and fears about women. Most of the men in this discussion are American, yes? Still your thoughts are similar to people's thoughts in Omsk, Russia where I was raised. When I was 16 my sister and I created an advice video for school guys who wanted to ask school girls for a date. We uploaded the video to YouTube. It was a silly video however seems teen guys and men in both America and Russia think the same when women are in their thoughts.

There are many behavioural differences in how Americans and Russians act but thinking seems similar.

If you wish to know the opinion or advice of a girl who was raised in Siberia then ask me. However beware my bluntness. Russians may think similar to Americans but we express our thoughts with more bluntness.

Note: I am not living in Omsk now. I am a student in Las Vegas, Nevada, U.S.A and I live in America permanently.
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Old 06-18-2017, 11:49 PM   #62816
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wat happened to this thread???
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Old 06-19-2017, 08:25 PM   #62817
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Old 07-02-2017, 01:07 AM   #62818
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Re: "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

As posted in "Am I Too Old...?" thread also in this forum, I'm a 33 year old who will be going back to university here in France after dropping out of university after 2 years way back in 2004 in the USA.

I'm kinda curious if I'll have a shot with any of the girls in the class. I could be seen as "exotic" or the creepy, old, foreign guy. I'm hoping there will be some mid-20s girls, but I'd imagine most will be 20-21 which is probably too much of an age gap, and I don't think I'd feel comfortable with it. The 1/2 your age + 7 formula would set the cut off at 23.5 years old.

In any case, if there's anything interesting to report, I'll share it here.
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Old 07-03-2017, 08:16 AM   #62819
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What does any of that have to do with how sexual attraction works?
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Old 07-08-2017, 04:00 AM   #62820
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Old 09-07-2017, 02:50 PM   #62821
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Did anyone read this story in The Atlantic about how easily men are accused of sexual misconduct and have their lives ruined?

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At many schools, the rules intended to protect victims of sexual assault mean students have lost their right to due process—and an accusation of wrongdoing can derail a person’s entire college education.
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The preponderance-of-evidence standard demanded by OCR requires schools to make life-altering decisions even when there is great doubt. In a 2015 article for the Harvard Law Review, Janet Halley, a Harvard law professor, describes a case at an Oregon college in which a male student was investigated and told to stay away from a female student, resulting in the loss of his campus job and a move from his dorm. He didn't know why he was being investigated, but it turned out he resembled a man who had raped the female student "months before and thousands of miles away." He was found "innocent of any sexual misconduct," but the no-contact order was not lifted. "When the duty to prevent a 'sexually hostile environment' is interpreted this expansively," Halley wrote, indifference to the restrained person's innocence will tend to follow.
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The preponderance-of-evidence standard demanded by OCR requires schools to make life-altering decisions even when there is great doubt. Penn State, for instance, instructs its adjudicators to find the accused guilty if they deem there is a 50.01 percent likelihood that a violation occurred, adding that this means they "may have considerable reservation" about their decision.
This is not just on college campuses either. This woman falsely accused 15 men, of which 1 was even jailed.

This has started me to wonder about a few things. Is it still safe to walk a woman home after you met her at a bar or club? Is it even safe to bring her to yours, knowing that at any point she could accuse you of sexual misconduct, thereby derailing your life?

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Old 09-07-2017, 04:26 PM   #62822
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You worry too much, you need to go get.. oh wait
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Old 09-07-2017, 06:03 PM   #62823
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I need to get laid? I get laid frequently. Getting attractive girls is not a problem at all.

Hence the reason I am a bit more alert after reading these stories. This kind of liberal infestation is widespread in the 18-25 year-old crowd.

I might have sexual relations with 50+ girls the coming years and it only takes 1 that decides to regret it for some reason and continues to completely derail life.

I know that some guys make it a point to send a text afterwards to collect some proof that all went well.
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Old 09-08-2017, 02:54 AM   #62824
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Is it safe to meet anybody new, because they might decide to kill you?
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Old 09-08-2017, 12:15 PM   #62825
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Is it safe to meet anybody new, because they might decide to kill you?
I avoid areas and places that are dangerous. I also walk away when I notice somebody getting upset/aggressive/violent.

So while it's overall safe to meet people, I am alert in a certain way. I assume most people are.
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