Keep reporting him to the police and maybe find other victims to increase pressure.

Open up a website with his name and what he has done to you.

Committing a (violent) crime (especially in the US) is just stupid. It's 25k. You can earn that in 6 months working your ass off if you wished to.

Sort of how I feel. He has scammed dozens of people and I'm in contact with his victims but nothing ever gets done as he is a very slippery criminal. He has also made threats to me/my family etc.

I wish I had the connections to "rat him out to bad people" but unfortunately don't have that and nobody I would trust to not crack under pressure in that situation if they were caught. One of his victims would be willing to pay a large amount to see this guy end up in the desert.

I've considered suing him but figure it's a weak case and a huge hassle. The thing that sucks the most about this situation is the amount of time it eats at you just throughout the day... ill be reading a book and then go randomly look up his activity to see who he is going to try to scam next.

Run into Peter Falcone?

It was somebody else. Not much is posted about him online but there is a lot if u dig.

You either got to a) get over it or b) turn up the heat. If by b) you are looking for repayment just know you will never get honest money, if you were to be repaid it would basically be by threats of force scaring him into scamming someone else to repay you. You could try the website route but that works better for people that have a reputation to protect, and people in and out of jail with a history of scamming don't have that normally. Pretty sure a) is the answer.

goals thread is up for anyone to join in

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/67...hread-1644017/

last years: http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/67...hread-1579314/

ugh, dont want to see this thread die like this


happy New Year old farts

looking for a line check:

I'm in LA for 2 months and met a girl on an internet dating site. After good texting we decided to have lunch to see if we liked each other. Lunch was awesome and we decided to have dinner the next day. Had a great dinner then went to a rooftop bar for drinks and talked all night. Left with a kiss. That night she asks me when were hanging out again and if we should go out or stay in, I reply stay in.

Next day (thursday) she says she got ball tickets instead so we go. We had dinner first, awesome dinner and then basketball game. Lots of hand holding, kissing. She asks if I want to come over and watch a movie. Yes I do. I go over and watch a movie, we make out and dry hump for like 3 hours, she didn't want to do more. Left feeling ecstatic. She texted me the next morning saying thanks she had a great time with kiss emojis and whatever.

Now, she told me she was going on a trip over the weekend bc it was her birthday. So I didn't text her friday OR saturday bc i didn't want to bother her hanging out with her friends. On Sunday I called her at around 3 PM and left her a message asking how her weekend was etc etc.

No call back or text sunday. I felt like something was off. Monday I texted her asking hows it going and she responded and made just general polite chitchat. I purposely avoided asking her if anything was wrong though I felt it.

I asked her what she was doing that night and she said "getting drinks with a friend". I expected her at some point to ask what I was up to and make some sort of plans for the week to see each other but she did not. I replied "ok have fun. I found some places to go salsa dancing (we talked about going), let me know if you want to go sometime this week"

she responds and says something like "oh that sounds like fun but it may be hard to meet up this week. i'll hit you up tomorrow. have fun playing win some money" and I said "ok have a good night"



There's a fair amount of live reads here which may not come across. But since Thursday when everything could not have been going better, she
1) didn't call me or text me on sunday,
2) on monday when i texted her was being elusive and seemingly just being
polite without saying anything definite
3) when i tried to lock her in to plans told me it might be hard to meet up with week

I was really digging this girl and the feeling was 100% mutual and Im not sure what happened. I can only imagine its either she's mad at me for not texting her all weekend, or that all of a sudden there was another guy. I find the former much more probable given how well things had been going and the short time to form some other relationship that would supercede us two between friday and monday.

I had to struggle to not just ask her point blank what was going on with her, and if she was upset with me for something, or what happened. I feel like maybe i should've and I still want to.

Anyway its driving me crazy thats why i posted it. Current plan is not to text her at all, and if she doesnt text me tomorrow to ask her on wednesday what the deal is.

thoughts?

Hanging out 3 days in a row right after meeting somebody is pretty aggressive, and usually not a good idea.

At this point you shouldn't text her unless she texts you. She already told you that she will text you, and if she does not, it pretty much tells you all you need to know. Texting her after that is desperate and a bad look, and it will end any (albeit very small) chance you might have with the girl.

If you are only in LA for 2 months, you should also consider not getting too attached to anybody since you are leaving after that time period. Just have fun, meet some cool people, and move on. No point of stressing over something that isn't likely to work out anyways.

I think she got cold feet. I wouldn't proceed any further, sucks for you to be in the position but there is not much you can do. She made up her mind. People are complicated.

Agreed with Spurious - operate on the assumption that you'll never hear from her again and move on from the ghosting.

This

Women like a challenge, you weren't a challenge, you were overeager, hell you were "ecstatic". She lost interest bc she could have you whenever she wanted. You're giving away all your time to her freely bc she has a pussy. You met her on an online dating site, this woman knows she ain't **** and you're treating her like she's a queen when she knows deep down she isn't.

It sounds counter intuitive to everything you're told and see in media but look at the guys that are successful with women, they care about themselves and their own time over everything else and women are just entertainment on the side. She knows you're only in town for a couple months and just want sex and you're courting her around like you want to marry this girl. You did a lot of things wrong by being really thirsty but the nail in the coffin was when she asked what you wanted to do....stay in or go out and you said stay in....then she got basketball tickets and you went against your own desires....that's when she knew for sure she couldn't respect or trust you and why she went cold. Instead you should have just told her you weren't into going to the game and said I'm gonna go play poker, hit me up another night. She would have lost her mind bc no guy ever does that to her except the rare guy she can't figure out....that's the guy she wants to ****

Once you state your agenda women will try to move you off of it, if you let them you're dead in the water. Forget this chick and keep it moving, good luck

Some words of wisdom there

If you dont mind, would you share some of the techniques to take on lucid dreaming? Ive read quite a lot about it but yet never managed to truly dream consciously


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thanks for the responses guys; its amazing how emotions can obscure any objective analysis of the situation. my head is alot more clear after a good nights sleep. ill be sure to report back if there are any interesting develoments.

Viz women


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LOL What a pile of BS. Yes, women like a challenge, but as if she lost interest in him because he decided to go to the game with her.

Like others have said, 1 of 2 things happened. She got cold feet since things were moving too fast or the more likely scenario, she met someone on her trip that caught her eye more than OP. He then became the back up option and he will hear from her if that falls through.

While I think LD can go a bit too far with his shtick at times, I believe most of his post is correct this time.

I'm not an expert or anything on it and don't have all that much if any conscious control over my dreams when I've done it, moreso I'm able to recognize that I'm in a dream while I'm in it. It happens very natural for me if I wake up after a couple/few hours sleep and go to the bathroom then go back to sleep in that half awake/half asleep state. I've heard other people say to set an alarm for a few hours into your sleep cycle, wake up and move around for a few mins then go back to sleep. That's prob gonna be the best place to start. I know others talk about taking melatonin to induce it but I've never tried that.

LD is right.

In order to remember your dreams, you must think of them as if they were little kitties

When you wake up, in your bed, say
"Here, kitty kitty kittykittykittykittykittykittykitty"

Which is precisely what he should have said to her before he told her....we're not going to the game tonight we're gonna stay in. if she brings up the game again and says something about already buying the tickets just tell her you didn't agree to any of that and you're going to play poker. then go play and don't take any calls or texts from her that night, just go play. if you feel she's worth your time of training her how to behave and not always get her way and won't have to worry about too much craziness then text her back when you get around to it and tell her...i don't play games, don't ask me something then do the opposite. Let her whine and complain and vent wo reacting to her, then just tell her that's the way it is. Now why should I give you another chance?

That's a way different mindset than what most of you guys are running around out here with. You have to make mental and behavioral shifts out of thinking you have to pander to women, they need to pander to you and show they are worthy of submitting to a man, but you have to actually be one first. Most of these girls 2017 grew up without a dad or he wasn't around to tell her no to anything. They're looking for a guy that says no to them and makes them grow up, some aren't ready for it even though subconsciously it's what they're naturally programmed to look for. Ya'll are crazy out there playing all these games with women and letting her talk crazy to you and get away with it. That's called disrespect, men don't deal with it, boys do.

Basically she asked you straight up what you wanted, you told her and she did the exact opposite. She just asked you if you stand up for your dreams and desires and you told her no in that instant. She threw you back in the chump pool for one of the other girls to chew up and spit out worse than you were before til you finally learns the truth on his own. Women just reflect back your insecurities you have in yourself and you the same in her. The less insecurities you have the badder the bitch you're gonna get, plain and simple, bc they don't meet many real men that will stand up to their BS games and the more evolved ones are gonna play less games and understand what is happening in her relationships and what mistakes she's correcting. We're supposed to be evolving for ourselves and our women and attracting the ones that need your guidance depending where you're currently at in your life. Many of these guys are getting used up like tampons so a bunch of girls brainwashed by the feminist agenda act like men and make the women chase them around like pussies. You guys gotta grow up and find your balls, make a pact to yourself that no sex is worth dealing w/ some bitch that doesn't know how to submit and stop always going around testing you. Yes, as you grow she will test that you're becoming more evolved and test it, but doing it constantly uncorrected gets a bitched tossed out of my life back to the chump pool the nice guys to wife up by taking her on 8 dates before you **** her and shes 32 and has a kid and is just eyeing you up as the guy who she hopes will help her take care of this kid that she got by being dumb or trying to trap some other guy like she's trying to trap you. Make this girls act grown the **** up and stop claiming to be independent all the time then crying about everything. Either take responsibility in you life or don't, don't just ****ing cry about it. When you perfect that chicks will be lining up just to be around the energy you have you will worry more about the ones you need to avoid than who's gonna let you **** them next. Hold out on these bitches for as long as you have to and they will start choosing you, you just see the world differently, you see them wanting to submit to you as a man, not **** you around like a little boy...but many of them are also scared of this energy bc they're so deep into their me me me me hamster thats running in a circle in her head. Figure this **** out guys cause most of these girls aren't worth marrying in their current state despite what the govt, media, and these women are telling you and begging you to do when they refuse to grow up.

didnt read that last wall of text but her coming into tickets for something changes the decision, its not like he said he would rather stay in than go to a movie but let her strong-arm him into going to the movie anyway. he didnt give many details about how it happened (like if she just went ahead and bought them assuming he would go with her then you have no spine) but the way he worded it a new opportunity came up.

that said the fact that it was like the fourth night in a row together does show that he was way too thirsty but just that decision in a vacuum means nothing

I got to "brainwashed by the feminist agenda" and gave up. You don't need a submissive woman in order to be a secure man during your own thing.

U missed the point


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