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Originally Posted by NoGambolNoFuture
Hanging out 3 days in a row right after meeting somebody is pretty aggressive, and usually not a good idea.
At this point you shouldn't text her unless she texts you. She already told you that she will text you, and if she does not, it pretty much tells you all you need to know. Texting her after that is desperate and a bad look, and it will end any (albeit very small) chance you might have with the girl.
If you are only in LA for 2 months, you should also consider not getting too attached to anybody since you are leaving after that time period. Just have fun, meet some cool people, and move on. No point of stressing over something that isn't likely to work out anyways.
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Women like a challenge, you weren't a challenge, you were overeager, hell you were "ecstatic". She lost interest bc she could have you whenever she wanted. You're giving away all your time to her freely bc she has a pussy. You met her on an online dating site, this woman knows she ain't **** and you're treating her like she's a queen when she knows deep down she isn't.
It sounds counter intuitive to everything you're told and see in media but look at the guys that are successful with women, they care about themselves and their own time over everything else and women are just entertainment on the side. She knows you're only in town for a couple months and just want sex and you're courting her around like you want to marry this girl. You did a lot of things wrong by being really thirsty but the nail in the coffin was when she asked what you wanted to do....stay in or go out and you said stay in....then she got basketball tickets and you went against your own desires....that's when she knew for sure she couldn't respect or trust you and why she went cold. Instead you should have just told her you weren't into going to the game and said I'm gonna go play poker, hit me up another night. She would have lost her mind bc no guy ever does that to her except the rare guy she can't figure out....that's the guy she wants to ****
Once you state your agenda women will try to move you off of it, if you let them you're dead in the water. Forget this chick and keep it moving, good luck