lmao A+

Crippled dude turned out to be cool as hell. Definitely the most witty in the group. On my way to meet the Sweedish girl I ran into my drunk ex who started kissing me and telling me she still wears my t-shirts whilst the guy she was with waited on the other side of the road lol

Took a while to get it up with the Sweedish girl, then when I finally nutted, I immediately threw up all over her sink. She says "why the **** didn't you throw up in the toilet?" then told me to leave. Spent the next 5 minutes unclogging her sink with one of her earbuds, then left.Was a good night.

Nice.

But you're supposed to let her clean up after.

Ex gave me a call the next morning asking if I wanted to come up her place for a smoke. We broke up because she did me wrong, but she's fine as hell so I couldn't turn her down after months of missing her giant rack. We caught up, smoked some with blueberry rizzlas, and I hit my first home run with two different girls on consecutive nights (Sweedish and Egyptian, respectively). Not a bad weekend.

Just ran across an old fling(?) and couldn't remember her name.
I didn't think it would ever happen to me,forget a hot woman's name.
She still looked pretty good,and was the one who came up to me,I recognized her immediately,but couldn't remember her name to save my life.

Was kinda awkward,but I think I pulled it off,not that it makes a difference.

No chance of it going anywhere.

I do remember her being a little weird,she would put mascara on her pubic hair for some reason.

And she had a hard time remembering my name when we used to hang out,probably the massive amount of marijuana she smoked.

But she looked like Catharine Zeta-Jones,so I was willing to put up with alot.

Nowadays,not so much.

Hi guys

Hope you are all well.

My girlfriend have two kids with her ex. Hes been a real douche to her, stole money, threatened to go to a lawyer to get own care-giving of their children etc. Now he started to pay the money back, and said he wouldnt go to a lawyer. (Probably because he is scared) My girlfriend sent a message to him with two of these "" smileys in it. I told her that I thought it was inappropriate and that he doesnt deserve to get a sms like that. She also wrote something along the lines of "what have wonderful kids ". She just says I am jealous.

Am I completely wrong thinking that that kind of message is inappropriate?

It's an overreaction for sure.

The meaning should be "What wonderful kids we have "

Dante,

That's a crazy overreaction.

It's the kind of overreaction I'd expect a woman to have.

Yep, im needy like that. I could write a book about their relationship hence my concern. But im prolly overreacting.

Definitely. It sounds like she's just trying to be nice in the hope that it stops his dickhead behaviour tbh. Don't sweat it.

That's what you get for seriously dating a single mother...esp at your age. She let some deadbeat dude get her pregnant not 1 but 2 times. She obv habitually dates guys that have no respect for themselves...hence her currently dating a needy, insecure, effeminate man. No woman in the role of alpha with her bf as the beta can ever "love" the guy no matter what she says. If you don't have enough respect for yourself that you allow the woman to control the relationship, how can she ever respect you?

Also how did you come about these messages? Did she show them to you or you went looking?

Turns out hot Kuwaitian girl is in two of my classes!

She could send him a message saying she wants him to **** her in the ass and you'd still ask how high when she says jump so it really doesn't make much difference what she sends him

I'd say yes it's inappropriate from the sounds of their antagonistic relationship,but you overreacted as well.
Pick your battles dude,this isn't worth getting her mad at you.

This thread makes me miss college

She wants me to read all their messages and also their posting history.

Im afraid she doesnt respect me since im not an alpha male. How do I work that out? Should I tell he ultimatums?

You're not going to like my answer but I'll tell you anyway even though I suspect you won't listen.

Ultimatums aren't going to work....you're way beyond the stage where you could make any ultimatums that she would willingly comply with. You've already shown her who you are and people are resistant to others making giant changes in who they are, she won't just accept some ultimatum from some beta guy she has wrapped around her finger. Really you shouldn't even have to make a lot of ultimatums anyway, after spending a few hours with you she should just understand that you aren't the kind of guy she can control and manipulate....however you are exactly that kind of guy right now.

The only solution is to become alpha and if you were alpha how would you respond? Simple, you'd forget about her and never call her again and just go hook up with other girls. That's the first step. Sticking around and trying desperately to fix your wacky relationship where the woman is wearing the pants and has all the control will never work bc it comes from a position of no power and carries no weight. The only true "alpha" play left is to care less than her and walk away.

Understand that the only reason you want to fix this and you're holding onto it is bc you've been told how important it is to get pussy from some girl/girls and now you have attached your emotions to the fact that some washed up chick with 2 kids is giving you some. The second you understand that none of that is true and it doesn't actually matter is the second you start to get your power back which you've been handing to her this whole time. Her pussy only has the power you give it and currently you're letting it control your life and your emotions. As soon as you realize she's just some worn out chick that is using and manipulating you bc you're a beta guy that doesn't understand his own value, you begin to take control of your own life again as you stop handing the power to choose and decide your life over to her.

Think with your big head, not the little one and get your life back on track...gl

That is easily the worst advice ever given by any human being on any subject. That's impressive.

Be an Alpha in Beta clothing. My ex cheated on me and only contacts me when she is fed up of sex with all these alphas who use her and wants something more intimate with a guy who SHE THINKS cares about her. Of course I know her game and I'm happy to oblige because I'm not a man to turn down perfectly good leftovers. I also get satisfaction out of her thinking I'm just waiting for her, when in reality I'm doing the same thing that these supposed Alphas are doing to her. There's always a meta-game to be played in the Alpha\Beta dynamic.

Her best friend keeps telling her to stop talking to me, and the more she does that, the more sex I get. Women don't like being told what to do by anyone, in Dante's situation if he scolds her then she will do it again or something similar. If he walks away for the sake of being "Alpha" then he's sabotaging the relationship over a petty reason and doesn't get to enjoy her walls anymore. My advice is to keep hitting it and not showing that you care about the text messages.

You evidently don't know about the pearls of wisdom we get on here from ATF.

While I'm not sure about the value of keeping around someone who doesn't think much of me and gives me sloppy seconds,I can agree with the quoted.

I guess I should rephrase that,I know why I would,but I don't place sex at the top of the list anymore.

Cool, enjoy

This isn't about a single incident with Dante. It's about him letting this girl wipe the floor with him bc she dangles her pussy over his head. She gave it up to him a few months back and he came in posting about how he was thinking about moving in with her and her kids so he could help her with her bills(I'm sure this wasn't some altruistic idea that just popped into his head) ...he's way deeper in than a few text messages to her ex and there's almost no chance she isn't sleeping with him/other guys.