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"Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes "Ask Out A Girl" Thread: 2014 Year of the Petite Brunette and Pissing On Dudes

11-09-2015 , 09:39 PM
TheWhoWhat: Troll(-200) vs. Red Pill moderator. Who ya got?
11-09-2015 , 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted by LazyTops5
Height is huge no doubt about it my gf basically said shes only dated dudes 6'+

I do think its over blown to an extent though and can be over come with good dress, hygiene, money etc...
That's really surprising. I'm glad I don't live in the US. I am a short guy and height has never been that much of an issue at all.
11-10-2015 , 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Colin_Piddle
That's really surprising. I'm glad I don't live in the US. I am a short guy and height has never been that much of an issue at all.
Not surprising at all. Just like looks if you're OK with it and aren't insecure about it the girl isn't going to have a problem with it either. Just bc a girl isn't interested doesn't mean it's bc of height or looks, could be any number of factors that have to do with you or have absolutely nothing to do with you and just what's going on with the girl. It's almost always the guys own insecurity about whatever it is that turns the girl off, if it was a non issue to the guy the girl wouldn't think twice about it in most cases.
11-10-2015 , 01:34 AM
height def is an unfortunate disadvantage. not saying its an extreme killer, but its obviously a disadvantage.

kinda ****ty but whatever. just need your game to be a bit tighter
11-10-2015 , 04:26 AM
im 5'11 (read: 6'0 because this is the internet) and it always feels good sometimes, bad others, its such a middle height and kinda meh overall
11-10-2015 , 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted by LucidDream
Not surprising at all. Just like looks if you're OK with it and aren't insecure about it the girl isn't going to have a problem with it either. Just bc a girl isn't interested doesn't mean it's bc of height or looks, could be any number of factors that have to do with you or have absolutely nothing to do with you and just what's going on with the girl. It's almost always the guys own insecurity about whatever it is that turns the girl off, if it was a non issue to the guy the girl wouldn't think twice about it in most cases.
Stop with the nonsense about insecurity. Physical attraction is a minimum barrier that must be met. Period. I can go talk to 10s, but it ain't happening.

"That guy is ugly, but he owns it. I want him." SAID NO GIRL EVER
11-10-2015 , 08:58 AM
Stop harshing his PUA vibe man
11-10-2015 , 11:25 AM
As someone that is 5'9 I can't help but agree. Height is definitely a barrier in some cases. I do alright, but I'm sure my options would improve if I were 6'2.
11-10-2015 , 11:57 AM
like others said, yeah height is an issue sometimes but it simply cant be helped. you have to just work on things you can control and not worry about things u cant. just like how i cant help that im a ginger...


As an exception to the rule, i did have a girl tell me i was too tall to date her one time. she said it was awkward. it was about a foot and a half difference.
11-10-2015 , 03:18 PM
My brother is 6'5 and dating a chick that is 5'3 or so. It's almost comical to see them together.

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11-10-2015 , 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by LT22
Stop with the nonsense about insecurity. Physical attraction is a minimum barrier that must be met. Period. I can go talk to 10s, but it ain't happening.

"That guy is ugly, but he owns it. I want him." SAID NO GIRL EVER
physical attraction is a minimum barrier but youre making it sound like you cant get girls if youre 5'6-5'10, most of the girls ive hooked up with were close to the same height as me and none of them cared (im only 5'9), Lucidream point is if you make it a big deal then she will feel uncomfortable thus you blow your chance. If you dont focus on your height and you show her a good time and that youre different to most guys she wont care. looks aren't as important to women as they are to guys believe it or not. Tom cruise is short but most girls would still **** him regardless if he was famous or not. If a girl rejects you for your height she can reject a 6' guy for something else, its not that black and white. Women dont base who they hook up with solely on height, stuff like status charisma and ambition come into it.
11-10-2015 , 04:45 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
physical attraction is a minimum barrier but youre making it sound like you cant get girls if youre 5'6-5'10, most of the girls ive hooked up with were close to the same height as me and none of them cared

Lol. Duh.
11-10-2015 , 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by TheBirdman
Using a famous actor as an example of a short guy that pulls is a terrible argument. Nobody is arguing you can't still get girls as a shorter guy, but without a doubt it is overall much more difficult to do.
its only difficult if you think it is
11-10-2015 , 05:05 PM
So if two men were 100% identical in every way except one was five foot two and the other six foot two, you think they'd be equally popular with the ladies?
11-10-2015 , 05:11 PM
5'2 is extreme for a guy so youre obv at disadvantage its like me saying 5'9 or 7ft. if we are talking noticeably short like less than 5'6 i agree youre at a disadvantage but your 5'8+ guys will be taller than most girls anyway so its not that bad imo. lets leave it as that.
11-10-2015 , 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
its only difficult if you think it is
Yep and you only have a drinking problem if you admit it.
11-10-2015 , 05:23 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
its only difficult if you think it is
exactly, your beliefs create your reality and control your subconscious mind which controls your sub communication which is 93% of the communication we do, words being the rest. it is almost all body language and vocal tonality and very little has to do with words. if you're insecure about your looks you're going to have poor body language and unattractive vocal tonality which will repel women much faster than the fact you're 5'6" or have a thinning hairline. you literally project your insecurity onto the girl, she can literally feel it, and has absolutely no attraction to you...not bc you're short or ugly but bc you're insecure about it and it's written all over you like an open book.
11-10-2015 , 05:25 PM
Repeling woman slower seems like a waste of time.
11-10-2015 , 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Yep and you only have a drinking problem if you admit it.
tbf cody youre 6'3 and havent got laid in the last few months, i think you should be on my side.
11-10-2015 , 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
tbf cody youre 6'3 and havent got laid in the last few months, i think you should be on my side.
Lol, I stopped posting tr's due to the fact I am easily googable.

I don't go out as often as I used to and for a while during early 2015 when I was focusing on lifting I went through a small dry spell but I have had a lot of success(>10) since leaving austin.


Also 6'4, get it right.
11-10-2015 , 05:32 PM
11-10-2015 , 05:33 PM
Deleted the prop bet challenge, who knows what kind of girls he's smashing.
11-10-2015 , 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by CCuster_911
Deleted the prop bet challenge, who knows what kind of girls he's smashing.
easily googleable my ass, If you look at the stuff you post on this forum you should be more worried about that than tr's about girls. good try though
11-10-2015 , 05:43 PM
Yep. You got me.
11-10-2015 , 05:49 PM
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Originally Posted by fuluck414
My brother is 6'5 and dating a chick that is 5'3 or so. It's almost comical to see them together.

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I see this all the time. Girls in the short range (5 foot to 5'3) usually date guys over 6 feet as a means for an overcorrection. I rarely see guys 5'6 dating the 5 foot girls, which proves the point that if you are on the shorter end as a male you are pretty much screwed.

      
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