Sucks but you're doing the right thing in the long run imo

So everyone got good advice for stage fright kind of stuff?
Been plowing away tinder chicks without any issue ever but as soon as it comes to any chick I'm actually interested in or impressed by, I just can't get it up a solid % of the time, which makes for more awkard conversations than I care to have. It usually subdues with time /comfort but still I feel way more comfortable around sex with random chicks I don't give a damn about, which is sort of sad.

And yes, I tried to relax and I'd rather not take pills.

Do you exercise regularly and drink enough water?

Also maybe look into ZMA or Maca Root

I know you said no pills but generic cialis did me wonders for whisky dick. Sure it'd work for you too.

and I'm just over here trying to hide awkward boners all my life

Yup training for marathon and drinking loads of water.
Works perfectly with dem tinder chicks, so I doubt anything is wrong with the baguette..

I know for me the issue was condoms. I was fine till I put them on, then would lose it due to awkwardness/anxiety/not particularly pleasant feeling etc (only when sober with girls I liked, other girls didn't gaf).

Switched to ultra thin and problem went away. Dunno if that's when you lose it hut did wonders for me

Otherwise just alcohol. Was annoying but I'd just make sure that the first time was either at night while buzzed or morning after with morning wood and problem solved

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lol

Putting on a condom def awkward but I mean just stare at her hopefully sexy body while you do it and hopefully it isn't a 5 minute exchange so you can stay full mast

Thing it never happens with tinder chicks or whenever I don't care at all, be it drunk, with condom or anything. So I'm 100% sure it's not physical.

Actually worse, I slept with a girl from work completely drunk, no problem whatsoever, we see each other again, and I realize she is like super smart / interesting (besides very pretty) and obv can't get it up for the life of me.

Fml

Stay Hungry Brahs

Yea, I'd say it's likely bc you have too much attachment to the outcome and nervous tension in your body to perform. When it's a girl you don't care about that much you're fine or when you're more comfortable together(aka you know where you guys stand more) you're fine.

Start getting more comfortable being in the nervous tension and accept it for what it is, which is unknown surprise essentially. Are you somewhat of a control freak in other areas of your life and get stressed when you feel you're losing control in those areas?

Just looked at my upcoming social calendar. GG wallet I'm so ****ed lol. Going to take precision spending when out to survive this and set myself up for all the other life stuff I have to pay for. Going to work this Saturday to try and prepare.

Waiting to download tinder/bumble until I even have the time/money to go on a date.

see you at TBD hopefully

Nice post thanks. I'm not really a control freak (I travel in remote countries without any planning for example) , though I try to hold myself to high standards which is what this may stem from. I was raised in an old European, bourgeois/calvinist environment where no one is really comfortable around those things, which probably did not help.
Gonna try working on it and will call upon Profesional help if that fails.
Btw met work girl again at her boat at the lake, we downed quite a bit of wine and it went without any issue this time.

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Only condom I've used is Lifestyles Ultra Sensitive. I see no reason to switch or try anything else.

It's also the only thing that hasn't been close to a coinflip for me in terms of putting it on the right way. Always seem to try to put it on the wrong way 90% of the time. Not that I find condoms awkward, but it's something to joke about, especially with girls I've banged numerous times.

prob only advice I've ever taken from Henry is using Crown condoms.

I actually prefer the Lifestyles Ultra Sensitive to Crown. Crown is an extremely snug fit.

Haven't used condoms in like 2.5 years though. Did have some issues getting it up with them between exclusive relationships. Probably was almost all psychological.

+1. GF also likes them as she says my D doesn't have latex smell/taste after.

Beat: GF goes 1 month on/off pill due to hormone issues, so forced to used condoms every other month.

crown def a snug fit but still feels better than most condoms

Went out for a birthday. The group ended up getting two bottles (240ea) at a place but not many attractive ppl out to be honest. I just got drunk for 2hrs and left. Then one of the kind of crazy girls from tinder hmu so I said I'll pick her up at the bar she just left and she can come. She was with a pretty attractive Russian girl with a thick accent.

Not really sure what happened but we went all the way back to the apartment but then decided to leave and come back downtown and somehow ended up at this barber shop that had a bar in it. It reminded me of New York City. This door that I've walked by a million times and never gave a second look to had someone buzz us in and then there was this whole thing with ppl after partying.

Russian girl went into some back room so I went into a barber chair and had tinder girl blow me. Ppl actually walked by when they were leaving and the guys were like seriously don't touch anything and the girls they were with said just leave him he's obviously hooking up with her, so that was cool. Not sure how else this happened but another memory is me showing the video of me getting blown by TB to a girl that I think was lesbian and she was like ommggg and then introduced me to her friends, one of which was like nice to meet you and shook my dick over my pants. I said I'm definitely a grower not a show-er and was struggling to keep it hard while getting blown earlier. She just stuck with rubbing it over my pants infront of everyone lol. Then not sure but the 3 girls went into a bathroom together and my drunken mind thought maybe wanted me to join but then Russian girl was ready to leave and I thought I've peaked here and might be able to get a 3some back with them.

It didn't happen. She didn't want to drink more, brought up essentially having a bf, but was on the bed and while I was making out with tinder girl I was rubbing my leg against hers and she didn't stop me. But asked tinder girl if she had something for her to wear and then left the room when she was changed. I smashed tinder girl but mehhh not into her. Left in the monrning via Uber.

I didn't write this well because I'm on break at work but I forgot to mention my friend put his card on my Uber account so I got free rides all night/morning and the way we found the upstairs bar at 4am is from the rapper friend who was with a super cute, preppy hipsterish blonde that I was jealous he got. When I introduced myself to her I said something like I would hit on you but I think I have to stay with these two. And she was like I want 'rapper friend' to have sex with me tonight.

The drunken way she so genuinely said it was funny

lol free rides

The amount of times you randomly get blown in public is hilarious to me.