Hahaha Karak, nice pot size control.

Nevertheless, your step by step guide is good for this case. We could indeed argue 'bout principles of a relationship and what should one strive for when looking for one, but I agree there's no need to do so if people are young, there's too many hormones at play and no real personality to start with anyway. (no offence G&B it just is so and gets better with time).
Well done.

jeez louise stop the poker synonym things and the "one day son" attitude already

ok a little headsup on my case,and sortof hasty question as finals + parties are tomorrow~weekend:

btw still seeing the korean, but getting none as shes upperclass and nanana.maybe i will dunno~~

still managed to get beforementioned fbuddy deal w another girl, but shes on her period now and i prolly wont be sleeping w her anymore, but still shes been awesome enough for me not to hurt her in any way. anyways its the end of the sem now,and I know 100% I can get laid by at least a couple of girls, some new some old. fbuddy knows ive been w some, so has she and were really cool about it. should I ask her if its ok for me to go with some of the other girls? the most likely one is a quite close friend of her that she knows ive been with before. she will probably know no matter who i go with tbh.

im quite sure she will say its ok, and being honest about it. but still afterall shes a girl.whaddya think.

rm hate away, all responses appreciated. no 6 pages of analyzing essays needed.

Nio min Nio> no 6 pages of analyzing essay coming, and I don't hate either... I just lol. People call it schadenfreude and I'm victim of it... haha

As for the answer, she's just a fbuddy, right? So you're free to ef anyone without worrying 'bout her at all, whether she undestands or not. Even if it should be her close friend. Who cares anyway? Now that's a question, does someone care? Are you sure you're not incorporating any feelings into your frelationship?
If not, as said, ef anyone you feel like efin.

In other words, use the advantage of the position play. lol

keine schade gemacht for me, just wondering, interesting spot imo

and not getting too much feelings in, but may be seeing her in 14 days (lives where im going on vacation..this was 100% random) so want to be in a clear until then to still have my options unlocked. its not like im ruining their friendship b/c of this, just mentioned to make it clear she would get to know sooner or later. maybe i should have made that clear in my post. anyways.

from your other posts im assuming youre just missing around w that advice rm~

yea, keep the options unlocked. I guess that's the best way to go about it anytime.

If you mean, I'm messing around, then no. I'm for real. My previous advices were directed to G&B, this one, though it may appear opposite to what I said earlier, is directed to you. Two people, two advices, each that suits their world.

Rm seems like a nice fellow and I mean no offense to him, but as a general rule his advice on this thread is... how do I put this politely... sub-par?

As with regards to your situation, "fbuddy" != girlfriend. I'm not a huge fan of the concept personally, probably due to my own personal moral reservations, but that's the whole point of it: gratification without commitment.

IMO in the current setup, unless you have feigend some sort of commitment to her, you are under no obligation to ask or get her permission. I'm sure she wouldn't do the same for you.

However, if, morally, you personally feel obligated to do it out of an issue of conscience, then listen to that. That's most likely an indication that this really is more than an "fbuddy" relationship and is nearer to a commitment. But I sincerely doubt this is the case.

I just don't think standard social doctrine dictates you must in the current situation. I sure as hell wouldn't, and I'm more of a life nit than 99 % of 2+2.

What sub-par means?

I know for a fact that my advice might appear bull**** to some, but that's just cus I'm on a different thinking level you see. Somewhere beyond the clouds where stars chase other people's dreams. So generally I tend to have much bigger overview of what's life about and do not provide advices solely for the action or situation in question, but think about possible consequences.

I no, sounds weird.

Location: The whole universe spins around me

Now I have a feeling we have a gimmick potential here. If so, then well played.

grunched the last like 4 pages of this thread. Thoughts on just going up and handing a girl your phone number?

edit- piece of paper, already written and ready. We're in a course together but today is last the last class and there's no exam

ya i hope this is a gimmick. if so, we got pretty badly owned.

as mentioned, ill maybe (40-50%) see her in 2 weeks, so was hoping to stay in the clear until then. i def wouldnt mind if this wouldnt be the case. shes told me shes going home to see some guy, so in that sense i guess im home free. neways ill see her tomorrow in our finals so ill try to vaguely check out the vibe and take it from there without asking directly.

i def do not like the word commitment being mentioned here so maybe ill just go for it no matter what for the sake of it.ok bed now, will prob post results tomorrow afternoon, meaning in 18~ hours or so. gngn

edit: saw former post after i saved. i wanna try that sometime. writing it beforehand with a slick comment just dropping it down in front of her w a smile and leave. if i was a girl id love it lah

facebook her

Probs need some more info, have u ever spoken to her? do you think she knows you are keen on her? imo that approach will work better if you haven't spoken to her, becuase she might be tempted by some intrigue but otherwise you will just look like a bit of a pussy/social ******

Have you ever talked to her at all throughout the semester? THere are much better ways to go about doing this IMO.

Rate my text game ITT. TL/DR

Cliffs-- I've felt for a while now that I have absolutely no text game. I can flirt my ass off with anyone in person but somehow with text I've just never quite gotten it.

Background-- This is a girl I'm semi-interested in. She's cute, smart and a bunch of other stuff but for whatever reason I'm just not sure if I like her. Regardless, I'm trying to play it like I do which is probably making the process of getting her to like me a lot easier.

Text conversation today

Her- My ankle hurts
Me- Seriously or are you making fun of me?
Her-- Haha wow. Sounds like something I may have said before. What do you think?
Me-- Ooohhh and you are so clever yourself. From running I suppose?
.....
*** This first part is an inside joke so I'm not expecting it to make sense. Rate the later part.

Her-- Yeah thats not gonna happen probably. It will really hurt I know. The whole touching the burner thing is the lesson.
Me-- But I'm still only maybe right?
Her-- Yeah I cant just out and say your right. I'm too stubborn for that haha.
Me-- I dont blame you I was a terrible child as well.
Her-- Haha I believe it. Probably on the naughty list a few times.
Me-- Lot of coal for Christmas growing up?
Her-- No way! I was a very good little girl! Haha right...
Me-- Well you're still a wild child so I guess that much hasn't changed
Her-- Haha yeah you know me. Absolutely crazy. So many problems with authority.
Me-- You and the police are well acquiantanced?
Her-- Definitely. Spent all my afternoons in detention.
Me-- Extra chores around the farm then too I imagine?
** She's from Kansas.
Her-- I had to do the jobs noone wanted. Cleaning the stalls and giving the baths. The stench...
Me-- Must have been terrible
Her-- Pretty much. Thats why I changed my ways.
Me-- And what was that?
Her-- I like being nice now
Me-- Really?
Her-- Duh! You disagree I am?
Me-- You could be evil for all I know
Her-- But I'm not. Pinky promise
Me-- You want an air pinky promise?
Her-- Yup! Make sure to kiss the thumb.
Me-- That is a complete disgrace to the awesomeness that is the air five
Her-- An air five has a completely different meaning. Not comparable
Me-- I'm still not convinced. Although it does mean you can't be mean to me
Her-- Well I think it should go both ways then! The air pinky promise is totally legit.
Me-- So wait I'm not allowed to be mean anymore?
Her-- Nope. If I have to you have to.
Me-- This is quite the predicament you have put me in
Her-- Haha is it really that hard to be nice?
Me-- Its just how I roll. No Kansas jokes? Geez this could be hard.
Her-- Well I'm not sure I can be totally nice all the time either
Me-- Hey it cuts your options too... no more math nerd jokes
Her-- Haha I need to use that more.
Me-- You can't if we go through with this. I won't even be able to call you a creeper either.
Her-- Ok how about an air five instead?
Me-- So all topics are fair game?
Her-- Ehh I dunno about everything
Me-- Is Kansas off limits?
Her-- I guess not. Just dont hate on it too much
Me-- Nah between your town and the cornfields I've got plenty to work with
Her-- Okay then deal! *High five*
Me-- I just air fived in the direction of your apartment and got a ton of stares
Her-- Haha that's awesome. Where are you?
Me-- The library... and they're still looking.

.... nothing important beyond this point.

Comments? Overall performance?

First i hope this over IM or soemthing cos if these were texts(sms's) then u rack up a mighty phone bill with one line texts. Anyway... sounds pretty jovial and stuff obv she enjoys u and your jokes, but you just failed to sorta up the ante. Guess it was all joking around and nothing to push the envelope towards anything developing. Obv i have no idea of what your other convos are but just based on this you seem to be presenting yourself in the friend/guy i have fun/crush on zone, rather than guy who likes me and whose wenis i want in and around my mouth.

seemed like it didnt matter what you said, she was gonna be energetic and i think shes kinda into you.
and danny, if you dont have unlimited texts you need to flashforward 5 years reallll quick.

i'm in the same category with a girl. what should i say/do to transition into the next category?

No comments on your game; whatever works for you. But Jesus H, if you're not hitting that soon, I will be very surprised (and *then* I will have comments on your game, because this one is a slam dunk).

I felt awkward reading that text conversation.

And I don't think the texts tell me a ton about her level of attraction to you. Your end looks a little forced at times.

Not a huge fan of text game. Much better to be talking in person. There's no substance in those texts either... it's all fluff. There's nothing wrong with that, but it goes on for quite a while. That's probably a good sign, but I've had text conversations like this before with girls I consider strictly platonic friends.

That's about all I can really tell you right now. *shrug* I'm not very knowledgeable about the subject.

But

1) girls who arent into you dont have hour long text convos with you, and
2) girls who arent into you dont play the naughty-nice game

So you're in a good place aorn

well from australia so as far as we progressed is a $29 cap. but still feel that text game aint so great

neither of those statements are true, especially the 1st one.

the 2nd one is obviously a good sign, but not a 100 % affirmative.

1st one is a decent sign, but isn't really meaningful beyond that. ive had hour long text convos with my mother or even guy friends.

into you, ldo

imo she replied unprompted (often with just random chit-chat, or keeping some flirting going) enough times that I'm comfortable in my assessment of the situation.

You are definitely correct that there are no absolutes (lol wimminz), but in general I think what I wrote is a reasonable guideline.

What's more reasonable is to just look at the convo, and ask yourself if she's laughing, flirting, and engaged, and I think that's 100% here.

i think she's just bored IRL

the conversation has 0 substance in it. that's what bothers me. if he had tried to segue into a meet up or a date or something that's fine, but nothing... like nothing happened.