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Originally Posted by Spurious
You still haven't really said if she is fine with paying.
If she is, then she will gladly subsidize those trips and you shouldn't worry about money.
Honestly it sounds like she will subsidize the trips to me. It seems like your relationship is quite serious if she is talking about making joint purchases, marriage, trips etc. You need to find that out from her or work a compromise. Like maybe if you guys go to Europe or the Carribean she can pay for the flights and lodging and you can buy your own food and drink, etc.
It's natural she wants to take advantage of her financial situation and if she's willing to bring you along on these trips, that's great for you. On your end, definitely be as frugal as realistically possible to be able to contribute at least a bit to more expensive activities that she subsidizes, and make more $$ asap.