help me fellas, what would you guys purchase in this situation?


in my small bedroom I usually lay down to watch tv but the floor is hard and its hurting my back. without buying a chair, I was wondering what are some alternatives I could purchase for a decent price?

whether it be a mat or some kind of bean bag chair. it has to be somewhat easy to store away or not to big that it ll take up a lot of space

Told my grandma I dont need a bed Im sleepin on tha floor

But srs, maybe like a Love Sac type chair or a video game chair

If you are carrying her around because she is basically passing out that was not a first opportunity.

This was not an opportunity but even if it was your conclusion that if you pass on a first opportunity there is no second is wrong. If a girl is interested passing generally just makes her try harder and be more aggressive.

Act like nothing happened because from your account of what happened very little did happen. Continue as normal and it will either happen or not.

Her ex-bf is not a factor. They broke up over a year ago. If he gets pissed he has issues but it is not your problem.

Ok. I'm a long time lurker, but I'm in need of a bit of advice. I hooked up with one of my housemates long time friends on Friday night. I'd hung out with her in group settings a few times before and my friend had mentioned that I should go for it, because he knew I was interested. Either way after stuff happened that night I ended up drunkenly putting my number in her phone and telling her to text me sometime. We hooked up again in the morning and then I drove her home. From what I can tell she had a good time.

Now that I've had some time to think on it, however, I'm regretting not asking for her number. She's a pretty shy girl and I'm not sure she'd make the first move even if she wanted to. My options now are to wait and see if she texts me, add her on Facebook (I'll probably do this anyway) and message her there, wait until I see her again in a group setting (probably in a month or so) or get her number from my housemate and just go for it. Not looking for anything serious, but would definitely like to hook up / hang out again. Thanks for the advice in advance.

Get her number and hit her up.

Always get their number.
Always take initiative in casual relationships and early on in serious ones.

asked this in the skype group but figured I'd ask here too.

Anyone have good soundcloud/youtube playlists for having a girl over - ideally stuff to set the mood for banging. Not gangsta rap or anything, but chill electronic etc. Think stuff like:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fi5ztDWmx5w (emancipator - nevergreen)

thanks in advance!!

I know what u mean, I'll post the playlists as soon as i get home.
Could u add me to the skype chat tho? horVeech

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Won't let me add (i'm not a mod).. Custer added me give him a PM. Thanks in advance for lists

custer add me ty

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?lis...aRGwT6DvUNfAl9

I figured as much. Just need to get over being a anxious b**ch. Would you avoid Facebook until later or just go for that as well?

I'll be in the extreme minority but I would not have asked for her number.

I'd like to hear your reasoning. When I was driving her home I considered asking for it, but she has mine so if she wants me to have it--it isn't hard. I know I'll see her again and since I'm not in a particular hurry for anything to happen I have been considering just waiting. Thoughts?

TheWal, don't be desperate, just wait it out. You'll see her again in a month or so. The wait sucks, but try not to let it effect you.
When you see her again just have fun again. Be flirty, be sure to touch her arm when talking to her. Don't go for the kiss when you meet. Let the night progress. If she's interested it will happen again.
This time, get her number.
Don't add her to fb in the interim.
Also have some interesting stories of your life to tell her from the past month.
Eg. Been really busy, took up rock climbing, hitting the gym a lot, been going to this new entrepreneur group meetup, etc.

And if she's really interested she has your number and will contact you at some point sooner.


Side story:
Posted about it here before. Was talking to a girl at the bar in the summer. Asked for her number. Pulled out my phone to take it down. Phone was dead. I gave her my number. She never contacted. Determined that was a fail of a move. Should have texted myself from her phone. Regardless, this was months ago.

Was walking down the street with my gf 2 weekends ago. Crossed paths with a girl. We both looked at each other intently. Took me a sec to realize who it was. It was the girl from the bar. She must've realized too. Thought I may get a text from her, alas I didn't.

I wouldn't be concerned with Facebook.

I posted just that in skype chat Saturday morning:
https://www.dropbox.com/s/8yp2t9woc1...25th_Music.zip

Not sure if I missed it, but is the GF the same girl you had accidentally got yourself into a relationship with while you were drunk/hoping for things to work out with that girl you were friendzoned with a while ago?

Thanks for the advice. The wait does suck, but this is probably the best play. I feel like getting her number from my friend and then texting her could come off as weird, though it's possible she would prefer I take initiative.

The other issue is that while I'd like to hook up again I would rather it just flow from us hanging out in a group, rather than inviting out for drinks or something 1 on 1. If we started texting a lot there might be more pressure to make a move when I would prefer to keep it as casual as possible.

DDIP, ya. Was a 2.5 month period of hanging out before we solidified a relationship. Had a couple flirtatious events with friendzone during that period. Have since basically cut friendzone out. She doesn't know for sure that I'm in a relationship, but says she misses me and wonders when we are going to hang out again.

It was just the way I did things when I was single -- never asked for phone numbers. I would give mine if asked but only then. In a situation like this I would ave invited her to something casually in the near future and she would either show or not. I think I was dating P.R. for easily over a month

The justification behind getting her number is that way you can call her and it is harder for people to say no than to actually initiate. While I agree that is certainly true what I don't understand is why you'd want to go out with someone who you need to pressure into it.

With respect to the shy aspect I have never found that to be an issue. Even if a girl is too shy to contact you directly because she is interested she'll always find an excuse to initiate contact and everyone knows it is complete BS but plays along. Now if a girl is even too shy to do that then do you really want to even date someone like that?

@Henry17 I appreciate the response. That sounds reasonable. If I had gotten her number in the first place I would probably reach out, but since that isn't the case I think it's best to just leave things as they are until I see her again. If she wants things to happen again--they will.

I've been following the thread for a while. Hoping to start contributing more.

So, been seeing this girl for about 2 months. She's been separated from her husband for 8 months when we met and has 2 kids. Just got this text from her

Sounds right. Hey I need to tell you something and I don't want you to take any offense to it, but I need whatever this is to slow down. I'm not ready for a relationship, but I do enjoy your company. I like hanging out with you, but I also need to focus more on my kids also. With that being said, I don't wanna stop seeing you, I just need to cut it back. Do you understand?


Not sure what to make of it. Meeting up tomorrow because I hate doing stuff like that over text. What's my play if anything?

Translation : she wants to be **** buddies.

Bang her, then say see ya next week

solid