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Originally Posted by mountainspring
yeah........ so is there a better way? asking her to study finals together is basically the same thing right?
Yes, if you go right up and do that. Don't do that.
I said "bring up the final." I just said that because I know it's common ground that you two have. If you have other common ground worth starting a conversation with, do that instead.
If you've decided you want to do this without knowing a damn thing about her, she must be ****ing hot. Hot women are like Hannibal Lecter...if you go in with an agenda, they'll immediately see through you, toy with you for a while, and then turn to stone. So, don't have an immediate agenda that she can see through.
Go in without a goal of how to end the first conversation. Just talk to her and see where it leads. It COULD lead to an open opportunity to invite her to study together, but that's not likely. Just talk to her. Be cool. Don't put pressure on yourself to do anything beyond making a good first impression.