Anyways guys, I thought it over, and those will be the last of the TRs in this thread. Best of luck to everyone, but I will still probably be around to answer certain poster's posts and stuff.
I did want to take a second to respond to one post, however:
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All Karak psychoanalysis aside, I'm surprised more people aren't talking about BG's behavior. Recap:
1. She cheated on some dude to "hook up" with you.
2. Told you she banged some dude night before hanging out with you.
3. Plays around with you telling a chick to grind you at a party.
4. Plays around with you making out with some gay dude (highly likely that she planned this to mess with you as immediately you go upstairs and she's blowing up your text).
5. Plays around with you asking you why you like her (it's amusing to her how you are her little yo-yo and she can act like a **** and bang whomever she wants and you're still there to text with whenever she's bored).
6. Tells you clearly in dorm that she only wants something casual (if a 19 year old girl really likes a guy, no way in hell she would bring up stuff like this).
It's overwhelmingly clear from weeks of TRs that you like her a lot more than she likes you. This girl doesn't really care about you at all and if you continue hanging out with her she is going to provoke in you 3 AM drunken Karant's the likes of which we have never seen.
BEP obviously phrased this post in a way that it would get my attention, (
it's amusing to her how you are her little yo-yo and she can act like a **** and bang whomever she wants and you're still there to text with whenever she's bored was very well done), and it did.
You are giving BG credit for being capable of thinking on a level to pull these things off. She cannot. I don't know many 19-year-olds that can, and certainly not BG. Yeotajmu can back me up on this 100%.
And if this was going on, then who the **** cares? I think I've made it clear that while I have "feelings" for BG, I'm open to dating other people and am neither seeking nor desire any LTR with her. I laid out in very plain language why a LTR could never work and why she would never be compatible with me. I couldn't possibly have established this any clearer in the thread. I made it clear even when she did bang the dude that that didn't bother me, it was the fact that she told me the day of. Her crying on the phone/getting all emo/calling herself a horrible routine was either genuine or she's a complete psychopath. She's not a psychopath.
The girl grinding on me was quite funny. It was a running joke because the last time I was in town this same girl tried to hook up with me, and then screamed "**** YOU" and flicked me off when I stopped giving her attention. BG was there for that too. So was Yeota. That was some funny ****. If you understood the dynamic of the group we were in, you'd piss your pants laughing at the specter of BG using this girl for some nth level psychological motivation. I don't know if Yeota knows who I am referring to, but I'm sure he'd back me on up on that if I told him.
The gay dude thing is pretty apparent. If you honestly think BG sat down and planned that out... wow. This girl would have to be borderline obsessed to go to an extent like that, and she's not capable of psychological manipulation on that level either. Nor am I.
Yeah, I like texting her. It's entertaining and she's good conversation. However, unlike how you framed it in your post, I don't sit here in my room staring at her photo on the wall all day long while she's banging other dudes (because as you framed it, this probably happens three to six times a day) praying for her to text me. I have, like, a life with, you know, other people and friends. I'm free to do whatever I want to. In fact, as I alluded to earlier today before I got blindsided, there is a second situation that popped up today. I'm making no qualms about it, and I don't owe BG any loyalty. Nor does she owe me any.
While I find your blanket generalizations about 19-year-olds funny, they simply aren't true. I did have to respond to that post, because I was impressed with the aggressive tone and thought it deserved some attention.
However, I think this should wrap up any loose ends up to this point with the BG situation, (trying to leave the best framing of it possible), and this will be the last time I discuss it unless something truly insightful is posted for me to reply to.
Also, it's good to have TUTS back even if my love for him is unrequited.
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Originally Posted by LazyTops5
its obvious that karak knows this won't go anywhere long term and doesn't even want it to.
yep this
Last edited by Karak; 04-13-2010 at 02:51 AM.