This cuts both ways.

She is also just a girl you went out with once. Implicit in your statement is a assumption that the guy has a greater desire to see this work. That means you are accepting that she is the catch and you're lucky to have an opportunity to court her. You're putting yourself in the position of the lessor of the two which signals to the girl that you think she is above you and as such she might want to reconsider her original conclusion that you were worth pursuing.

Attraction is not built by reminding a girl of your existence. You are much better off letting her wonder if you'll ever contact her. The possibility of loss will build attraction.

yeah i've decided against asking to do lunch until at least next week

you tell me

Well done!

hot but i hope you made her wear elbow pads

legit LOL

Confirmed hot, still wouldnt go 9 though, like 8-8.5

Nit itt

Fawk. Good s*** brah she is smoking

Her face is not in the 9 category (unlike Avery from real world) so 8.5/10. Still very hot.

LOL. Don't forgot the posts by "Too Many Letters" his amazing gimmick from back in the day.

That is not necessarily the case. You don't need to do anything special, just the odd, 'Hey hows it going?'. I don't see that as any extra effort/desperate. It's just friendly. Just because you are contacting her does not make you the lesser person, it means she is busy and you like her.

After one date I don't think the possibility of loss is going to keep her awake at night. There is nothing there at the moment, so you need to force it a little otherwise she will disappear.

As wsopmichael said (even though you are disagreeing with me, you kinda agreed with me), 'If you wait for her to contact you, she probably won't'. So you have very little to lose seeing as she probably won't get back to you. If a girl is worth the effort then I say go for it.

I would go low 8's, she's hot but asians aren't my thing. No racist.

agreed. i think she's really good looking if you're into ethnic girls. if you're not, then she is probably just average face with a good body. but i think the last girl that yeota dated (the domestic abuse one that gg posted photos of on poles around town) was also ethnic so i am guessing that is what he likes. in which case, well done.
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i've had a few tinder matches lately where i text the girl and she always replies quickly, but doesn't really contribute anything. like she will answer questions and even respond in multiple messages, so it's not like she is being curt and trying to end the convo. but at the same time she isn't doing much to stoke the fire or escalate things. i feel like just by virtue of having swiped right and then replying to a bunch of message, i've gotten further than most guys on tinder have with her (if these girls held text convos with 10 guys that would take up her whole day. i've been chatting 2 or 3 and even at that i feel it's getting excessive).

obviously i wish they would be more active participants, ask me more questions, start their own topics, rather than just coasting along answering questions that i ask. but it i think that is sort of how it works, the guy pursues and the girl accepts. at what point do you expect the girl to start to hold her own in the convo?

fwiw i got one girl's phone number and been texting her not through tinder and it's still the same she gave me the digits but still just answers questions and responds to topics but doesn't initiate anything herself

Why should Funky be more worried about her disappearing then she is of him disappearing?


I don't agree with wsopmichael that she won't contact him. I said it could go either way but the probability is that she likely will.

Also I'm not against contacting her -- I would support a contact for lunch, a contact on the eve of the exam to wish her luck, or a contact after the exam to ask how it went. All of those have a specific purpose. I'm always against contacting girls just to talk.

I would just ask them to do something pretty quickly. If they are up for it great if not I can't imagine these conversations are much fun.

I'm interested in what other people's experiences are. I feel that Tinder addresses my issue with the quality of girls on online dating but if this is typical then it is a pretty big negative against the service.

I suck at tinder. I've been doing it for a few days, have 3 matches, but all after futher investifation are relatively unnatractive.

I also have pretty **** text game I think. I usually rely on sarcasm/humor which is hard to get across.

What kind of messages do you guys open with? Corny but funny pickup lines like from the BB forum? Standard vanilla stuff like what's up this weekend?

From talking to friends the vast majority of girls (and guys) use it as entertainment in and of itself, and the frequency of expanding to actual physical meetups is pretty small.

In saying that, the opportunity cost is virtually zero, so may as well play on it if have 2-3 mins to kill

Thanks guys will read the threads then report back.

Wait you actually give her a 9? I mean 9 to me is Victoria secret model hot(assuming you dont want to give out 10s).

For mean 9+s are like top .5% of their age range (1 in 200)

8s+ being top 1.5% (1 in 66)

7s+ being like 7% (1/15)

6s being top 20% (1/5)

5s being top 50% obv

Obviously thats a strictly looks based assessment, not factoring in the intangibles.

LDW TR

I've been on a pretty huge bender since I came to school around Aug 20th. LDW in my school usually means everyone that parties freshman year or older goes on a weekend trip to the jersey shore or something comparable. However, the move this year was my ex-girlfriend's best friend's summer house, so I decided to not go and so did my best friend. On Friday our plan was to go to a party our frat was throwing which we imagined would be filled with freshmen girls. This was a good thing because it meant we could try and **** younger bitches (we're seniors) without it getting back to any of our friends, which wouldn't look good really to girls we know/are trying to **** still. We go and it's as we imagined but the girls are not really sub-par. In an attempt to save the night, we crush the everclear/fruit punch jungle juice in a big gatorade cooler and get obliterated. We end up not being able to form sentences, and I black out. Apparently I was spotted at the bar I live above doing fireball and jagermeister shots, though. Wiff.

Saturday we imagined would bring similar conditions unfortunately. We decided to say **** it and crushed the new handles fireball has been making. We also wore Hawaiian shirts in an act of lack of **** giving. I was able to hold it together pretty well and felt pretty good. We go to a party and it ends up being not horrible. We both hooked up with good looking girls that were borderline 17 years old, but couldn't close because our go-to is usually saying let's go to the bar that I live above, which probably came off too strong to two 17 year olds. The night ends with us getting in a fight after I got blind-sided, sucked punched in the jaw.

Sunday I couldn't take the going out situation at school so we plan on sucking it up and going to the shore. My jaw hurt so bad, and I was nervous it was fractured or broken. I couldn't chew anything, which sucked because I was so hungry. On the way there, however, I get a call from a group of girls that they're near my hometown in NY so we should go there instead. Queue spontaneous exit and journey up I95. We get there pretty quickly and immediately start drinking. We bought a handle of bacardi limon and bud light lime-a-ritas since we figured the 3 girls would like both of those. We pregame hard as **** with that and the other alcohol they had. I got especially drunk because I wasn't able to eat all day. We get a ride to the bars in my hometown and it looks awesome. People were everywhere and I knew that all girls were DTF. We go to about 3 different bars, and had to put up with the LDW overpriced drinks. Between my friend and I we spent about $400, but I didn't care because somehow I beat markets in August. Near the end of the night we were about to get a cab and my friend pulls a power move and buys another 30. We go back to my house and end up drinking more and skinny dipping in my pool/the bay. At some point, I go inside the house and hook up with one of the girls. I bring her to my guest room and were about to bang, but she was on her period. She gave my a bj, and she also had great tits so I tit-****ed her and came on her face. I pass out in my room naked and wake up to one of the other girls nudging me. She starts grabbing me, but I was super ****ed up. It was basically the closest I've been to getting raped. She goes on top of me, and I'm somehow semi-hard. I obviously don't come because I did an hour or so prior with the other girl and I was super ****ed up.

TLDR: I got turnt up/I'm Gatsby

Anyone got skincare regimen/ products they'd reccomend? haven't got bad skin and mosturise daily, just wondering what else I should do.

Basically Ottys approach is standard and fine for young chicks 18-22. Henrys is what I use to use for 21-24 girls. Depends on the girl really, the younger and less experienced the less likely random contact is going to kill ur chances.

Solid TR. Any idea what the fight/sucker punch was over?

Zoom,

At some point I was looking for skin care discussion and saved the links to two different conversations from this thread (could be more idk). Here you go:

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/67...l#post35655316

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/67...l#post36418496