Wow,no kidding.

I thought I was bad.....

Yeah, this. From some people's reactions, I was expecting it to be much worse. In a normal situation, not showing a ton of attention usually is good, but in this situation you should've just left ASAP.

Guess people's reactions were to the situation I managed to screw up, not how I did it.

Weird thing is, I have mostly positive feelings regarding the whole situation. Obv fked up, but it's a bit of a confidence boost, as I'm not that confident/good with girls.

ouch

even though this sounds like a tricky situation to navigate having the girls report 'you declined the invitation' stings

biggest mistake seems not having tried to leave the party they came on to you together, whether you ended up meeting up with your group again or not , gives you another setting to assess how interested one or both of them are and suggest choice of places to go

This. The idea of being aloof applies only to the initial back and forth. If a girl goes directly lets have a threesome you play that differently obviously.

This is exactly what i think happened. It seems they just wanted to have fun with you a bit. I don't see why 2 girls will come onto you when you're not that good looking like you said. Also its not as bad as people are making it out to be

Never actually said I'm not that good looking, but fair enough.

No, of course not.
Why would you even think that?

I was a bit confused by the story, not exactly sure when this all happened, but given dancing came up, I assume it's somewhat late in the night, so it's reasonable to leave, especially given the possibility of a threesome.

Finally some giffage.

Man I think this summer could be pretty good on the ladies front. Both the girls I was hooking up with before my holiday are still keen (far and away the best numbers in my life, counting them it's 6 girls in 16 days) plus I just signed up for OKC and it seems like a gold mine.

I'm also looking at launching Grouper myself in Australia (basically ripping off the idea, on that note, any good ideas for names? I want to start the development next week, which means I need a name for beta launch in a month or so) so I'm sure I will be able to fill in on a bunch of those (and obviously cherry pick the best girls for myself, ethics shmethics).

Fryke can i help you design it (code). Pm me

call it groupees.

Been awhile for me itt but



Just had an insane opening weekend of football with tailgating etc.

For now I'll give a short version.


At my tailgate :super hot Asian (honestly a legit 9). Skip game. Blow job in front of cop cars in the lake on campus (at 4pm). Back to her place, **** like crazy for 90 min. Chill there, get high. Yeota ex-wife shows up with new bf-because she (and myself by chance) happen to be tight with their roommate. Had no idea. Also she is fat. Was a goat seeing the ex gf experience bc the Asian is legit the hottest chick I've ever ****ed.


Oh btw Asian is apparently engaged

Well played sir

Just took my shirt off at the bar for drinks......TCD did it too though. Bachelorette partties are crazy

When I was out with Maddy on monday night there was a bachelorette party out and the bachelorette was just making out with multiple dudes at the bar.

I remember one time in NZ we were at a bar and there was a hens party there, and one of the bridesmaids came up to me and asked if I knew anyone called Oliver, Nigel or James, because that was the grooms full name and the bride needed to make out with a guy with each of those three names. Obviously I was conveniently Oliver, my friend was nigel and my other friend was James. I hope we didn't jinx their marriage

Bachelorette parties are good prospects.

Haha both those stories are awesome.

So ya TCD and I are with his two friends, one who is his birthday. We go to this bar that is basically just a sauna with grimy dancing everywhere. To give you a feel of what is going on in this place the DJ has shoulder length brown hair and is wearing nothing but a speedo.

So we make our way to the back of the bar here the actual bar is and the second i get back there I glance to my right and the bachelorette is eying me up, she comes up to me and says "Its my bachelorette party, blah blah blah, and I have to do these dares, and one of them is to get a picture with a hot guy at the bar(her words not mine) with him wearing my tiara and sash." She has a shot(of jameson I think) waiting for me. I am like sure why not. So we are about to do it and then she is like, o wait ya, you need to take off your shirt too, minor detail. I am wearing a texas tank cause we had a night game(had the opp to change but chose **** it, which sucks cause one of the bars we were trying o go to that night didnt allow tanks). Anyways she starts trying to lift up my shirt, I am like wtf is going on, she then says wait I want to wear your shirt. I am like ay thats not happening but ill do the pic, so I take my shirt off and her friends take a pic of me and her kissing my cheek. Pound the jameson then throw my shirt back on. TCD and hsi two friends ar eat the bar talking to the hottest girl(iirc) at the bachelorette party. And she is trying to get all 4 of us to take off our shirts and she will buy shots for us again(we take pic with bachelorette obv).

TCD tries to change the deal to kissing the bachelorette instead of taking off his shirt, which was lol, she is like no, shirts off and pic, then you get shots. So we do that too. Get some more jameson.. And then TCD tries to flirt with the girl that bought shots. apparently(maybe im wrong) she was a 30 year old lesbian? But tcd isnt one to just give up and keeps trying to flirt with her. Even when we were about to leave the bar hes liek wait let me go get her number or something, he comes back empty handed and I am like "Let me guess, shes still a lesbian?" lol

The bachelorette party in general didnt have that many good looking girls(not many may be just 1 or two) so we ended up separating from them. They were all asian and TCD and I actually like asians, and they still were nothing to write home about but they were fun. there were also guys in the bachelorette party, which I couldnt tell if they knew them or just joined up with them(they were asian too)

confused, wondering if you guys have a good explanation:

met this girl at a bar (friend of a friend of a friend) two weekends ago. she was drunk but we had a really good conversation, tons of dancing/grinding, and a makeout. we go home separately, she texts me when she gets home saying she had a great time and hopes to see me soon.

four days later we go out together and have an awesome time. best date ive had in a year or more. we get up from the bar, she immediately locks her arm into mine, and we makeout a bunch at her door, with plans to get dinner on tuesday at this place we both wanted to try (she initiated it i think). tuesday comes, i text her at 1030 to confirm. at 1230 she said she hasnt been feeling well and is just now getting into the office and that she'll let me know how she feels later. at 4 she says she's going home, but can we please reschedule--saying she's free all weekend. i suggest thursday. she says she has a dinner then but maybe we can do dessert after if she's feeling better. thursday comes and she says she's not sure when dinner will be done, but she doesnt feel well enough to drink, so maybe we could do dessert after? i said since you dont feel great and arent sure when youll be free let's just do early next week since im out of town this weekend for a wedding. she says sounds great.

friday afternoon i text her saying hey my flight gets back late monday, so let's do something tuesday and that i'm unfortunately booked the rest of the week. she replies more than 48 hours later: "hey sorry it took me so long to get back to you. i'm busy on tuesday and i have to go underground to study for the GRE until september 16" with no suggestion of reconvening after then. she had mentioned on our date that the GRE is really, really important for the phd program she wants to get into, but that doesnt mean she cant even meet-up once.

where did i go wrong? what's the right move now? i havent replied and am leaning toward not replying at all.

Seems like nothing you did imo. Could actually be legit busy? Assuming she is working as well, if she's that serious about the GRE she may legit not want to take a night off. I mean she suggested you hang out on the weekend and you couldn't, and then only gave one day she can see you, which she could legitimately have plans for. If you had asked to hang out one night this week and it played out like this my answer may be different but you gave her 1 day in a 8 day period.

I think not replying and "All good, good luck for the exam. Flick me a text when your life returns to normal' are pretty much equal in this situation. I would probably go with a text, but I think either is fine

yeah, true. but between "getting sick," not replying for 48+ hours (though she always took a few hours to reply), and not being free for 14 days, there are some bad signs. if you like someone, you find time to hangout.

forgot to say that after our first date, she texted me to make sure i got home okay.

ALSO, forgot to say, when i said i was going to the wedding this weekend, she said ok how about next week, i said "sure, but i might be busy with my new wife"...implying that it was my wedding. she replied "Well tell your wife you have a hot date that night...she's going to have to get used to it"

so im just confused

I think the above factors actually support the fact that nothing is wrong, that she was legit sick. Remember, of the 14 days she "wasn't free", she specifically offered two prime weekend nights which you effectively rejected, and then of the next 7 you were only free 1.

From what you've said I doubt it has fizzled and my money would be on date 3 occurring on Sept 18th or 19th. Book it

well i didn't really reject the weekend offers. it's hard to go out with someone when you're 500 miles away. anyway, i still dont appreciate her taking 48 hours to get back to me. i'd say maybe i pissed her off by effectively saying "if youre not free tuesday then forget it" but still