I think all this is a complete load of rubbish. You have to remember that Henry used to pick up in high end clubs, where there were lots of other rich guys, taller, better looking guys then himself. Id say the reason he did so well, is more to do with who he is as a person and the fact that he understands woman so well and knows how to press their buttons in the right way. The fact that he is rich is just because he is successful and has passion and drive in his life. Anyone can learn to be good with girls if they are open and willing to put in the practice. Its a lot easier to become good with girls then to become a top poker player I can tell you that.

Why would you not approach the 8. Just talk to them both, and see who likes you. Girls are far less concerned with looks then guys. You have a good job, ur 6'4, I think you shud be able to pull any woman you want you just need to get some confidence.

I've never heard them called that although the name makes perfect sense but these green / yellow / red club nights are a thing. Never been to one because the ones I know of are at places that are not my crowd. I would go.

As for friends setting you up I see it as both positive and negative -- if you're shy then it is a introduction but the negative is what does that do to your position / bargaining power in the courting? I would also be concerned about pressure to connect with someone I'm not interested in because of the friends and how much that would be an issue -- obviously very much friend dependent on how pushy / high pressure they would be.

traffic light parties can be tons of fun, easy to pick out the single girls at least

I went to a rainbow party once...would recommend

+1 You should always aim for the best rather than settle. Also hooking up with 8s+ brings your confidence up a lot more. I dont get what the fryke means by he enjoys hooking up with 5's though, that sounds like an excuse to just make yourself feel better for not going for 8's+.

assuming it's not worth it to do a semester study abroad if I have a girlfriend? seems like would be much more fun single

Yeah I feel like you wouldn't get the full experience with a gf back home

I expect you wouldn't have a GF if you did this. The separation is almost certainly going to lead to a breakup at some point.

But it's a simple ev calculation IMO. 50% chance of hooking up with the 6, I'm pretty happy with that. 10% chance of hooking up with the 8, obviously I'm happier but not 5x as happy.

Numbers are obviously arbitrary but I feel like they are somewhat accurate. Obviously if I know girls I'll make moves on 8s, but it's hard to bat 2 points higher at a bar with a random.

Tbh, it lowers your value. Being setup is one thing, being setup because of lack of success sends the wrong signals.

Also, the girls will most likely set you up with less attractive girls, because they see a higher chance of success there.

Having said that, often times this is not working, because the girls wont put any effort in actually finding someone for you.

Ditch the girlfriend or agree to an open relationship for the time being.
Not doing the study abroad because of a girlfriend will be the first thing you regret when you are older.

I can confirm open relationships work well. lol.

It is always very hard to go above your level. If you went straight brute force you'd have some success but that is a really terrible idea. The much better approach is to get to their level. You said you're a 6 -- what would it take for you to be a 7? Do that. Once you're at a 7 repeat the process. The idea is not to try to go above your level but rather to raise your level to the degree required to get the type of girls you want.

The biggest obstacle is being honest and accurate in the initial evaluation and then in the list of what is required.

That sounds painful and expensive

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tinder girl coming into town tonight. will stay with me. implied that she doesnt want me to wear a condom but obv i need to. any chance she gets insulted when i go to put one on?

lolwat who cares if she gets insulted, you have to wear one regardless.

You have to wear one. This girl is engaging in really bizarre behaviour. When dealing with people like this you have to take no unnecessary risks.

In your situation I'd likely rent a hotel room-- make up some excuse about the amazing view, need for a hot tub, whatever-- and spend the night with her there.

interesting play but i'd rather not see her at all than spend ~250 on a hotel. i'll just have her over and def wrap it up.

How did she imply that she didn't want you to wear a condom?

Actually something I was thinking of doing. Been thinking about it a lot and I think I'm just too young to miss out on a such a cool experience because of a relationship. Thanks for confirming the right course of action.

she said she wanted me to come inside her

Dirty talk taken seriously with assumptions itt

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That is somewhat ambiguous and considerably less strange than what I was expecting. If she had explicitly said no condoms I'd be alert to why but this is just dirty talk and at most it could be interpreted that she is ok with no condom.

Funkys girl sounds insane to me. I agree with henry that you he should rent a hotel room instead. this girl could possibly ruin your life if you let her get too close to you. Is this the same girl that was sending you nudes?