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Originally Posted by Korlit
Please, don't do that. Massive -EV move.
THIS. DO NOT EVAR, EVAR SAY SOMETHING LIKE THIS: "i know ur busy and all but i love you and want to spend time with you."
Here are things you should say:
"When are you free to hang out?"
"What would you like to do?"
"Would you like to see a movie/go get dinner/(something else based on the fact that you know this chick better than we do)?"
Note: This girl almost certainly likes you. She has been resting her head on your shoulder. She will give you a positive response as long as you don't pressure and keep it fairly open-ended. (ie, the only way she will say no is if you come across a creepily).
And then, do not do this, "if i ever go out with her for dinner, my plan was to tell her that she was gorgeous and then that i want to get to know her better and ask her about her life."
Instead, you should actually ask her about her life, her family, her friends, actually get to know her, and then you can tell her that she's gorgeous and go from there. Talk before complimenting.
You don't need to push this one or do anything hard/tricky. Just don't come across as desperate, be patient, and you'll be fine.