That wasn't supposed to be fun -- it was supposed to be a ****ty attempt at marketing.

This also is not a serious post. Asking someone how much they are willing to bet on something without first stating what it is people are actually betting on is not how it works.

need way more info, is she a friend? are you dating? in a relationship with her?

Some stage between friend and dating?

Unless you know the guy has some sexual transmitted illness there is no reason to do this.

Why do you want to know?

Honestly I probably don't have a good reason. He's just one dude in our common entourage that I really have problems with and I'd be kinda disappointed if anything ever happened with him.

you dont want someones sloppy seconds basically

Two years, though?

Never ask.

Is that wrong?

I said 2 years but its most likely (85%) around a year ago if that changes anything.

It changes nothing.

no, because itll distract you and make you feel weird which is why not asking is better.

imo.

I ask if girls are clean. that's about it. oh, and if they are on the pill. but asking about past relationships is not a good idea.

Don't ask because you don't want to know if she did, you want it to be not true, which she can't give you even if you were entitled to it -- this is your issue that you need to get over by yourself, not transfer responsibility for it by hiding it in a little purity test. Asking puts her in a position where she owes you an explanation or an apology for things that don't have any value for you except as a qualification she can pass or fail, because that's easier than doing the work required to figure out why you care and overcoming it.

Thanks for your insightful opinion. I guess I won't ask then.

Cheers, keep looking forward.

This is a fantastic post.

Henry is 10000000 times the dating coach Chau will ever be. I respect your advice so much henry.

The fact of the matter is she had to tell me as I know 2-3 of her mates as well. My read was if she was a random and I didn't know her mates she would not have told me.

So by proceed do you mean I can still ask her on dates? Wouldn't it be better for her to contact me in this spot? I typically run into her once a week, but it will probably be more often then that.

sticky this post

Is that henry's girlfriend?

Ok so I just had the sickest weekend ever so I'll give a quick TR.

Friday went out to dinner with a friend and planned to out to a club slash pub with a few others and meet some others out there. Then, the girl who I took to dinner last week, then slept with her a couple of days later, invites herself basically. It was a rookie play by me I think to tell her that it wasn't a boys night. But it meant guaranteed sex at my house afterwards so I allowed it.

What do you guys do in that situation? Do you tell her not to come or what? I feel if she didn't come she might get bitter so I let her come . I dunno. Tough spot. Probably also factors in that her body is a ten.

Saturday night had a party with strippers. My first ever experience. Got a lap dance. Was underwhelmed though tbh. They got full into it though with double ended dildos and **** haha. It was hectic.

The end.

otty i would not have asked her to come i would have said its a boys night out. u have got her where u want her if she is inviting herself to events with u, but if ur not looking to get into a relationship with her, u need to make sure she is not getting too clingy.

Thread was picking up steam until Henrggy knocked the train off the tracks. Man up and get a loan from your brother Chau if you want your little business to pick up.

Henry obviously can't have sex with randos (idk is that his gf?) so you both should just coach someone and see how many girls he can have sex with over a period of time after receiving instruction from each of you or something. IDK but you can't just back down after calling the forum out like that.

your video still makes me chuckle btw stop being a pussy and put up 50k and we can come up with a good bet for you. You're a pro stalker btw

Had a gig last night. Could've probably been a good chance to go creeping after showing off my fingering skills on the keys.

Yes.

This needs a lot more details.

1) Did she inject herself into something she clearly was not invited to or did you mention it and she misunderstood and though you were inviting her?

2) Is you goal to keep this casual or are you working toward a relationship?

3) Was this a all male outing or were other girls going to attend?

good post. would like to see u post in the tougher spots in this thread, not just the easy ones. hint- pursuing a chick who has told u she has a bf, but acts like she is single/interested in u. i think this is very different from pursuing a chick who u suspect might have a bf but she has not told u.