yeah i mean i have 0 intentions and never would pursue anything further with this girl. at all. if yeota was here he'd lololol his ass off at me.

i'd really like his opinion but (as yeota's brother texted me today with lots of lols) he's living at his wife's house for spring break

also this girl has been texting me pretty much non-stop all day, and if i dont respond within 15 minutes i get a 2nd text. she's trying to get me to go to a movie with her tonight and, i must admit, it's tempting cause i really want to see alice but dont want to go alone.

I'm assuming she hasn't broken up with her bf yet, text her "Id love to see a movie with you, but nothing can happen until you break up with your bf"
That way: you look like a good guy, make her want you even more, and most importantly can see the movie without any awkwardness. Then when she does break up, you can ignore her and well, move on.

Or just go see the movie. It looks pretty cool.

i'd rather not give her any implication at all that i want anything more with her. she even made a probing comment about it last night and i responded quite affirmatively that i am not even entertaining the idea (and im not).

i just wanna see alice but always feel like a n00b going to a movie alone. i wouldnt pay for her so it's whatever.

and just so we're all clear on this right now: this girl will not be getting the designation E.

I would avoid going to the movie with her like she has the plague

You should get over this. There's no reason to feel weird about hitting up the theater by yourself sometimes.

1) Going to a movie alone is a thing I was terribly self-conscious about when I was younger, but that was weird and dumb of me. I've done it when I've had a girlfriend, if you wanna see the damn movie see the movie, if you can't find a friend to go with you see it by yourself. It's not like movie-watching is an inherently social activity.

2) I don't understand what's wrong with going, seeing the movie, fooling around with the girl some more, and then letting her leave to go to whereeveristan. I mean, is the girl annoying or something?

she can be annoying (and so can i), but i'd be lying if i said i didnt like the attention

are you willing to hook up with her?

edit: hook up=sexy time

This.

no, but i dont think this matters.

But I think only a douche wouldn't allow his gf see a movie with another guy. I mean, you're just watching a movie with this chick.

well she provides you 0 value, why would you go to movie with her?

also, regarding the movie by yourself thing...do you ever watch movies by yourself at home? I'm sure everyone has. There's also a reason why movie theaters are bad dates, because there is no interaction between human beings!

if she truly provided 0 value, then i wouldnt be considering bringing her.

i think y'all need to recall my post from like 2-3 weeks ago where i talked at length about how many times i really just prefer hanging out with women as opposed to men. women do offer more value than sex, you know.

do you really want to make friends with a 19yr old? (she is 18 or 19, right?)

and to clarify im fine with going to a movie alone, but if i have the option of having a friend with me, why not?

haha he'd be 100 % justified in being pissed off

and mostly I'm worried you are gonna have a stalker/psycho on your hands, which would specifically make her negative value IMO

man you guys are brutal tonight

also i am going to the movie with her, but i also invited a mutual 3rd party (male) friend who is coming too so it's pretty obv what my intentions are to all parties

ya but this chick obviously digs you and you dont want to be giving the wrong impressions...

yeah i think ive made it clear. by setting the movie up with her and adding "oh btw XYZ is coming too" i think i made it fairly obv.

bwhahaha i was jut thinking how much i hate it when chicks do that to me. set something up like a date then go "oh BTW jeff is coming too!"

see now you never mentioned this earlier in thread IIRC

this is completely diff situation

edit: sit by brosef, and try to keep her away from you. if she is anywhere near competent she will realize that. I was in pursuit of a girl and she made it impossible to sit by her at the theater and then later that night she pulled an LKJ girl and refused to sit by me on couch. Then a week later my mutual friend is like, "hey I talked to girl and she doesn't want a BF right now." I'm like ****dlfakjsdlfkdjsaflasjflsajflas why did you talk to her FML I already knew she wasn't interested she made that very clear with body language and you went and had "the talk."

that's because it's an audible i just called in the last 15 minutes

He fools around once and then she is a stalker/psycho immediately?

Go see the movie, enjoy the company, just make sure you're clear on what is and what isn't happening.

"I'll see a moview with u but I'm not fooling around with u....."

Nothing wrong with that satement

edit: in fact it'll even make you more interesting, but at least you're clear

aha ya but karak has already explained her intentions. that's the reason why most guys would care. because once a girl is doing this she pretty much wants to break up. i think girls can also turn this into a fight to end the relationship. like "u don't trust me to even go to the movies with a guy friend. you're to controlling i don't want to be with you". then the guy is like omg i overreacted and lost something great and texts/calls her saying sorry all the while she's f'ing that guy he was worried about.

girls are used to all the power that comes with sex so most don't end a relationship rationally. my ex and i hookedup for months after we broke up and it'd always be the same routine. we'd hangout and flirt and she'd try to get me to try and escalate things. i then would make a move and she'd deny me so she felt like she was powerful and in control. then a little while later we'd have sex and after she'd be all over me cuddling as if we were still in a relationship. they lose all their power as soon as you bust a nut and no longer care about the sex.