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Originally Posted by ShipItMehr
Well, she initiated the relationship, and she's hot, can you blame me? No one in the office knows about it; she told me to not disclose it so she can keep personal separate from work.
Thanks for the feedback so far. Def gonna de attach myself but still stay friendly. Prob will end up hanging out for fun and see what happens. She told me to invite her to one of my tennis matches that same day. I am an attorney doing compliance and she is on the same project. Def risky to go for a co worker but this project is somewhat temporary and her T and A makes my brain say I can handle it ; ).
I was brought up in a slightly more conservative values household so this have a bf but mess around stuff is kind of surprising to me. But I guess that's how it works these days. I initially saw this girl as a possible gf but after all this I feel like maybe she's just the have fun type. I think that's what hurt me a little.
Also, what does keep it light mean Eey, is that another way of saying don't stay attached?
Yes, you got it right.This girl is risky.
Both cause of her bf and job.
But that's what makes it hot, amirite?
What could happen down the road,but don't get your hopes up,is she falls in love with you and quits her job to make you happy.
If you don't chase her and fawn over her,this is more possible.
If you try to woo her ,she will probably lose respect for you and end up using you for her selfishness.
Its messed up,but women think this way.
So keep it light,don't get serious. Good luck.