Quote:
Originally Posted by LT22
...and women have other friends, who are often hot
Bingo. Can't believe I forgot to mention that. I can't tell you how many girls I've gotten involved with by meeting them through a mutual female friend. A mutual female friend introducing you to a girl instantly dispels 28348234 of the concerns women have about guys.
"Well, he can't be creepy because X is friends with him. And he's probably not a user otherwise X wouldn't have introduced us. And he must be smart and funny, or X wouldn't hang out with him."
As opposed to cold approaching a girl or being introduced by a guy friend:
"Weird, he needs his guy friends to help him meet girls? He's probably a creep." (obviously there are some guy friends where being introduced can help. For example if D were single and I told her she should pursue a guy, she'd probably trust my judgment because she knows I'm a huge cynic and like to investigate people's personality traits fully... and I'd never set her up with a known creep)
These are issues which obviously fall under the doctrines of "social proofing."