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I can only imagine that awesome things would ensue.

Among them would certainly be me trying to tell girls I was in town for a dating coach conference.

bwahaha

here's a pick up line i saw tonight. i don't suggest you use it, but i guess i can imagine some contexts where it would be effective.

"you are the cutest thing I've seen all day and I just got done teaching baby ducks how to swim"

Ok quick rant.

Anyone have advice for not caring about the girls you care about? The last few weeks for me have been abso-****ing-lutely ridiculous in this department. It's like if I don't care about the girl and we are introduced there is like a 100% chance I hook up with her (e.g. this weekend). On the other hand if I'm even remotely interested I do stupid **** like hanging around for an hour on Weds.

The obvious solution is to try to trick yourself into not caring about the girls you care about but that is hard for obvious reasons.

not caring doesn't always help. you just don't remember the other 100 girls that week u didn't care about and didn't hook up with.

Haha...dammit man. That was cold.

My recent exchanges with other girls have given me a nice dose of perspective on that girl, at least.

Why is it in the most intimate setting is the only time they where clothes?

wat

lolllllllllllll at a DD being needed. refusing to drive drunk is typical nice guy behavior.

hes not invited ainec

Better not schedule this near a bowling alley.

LOLLLL this was a nice 1-2 teddy

This is pretty standard

bwahahaha A++++

i once got ****faced at the bowling alley. we brought a funnell.

This is a FANTASTIC ****ing idea...

no one else is posting so i'll just complain. the one girl i'm interested in a relationship with is being weird. i think she thinks i just want to hit it when in reality she's the only girl i've ever respected like this. i haven't hooked up with anyone in like a month just so if we start the relationship we don't go through the whole "did u hookup with anyone else while we were talking?" dilemma. she's 100% not hooking up with anyone otherwise i'd probably be to insecure and be hooking up with other girls.

but ya i'm a guy i want to ****. and there's one girl who i've been talking to who is 100% and i'm pretty sure her bestfriend is like 90% if i wanted to be a douche and take that route which i don't think i would. me and the 2nd girl are supposed to "hangout" this week. so i'm going to put it off until thursday and if i see progress from the first girl before that then i'll cancel on the 2nd girl again. idk how confident in myself i am to not hook up with anyone this coming weekend. in reality i probably would have done something last weekend with like a 5/10 if ppl didn't start fighting

Call me ghey, but I don't see the need for regular sex. Obviously different for different people, but I've never been fussed by a one night stand. Can't see the point waking up with a girl who's gonna leave in an hours time or whatever. If you can keep it in your pants, for the sake of the better girl, I definitely would.

With regards to the girl I like, think I got the wrong end of the stick thinking she'd broken up with her bf, fml. They just have a pretty casual relationship that allows for messing around with others apparently (no sarcasm). Wasn't going to strive to contact her after her 'Happy V-day' text, but I'm starting to think she is just a bit naieve and doesnt realise. She text last night asking how a gig that she knows i was going to was. Cba with texting so rang her and we had a long chat, in passing I apologised for being a dick the other night again, and she said herself that it really wasn't that bad.

But yah, think it's confirmed on the backburner with her.

Went on kind of a blind date with this girl saturday. (she's seen me b4 and told her friend she thought i was cute, so they set this up) Me/her, my roomate Jared/his gf kelly, and another friend/his gf went and saw the movie Valentines day. Was 10pm movie and afterward we go back to the house and we all play Catch phrase and a couple other games til like 4:30am. They all go to bed, me and Sarah end up watchin wedding Crashers and passing out on the couch together. Didnt make out or anything (i know i know im an idiot etc, etc). Anyway aside from that it went really well. Next couple days shes been textin me quite a bit. Def seems like shes interested.

Anyway when 4 of us were drivin back from the movie she mentioned this bar that she wanted to go to that ive never heard of. (was me, Jared, Kelly, and sarah in the car. those 3 are all really good friends btw) So im gonna ask her to do somethin for thurs or fri. Should i ask her if she wants to go to that bar and see if Jared/Kelly wanna come too or would i be better off just askin her to like dinner/maybe bowling or somethin so its just us 2? Not really that much to do around here btw so options for a date are kinda limited. What u think?

in before people laugh about bowling (for a reason you may not understand...fwiw, im anti-bowling, and you seem to be in way too good of a situation to waste time bowling).

i would give her a call wed or thurs. and do a dinner/drinks at the bar thing. you know...like a date. you pick her up, take her to the bar (unless its not a restaurant too, then id go to a real place first, then the bar). leave jared and kelly at home ldo.

seems like youre in a pretty good spot.

Go with the bowling. Dinner really sucks for a first date.

Or the always fail proof pick up line.

When she asks for your major say: "Women studies"

She: "Really?"

You: *Glance her up and down" "You are right thats more of a hobby"

Corny pick up lines always woo the ladies

disagree. its time to be an adult, plus this is a second date and shes already showing a lot of interest in him.

time to be an adult? are adults not allowed to bowl?

stuffy formal be-an-adult dates are exactly the way to come across as boring, uninteresting and awkward

dinner dates are not optimal because you have not built a rapport with the person yet and conversation can seem forced and awkward

bowling, on the other hand, is an active date where the two of you will be moving around, having fun, laughing and she can see how awesome, funny and fun you are. dinner dates are old and cliche. everyone does them. a bowling date is new and fun. bowling dates are also a lot more of an effective way to build kino (attraction through physical interaction) because you can move around freely, bounce around her, move in, move out, tease, have fun.

at a dinner date you sit in a fixed location with a piece of wood between you.

Modest updates from my life:

D is my best friend again all of a sudden. I mean we've always been close, but now it's getting pretty thick from her. She didn't see me all day yesterday and she sent me like 2-3 e-mails wondering where I am. I'm not going to make anything of it, (as prior established I'm not interested romantically). I just find it amusing since she has a guy she's dating now (but not as "boyfriend/girlfriend" yet) who I'm friends with, but I'm pretty sure he is very wary of me because he sees me (correctly, from his vantage point, incorrectly if he had complete information) as a threat.

B is funny. Very friendly so far this week. I was kind of awk early Monday because I was still really pissed off from the weekend (had a bad weekend otherwise too), but I've warmed up since then. I got to the library last night and saw AB sitting together. I said hi, but then went to another table across the room to work. B, who had all of her **** spread out on the table she was on, picked absolutely everything up and moved across the room to sit across from me. lol. The usual 2-3 guys stopped to hit on her as they passed by in the library. They are all so awkward. I pretend to not be paying attention, but I'm always eavesdropping and loling on the inside.

Gf-guy is clearly aware I'm pissed off at him. He was my best ****ing friend in the whole world yesterday. I thought the dude was going to offer to cook me dinner. He awkwardly tried to bring up what happened. I was talking to a group of people and made a joke about "sometimes I have a big mouth" (I'm being sarcastic, of course, cause as you can probably guess I'm quite loud and boisterous IRL). He quickly said quietly to me (no one else could hear), "I guess that kinda happened this weekend right?" I assume he was referring to the profanity filled texts I sent him while we were at the club (never told you guys about them because I forgot I sent them until later that day, and I do not regret sending them). I just gave him a cold look and said, "it happens."

I don't want to be pissed off at him, but I couldn't help it as of yesterday. Just every time I saw the guy it made me think of what he was doing this weekend, and it made my blood boil. I think I'm pretty much over it by now, but I haven't seen much of him today. I hope I am.

B is a **** probably