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07-27-2011 , 01:58 PM
I'm okay with moving on. Until our next dust-up, of course.
07-27-2011 , 02:05 PM
why would she say that
07-27-2011 , 02:07 PM
I don't know; it came as quite a surprise to me too.
07-27-2011 , 02:47 PM
Must have been some emotional sex
07-27-2011 , 03:07 PM
I actually have never had a girl say anything strange in bed which is strange as outside of bed they have said a lot of insane things.
07-27-2011 , 03:15 PM
Depends on your perception of strange.

I think there's a fine line on the subject between strange, and like dirty/naughty things.
07-27-2011 , 07:05 PM
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Originally Posted by LKJ
Toph, Vintage, TBE remain taken. GCG remains weird. Nothing much has changed. Oh, Zugz is now taken as well, and actually said he was thinking of popping the question but I have to guess he was kidding and it got little discussion.

Also I should mention mflip's name because he got butthurt when I left him out of the last power ranking.
I'm just going to say that I have already made my mind up on the matter and been shopping for rings. Taking LSAT again in December so not allowing any distractions until then but expect me to be engaged by the turn of the year.

Last edited by zzthe3rd; 07-27-2011 at 07:06 PM. Reason: Oh yeah and we're living together.
07-27-2011 , 07:06 PM
07-27-2011 , 07:10 PM
lol I'll post a pic when she invariably says yes.
07-27-2011 , 07:18 PM
Wow good s*** man. Hope it all works out for you zz
07-27-2011 , 07:22 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by zzthe3rd
I'm just going to say that I have already made my mind up on the matter and been shopping for rings. Taking LSAT again in December so not allowing any distractions until then but expect me to be engaged by the turn of the year.
wat
07-27-2011 , 07:40 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by zzthe3rd
lol I am not a girl and can't remember the exact date. I said approx. Change it to "early June" if that helps.
(That's in reference to when he went official with her.)

You became exclusive like six weeks ago and you've moved in together and are shopping for rings? You're the same one who said he wouldn't go exclusive because he couldn't stand monogamy. You've pulled THIS much of an about-face in two months?

I mean, best wishes if this is real and you're going through with it come hell or high water, but holy ****.
07-27-2011 , 07:45 PM
wow
07-27-2011 , 07:48 PM
Quote:
Casanova attributed his success in life to his ability to concentrate on a single goal and push at it until it yielded. It was his ability to give himself over completely to the women he desired that made him so intensely seductive. For the weeks or months that one of these women lived in his orbit, he thought of no one else. When he was imprisoned in the treacherous "leads" of the doge's palace in Venice, a prison from which no one had ever escaped, he concentrated his mind on the single goal of escape, day after day. A change of cells, which meant that months of digging had all been for naught, did not discourage him; he persisted and eventually escaped. "I have always believed," he later wrote, "that when a man get it into his head to do something, and when he exclusively occupies himself in that design, he must succeed, whatever the difficulties. That man will become Grand Vizier or Pope.
.

Also, citing the start of June or w/e is a bit disingenuous when you consider the fact that no REAL action is going to be taken on it for another ~4 months. So it is still short, but not married-in-vegas-stupid short.

Oh and for anyone that forgot (not LKJ obv) or didn't read the original TRs way back when, we were very close friends for 2 years or so before all this went down.

Last edited by zzthe3rd; 07-27-2011 at 07:57 PM.
07-27-2011 , 07:57 PM
ZZ officially the most disillusion poster itt. a friend of mine is doing exactly what you're doing and i think it's the stupidest thing in the world.
07-27-2011 , 08:04 PM
The obvious question is: what's the big damn hurry?

Last edited by LKJ; 07-27-2011 at 08:08 PM. Reason: I ask this out of love, of course.
07-27-2011 , 08:12 PM
maybe it's to constantly have something to look forward to and to feel as if the relationship is progressing? i honestly don't get it. if it's great enough to want to be married then i'd think people would be perfectly happy keeping things how they are until they're secure (in multiple ways) enough to actually be married. it's something i'll never relate to. according to a sociology teacher i had (no idea what her source was) 1 in 3 married people cheat.

there should be no fear of losing your significant other by waiting if things are really as good as they should be to be thinking about this stuff.
07-27-2011 , 08:13 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by LKJ
The obvious question is: what's the big damn hurry?
Yeah I think this is a fair question.

I'm not sure why couples don't just be exclusive and live together for a while and just wait to get married or here's a novel idea don't get married. It just seems like now a days if a marriage goes bad(in no way saying of wishing yours to) the man gets completely f***** over. I've never understood the rush to put a title on things, I know to most women marriages and the thought of their wedding days makes them wet and that's fine but no need to rush into a huge huge financial commitment imo
07-27-2011 , 08:23 PM
idk it just feels like the right thing to do? There is also a difference between proposing and actually getting married. Engagement seems more like just a declaration of my intentions. Unless there is some unwritten rule about maximum time between that and the marriage that I don't know about? Couldve sworn that I have heard of multiple-year-long engagements. In any case not in a rush whatsoever to actually BE married. End of law school at the earliest.
07-27-2011 , 08:36 PM
most peoples relationship is just as serious as yours and they don't get engaged for 3yrs just so people know. if someone asks you how things are going between you two just say great and say you're convinced you'll marry her. i don't see how that's not the same. just enjoy the time together. getting engaged or married doesn't suddenly make the relationship more serious, important, or better.

also i've seen that it's agreed upon on reddit and 2p2 thread that if the engagement goes off the guy doesn't get the ring back.
07-27-2011 , 08:38 PM
Also, not every girl is cool with a long engagement.

07-27-2011 , 09:01 PM
She was so hot in walk hard.
07-27-2011 , 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted by zzthe3rd
There is also a difference between proposing and actually getting married.
And what would that be?
07-27-2011 , 09:15 PM
I mean, we all knew that martilo was a risk to go off the deep end, but this honestly is the most shocking thing this thread has seen. Most shocking to me anyway.
07-27-2011 , 09:24 PM
ZZ you lost your mind. Girl must be something special, this is insane you're not trolling right now. Was just a few months ago that you were banging a diff girl every week.

      
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