+1

Girl telling you to hook up with her + multiple times = brag in any context.


congrats dude



Edit: also, GROW A PAIR

Yeah, gg. Just go places with her and eventually you'll keep hooking up/dating.

You probably couldn't get her off you even if you tried to do so.

thanks for all the positive responses guys

Sorta along those lines, since I last updated it's felt very relationshipish with A and myself. I know a relationship is what I want and I'm almost positive it's what she wants to. I remember reading earlier in the thread that it's basically on the girl to bring up the "being official" convo, what's the rationale behind this? I'm going to get a couples massage w/ her tomorrow and to dinner on Valentine's Day, thoughts on me just bringing it up (probably at dinner)?

From the V-day you've got described, I don't think it would be that bad for you to bring it up at all.

Called her after work and left a msg asking if she wanted to meet up tomorrow night, she just texted me back saying she's busy meeting potential new roommates or something and asked for a rain check.

I was kinda hoping to do something easy & casual during the week to (if it went well) set up something easy and casual for Sunday so I don't have to be alone on v-day, but looks like that won't work out.

Meh, at least V-Day is a Sunday. Sucks to spend it alone on a Friday or Saturday, but other days of the week...whatever.

ive learned to never leave a message.
if she calls back/texts, great, awesome, youre in.
but leaving a message is demoralizing.
i will never leave a girl who gave me her number a voice mail again.

So then what? You leave a girl with a phone showing a missed call from a number she probably won't recognize unless you gave her your number and it's been put in her phone? She's almost never going to call back on that. I know that I sure just ignore missed calls from unknown numbers.

I think leaving a message is fine, you can pull a toomanyletters and figure out every word in advance and as long as you can pull it off casually and sound good then it probably comes off better than a text does.

i don't see anything wrong with bringing it up in general. as long as your not to forward and like intimidating about it. but in your scenario it sounds like there's not a whole lot you can do to **** it up now.

i don't leave a message because a lot of ppl don't check voicemails. then again i don't even call. just texting is fine imo

Monday's a holiday though. So it's basically Saturday.

Yeah, I hate leaving messages, but it beats the alternative when you consider that they're gonna know you called anyway

Ok, so I gave the package to the reception yesterday (wrapped a shoe box, lined it with tissue paper, made cream coloured straw and everything, took effing forever, she better like it.) so now it's just waiting til she gets it.

A nice bit of help from her mother though, which I'll get to in a second. Me and some mates from our football team got home after our game Tuesday night and deicded to do the Centurion (100 shots of beer in 100 minutes if this isn't played in the US). Anyway, we've completed it, we're pretty drunk, and we one by one filter back home after a while. I always ring the above girl when drunk, it's become a routine thing with us. Don't know why, just has, and anyway I ring her, this is about 3am or so. She is stone cold sober.
She starts saying things like "oh if you weren't so drunk you could come round for tea," etc etc. I've forgotten how I played this, but I do know that a few minutes later I have my dressing gown and trainers on (lol) and am heading down there. I stay round, same bed obv, but no secks or kissing or anything, my drunkenness won't have helped.
Morning comes, I regret thinking coming down in dressing gown and trainers was a good idea, as I have to make my way back home in this attire about 1pm, fml. Before I left, she got a text from her mother saying that she'd sent her up something for her. This ensures that she'll be checking her post either today or Friday which is ideal.

Yeah it's not gonna **** it up, I was just wondering if there's any reason that the girl generally brings up the convo, noob question I know lol

its not that big of deal man, there is basketball and hockey on all day to get your mind off it, just be thankful you dont have to pay for sex that night(essentially what vday is all about IMO). Hell, do what WonThyme did and try a Centurion with some buddies, they are always a good time!

2 questions:
1) use light beer or regular for the Centurion?
2) WTF is a dressing gown?

I'm not sure what we consider a light beer, but we used Foster's which is a pretty standard 4% beer. Perhaps being 4% over 5% makes it light?

And a dressing gown is also known as a robe? Like for just lounging around out, or after a shower/bath? Quentin Tarantino is wearing one at the end of Pulp Fiction, I think.

WHAT THE HELL IS A DRESSING GOWN

ffs

http://www.johnlewis.com/63898/Style.aspx

But mens, obv.

a robe

WonThyme: i got to 88 and puked (dont eat ribs beforehand ftl)

looking good for her checking her post, im confused tho, who drinks tea at 3am?

Ah, not a bad effort though. A couple of the guys want to do it with wine next time ffs.

That's another thing that's just one of those weird things between us, we always have tea together.

wine would be a disaster!

k just got caught up on some of this thread (not all of them so forgive me). is it too late to attach a card to her present? i would give her one, but dont write anything too forward/creepy in tho, cuz i kinda got the feeling you're getting friendzoned. maybe i missed something...

lol

I see why you'd think that, but we've got together previously, but she had a boyfriend at the time who she point blank refused to dump (not that I asked her though.) After a few drunken arguments about it, I got pretty frustrated and told her to grow up, tell her bf she no longer likes him and stop effing him around, but that I'm not gonna sit around waiting for that to happen. It was before xmas and I forget exactly how it went, but something like that, we went back to just being friends.

Often though, she'll bring it up again and just last week was all like "what are we? Just friends? We're not really though are we?" sort of thing, after I introduced her to some friends from home. And now that she'd dumped her boyfriend, I figured it's worth a shot as I really do like her a lot.

And yeah, it would be too late. Putting a card just confirms that it's a Valentine's thing, and could potentially go weird and awkward if my read is completley off. Therefore, hopefully she'll realise that a Valentine's thing is implied (she'd have to be pretty dumb not to I think, though she is female), and then when I see her Friday night I can chat to her face to face about it rather than leaving her to form own idea about it.

Thing is, the stuff we do together (staying round each other's place and stuff like that, chatting on Skype for an hour when it feels like 5 minutes) is stuff she doesn't do with ehr other good friends. Also, the first time I saw her back at uni after Xmas was in the student club - I was pretty drunk at the time, but apparently her boyfriend had to come racing over and stand between us because it was getting pretty intimate, this was standing by the bar.

lolz my bad, i was way off, didnt read everything, have fun going to town on her tomorrow nite

Haha, thanks. I'll report back obv. Gonna head to reception tommorow lunchtime, see if she's picked it up, and if not, arrange for someone to drop a hint that she has post.

Another thing last week in the club, my best mate comes over to me and kisses me. I'm like "wtf ygos" and he says "that's from xxx (the girl), she said to give it you". If I was reading this from anyone else, I'd be like "ffs siihp" but its never as obvious/simple when it concerns yourself!

i dont know how the **** u guys do 1 shot per minute for 60 minutes much less 100 minutes

i get to like 45 and it always happens my stomach is so full i cant burp cuz right when im about to we have to take another shot so it cant come up and i end up just trying real hard and throwing up