Ok since I live in a quasi-totalitarian country I religiously follow the topics and since she's working and not a student I posted in EDF but didn't get much response there so here goes
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Need some advice. Might sound like a pussy writing this but whatever.
Met this very nice Brazilian girl a week ago and spent basically two full days together (no sex just making out etc).. Thing is, she was only visiting Europe and is now back in Brazil. We've been talking on MSN and having webcam conversations etc (even played "Never have I ever" when being like 9000 miles away from each other, wtf am I doing) since she got back and the conversations have increased my liking of her.
I've been pondering the thought of going and visiting her in Brazil, for a couple of reasons. One, I'd really like to get to know her better, It's snowy and ****ty here right now and I'd really like to get some sun and I'd like to go to Brazil since I haven't been there yet.
Now, I don't know the language (Portuguese) and she's starting work again soon (only working 50% but still) so the time we actually hang out together while I'm hypothetically there might be quite limited.
So we've been talking about it for a while and we've both been hinting on the idea that I really should go and see her..
Now a couple of things. I think I'm starting to get a oneitis for a girl that lives on the other side of the globe, that I've only met a few days etc etc. So I've decided to try and snap out of it and, honestly, I just think going down there would lower my chances for us keeping in touch since that just looks so incredibly needy and "you're the only one for me" etc.
So I've finally (took a week hahah) snapped out of my fairytale (or..?) world and would now need to get some advice on how to proceed. I'd like to meet her again since she's really awesome but I'm not gonna try to get into a long distance relationship or whatever since that'll never work.
Should I just say how it is to her face (online, something like "I like you and w/e but we're living on opposite sides of the globe right now"), try to meet up with her next time we're both traveling (we both love to travel) OR still go down and visit her and see it more as a vacation than a date or whatever..zzz. Or maybe your advice!
Some more random info that might be helpful. I'm currently studying, will be done in 1½ year or so, she's working -> traveling -> working -> traveling more or less.
If you read this far and want even more info,
here's a follow-up post I made.
Thanks