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Originally Posted by GoodGame
when i read vintage's post i thought it was forsure going to be something he said in his sleep that she was mad about. i wouldn't sweat it. when girls are looking for an out sometimes they do things to sabotage the relationship but this doesn't look like it.
but i bet if this was the first month of the relationship she wouldn't leave without you knowing and send that text lol. something to just be aware of.
lol good timing with this...
Zugzwang life update
FFG and I have spent essentially every second together since she broke up with the boyfriend. Still not sure how much I LIKE like her though.. In any case it has been great because like I said once upon a time she is a great gf material kind of person. Has been doing tons of little stuff that when added up is awesome.. Cooking, laundry, coming to drive me home when I get too drunk, the works.
Right now the point we are at is she said when she broke up with the bf she only wanted to see me, has dropped the L bomb a few times (drunkenly to be fair), expressed a desire for me to not hookup with anyone else and I said that if I did I would let her know so we would stop as she doesnt want to be in any sort of rotation.
Last night at like 12:15am I fell asleep right after a BJ and when I woke up 45 minutes later she was like "Are you still going to the gas station to get black and milds before you go to the gym?"
Yes of course I am.
Paraphrase: "Can you just take me home? I don't want to go to workout anymore and if I stay here tonight I won't get to sleep until like 4am (she has a 11am class). And tomorrow I can just be by myself all day and clear my head and get stuff done yada yada yada."
Me: WTFlook!?!?
"Aw ok do you want me to stay that badly?"
Well, really I just don't want to drive you home.
This was the first night we didnt spend together in like 3 weeks and I mean I have definitely been missing my alone time BADLY but didn't want to say anything to her about it out of fear of it coming across the wrong way. I digress.
Now this would've been totally cool with me except for the fact that she could have thought of this sooner in the day at 8 - when she picked me up from soccer, we essentially pass her apartment on the way to my place. So I was mildly annoyed at the lack of foresight on her end. But like when I expressed this annoyance she got all distant and ****. Like, not a word in the car on the way to drop her off, when we got there she got out of the car, grabbed some stuff from the backseat, and went inside not a word. Furthermore after I got back from working out at like 4am, she was on facebook. For Fk Sake!
So she is either mad about something I said in the 45 minutes I was asleep, or perhaps the drive-you-home comment but that wouldnt make sense as she already wanted to leave. Or maybe she is mad about 2 things. A distant possibility is that her ex-ex-bf (the one she dated for like 3years) just got back in the country so maybe she is rethinking her never-date-him-again policy. In any case she hasn't contacted me at all today and I fear is expecting some sort of apology. I am normally not one to pander to people in this regard - apologizing is no big deal to me if I am actually in the wrong, but I never would do it just to make someone feel better.
This is where you come in SL! I leave the fate of the potential apology in the hands of the top 9 posters. Wouldve done 10 but Hank never comes round these parts anymore. And what could be more fun than a goosebumps choose your adventure type TR! So we vote!
Apologize or no?
Karak:
LKJ:
Vintage:
GCG:
CCuster:
GG:
TBE:
Yeota:
Goofy:
FWIW she is almost as stubborn as I am so I fear if the apology does not happen, things with FFG have a decent chance of being buried. So it goes.
Last edited by zzthe3rd; 06-01-2011 at 03:53 AM.
Reason: Also hilariously enough I think ArtsyGirl and FFGs ex are now hooking up rofl