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Originally Posted by abcdefghijk
so i saw this hot girl twice today who i was talking about recently in this thread. first time she says hi and smiles as she walks by me. i think "good."
second time i see i sit at her table for dinner tonight. she's almost done her meal, but she doesn't establish eye contact and within 10 secs of me sitting down leaves the table. moreover, she gets a cookie but doesn't rejoin the table and walks out with the cookie. wtf does this mean?
P.S. this isn't the first time she's done something like this. One day when i sat in the seat next to her at lunch, she literally moved her chair away from me (this was a couple days after we flirted heavily one night), but a couple days after that incident where she moved her chair away from me, she went out of her way to sit next to me at lunch.
so basically this is the 2nd time i've gotten conflicting messages, at least as I view it, so i'm pretty confused.
i'm not sure if this matters, but she's really smart (valedictorian of her high school) and kind of a social loner. eg she hangs out mainly with 1 or 2 of her friends and that's it.
also, idk if this explains her behavior, but i've handled it pretty awkwardly in the 2 weeks since i asked her out by acting real awkward and bumbly around her, but i'm not gonna do that **** anymore.
Anyways, what do you make of these new and old developments, does she want to hang out with me/not want to hang out with me?
and btw bambam, i wanna go out with her and even develop a relationship. she's hot and our personalities match well together, and there are very very few girls at my school who are hot and very few who i have good chemistry with.
Sorry for the late response abc. Girls that give you mixed signals are always annoying. Did she give you a mixed signal after or before you asked her out? What was so awkward about asking her out? How did you ask her out? After you answer those questions I can give you the advice you need. If you really like her and want to get to know her, I gurantee we can get her to be yours.
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Originally Posted by MILF ISLAND
Also agree with Korlit re BamBam. great advice and keep it up. But i have to ask are you a girl, gay or just awesome with women?
Haha, I am not trying to be cocky or anything, but I am just good with women. I have had a lot of experience with them and know how the mind works, because its actually not all that different from us guys. Women are just as simple minded as us guys. They just show it differently.
Also thanks for the compliments fellas.
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Originally Posted by Korlit
Girls are just like poker imo, some people have a talent, but most have to work their way up. And you play it badly, make mistakes and lose, but then you learn from your mistakes and grow some balls. One day you realize that you can beat this game. Or you just give up and live your simple live. I keep working on my poker game and I can beat it, but girls are just another issue. I don't want to be pathetic, but my heart was broken a few times and now I'm just afraid of any relationship. I mean I'm decent looking, interesting and confident but there's just something wrong about psychology...
I understand what you are saying Korlit. I have had my heart broken once. It was not the best time of my life. But there comes a point when you have to wake up and say "wtf am I doing?". Because in order to beat the game, you have to play. Just like poker, reading books and videos is a great help, but being in the action and playing is where you learn the most. You just need to realize you can get girls. The girl who broke your heart has moved on, she is somewhere and not to sound rude, but not thinking about you. Why should you be worried about her? If you have confidence, use it. Go talk to a girl. Open your mind that there are women out there who are hot, sexy, and interesting, and willing to date/one night stand/sex you. So get out there and get some numbers, party it up, and enjoy life.
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Originally Posted by Korlit
you post hand histories, the game is just different.
Very true.